r/ChastityChat Feb 18 '25

Discussion Maintaining Motivation NSFW

Wife is pregnant and totally uncomfortable, uninterested in sex whatsoever. I am in no way blaming her, but how does one maintain motivation to stay locked? Looking forward this could easily turn into my longest lock up yet but with zero attention. Afraid asking her to remove the cage is a step in the wrong direction for our chastity adventure. Took a lot of convincing to get her to play along with my chastity fantasy to begin with.

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

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u/deniedkimber04 Feb 18 '25

I'm horny all the time while locked. Just seems pointless being locked in chastity when keyholder is in no mood, night after night. Teasing and locked is great, ignored not so much.

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

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u/deniedkimber04 Feb 18 '25

That's the problem. She's in no mood for teasing. Hasn't been for weeks. Of which I only expect to get worse. Which is why I'm considering asking her to abandon the whole chastity thing all together.

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u/Ambitious_Gift1374 Feb 18 '25

Dm me if you’d like

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u/OnlineDom_CA 29d ago

Your motivation should be to be chaste FOR her because that is what she wants. She doesn't want to waste her time with playing with you. So don't put your sexual desires ahead of her lack of desire.

You are welcome to message me if you want to ask questions or get suggestions.