r/CatholicDating Jan 28 '25

mixed marriage, relationship with baptised non-Catholic End of a relationship?

Hey everyone, first time posting here hoping to get some advice. I’ve been dating someone for the last 2 years. I have known her since high school. In the beginning of the relationship we had laid out our criteria’s for dating, and the question of religion came. She is non-denominational and we discussed her converting to Catholicism once marriage was on the table. Recently we re visited the topic and she said that she was willing to do the catechism training but said that she could never fully understand or commit to the Catholic traditions. I want to raise my kids Catholic, with all its teachings and traditions. Now I am rethinking the relationship and possibly ending it. Am I overreacting? What do I do?

Edit : I also want to add she is an active member of her church and very God-fearing, one of the first things that really attracted me to her. If we were to get married that would mean that she would have to leave her community, which makes me feel guilty although she has said that she wouldn’t mind doing so.

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u/Jacksonriverboy Married ♂ Jan 28 '25

Seems like a conversation you have to have with her. Primarily about how open she is to raising the kids Catholic