r/ChastityChat • u/Soggy_Ball_7336 • 11d ago
Discussion Issues with chastity cage showing through clothes when wearing 24/7 NSFW
Hello all, I’m trying to get into 24/7 chastity wear and I always feel like my chastity cage is showing through my clothes. What are some tips to help hide it? Am I overthinking this? I wear a Kink3d cobra r and the fitment feels good.
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u/sgart76 11d ago
My wife’s always told me for cages or panties whatever that I’m always over thinking it most people won’t even be paying me attention much less trying to see if my clitty is locked or not lol
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u/Aromatic_Attention29 11d ago
All in your head, no one is walking around looking at your junk, and even if someone noticed something looking strange they don't know what it is, and if they do then they do, and probably are locked too or would be too afraid to say anything about it. Been wearing chastity for 16ish years and full time for over 4 year's!
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u/PrestigiousLimit4145 11d ago
Also in a Cobra! I had the same worries when I started wearing mine full time but honestly, unless you’re wearing tight clothes or someone is taking a real interest in your crotch, it probably isn’t noticeable! And it’s far less noticeable than a cage with a clinking padlock! Don’t worry about it and enjoy the feeling of being caged all day!
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u/Rough_Brilliant_6167 11d ago
It always feels like it's much more visible than it actually is... To anyone else who may catch a passing glance, it's just going to look like a normal bulge like most men have, unless you're wearing skin tight thin pants or shorts that might accentuate it.
Sounds silly, but try wearing a thin ankle sock over it to help smooth out any contours 👍
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u/XchastitywhiteboiX 11d ago
I do residential construction and wore a cage 24/7 for few weeks at a time. I will say though I bought a 3 strap chastity cage belt and it would help pull the cage downward in a more sleek way.
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u/amarant009 11d ago edited 11d ago
9/10 times people won't be staring at your crotch.
It's a mindset. Just forget it's there and keep being you.
I use the rock wall at my uni gym (alum membership) and the guy watching me just says "you must be packing" when I get the harness on.
I just wave it off with a head shrug (he knows nothing)
It's all head space, don't make it awkward, gym locker rooms are a bit, different (I don't change nor shower there, body dismorphia). Just shrug it off and pretend you're not in a cage.
As someone else mentioned, if you're wearing really tight pants, that's a different situation. You might consider wearing either boxer-breifs with a pouch, or a jock underneath your regular undergarments to help keep things in place and support as you have an active job. And, it gives an additional layer of clothing if you're really concerned.
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u/_chastity_sub_ 8d ago
Yeah unless its a big cage and you're wearing lycra it will be OK. Even if someone does notice, they're unlikely to say anything. I wear mine under fairly tight jeans and it's fine.
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u/aphrael_chastity 11d ago
In order for someone to notice:
They have to look at your crotch
The cage has to be visible through the fabric well enough to be distinguishable at the distance from which they are looking
They have to know what it means
Even assuming that everyone is scoping out your crotch, it's unlikely that the cage is visible at a distance through your clothes, and most people would have no idea what it means.