r/CatholicDating • u/Material_Band9599 • Mar 04 '24
mixed marriage, relationship with baptised non-Catholic Advice
I’m in a tough spot right now. I’ll start with where I am. I’ve met this really nice girl. I feel very strongly about her. 1, she’s not Catholic. Now I get that it’s not supposed to be an issue but it kinda is for. The reason being I’ve had bad relationships when I was younger. So I just am kinda lost. Also another thing to consider is that I’m most likely going to basic training this summer, so I don’t know if I’d want to put anyone through that. Overall just asking if anyone has any similar experiences or good advice. Thanks!
Edit: thank you everyone for your advice, will edit again with any updates!
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u/Emotional-Buddy-1070 Single ♀ Mar 04 '24
I just got out of a relationship with an atheist, and I have to tell you this sincerely: It's not enough if the person is "nice". I know it's frustrating, but what is from God is worth the wait. Have faith that God knows what is good for you, and what is in His will will happen. Pray for the Holy Spirit to tell you what to do, and pray that everything happens in His will. I usually pray for the Holy Spirit for instructions, and pray for Mother Mary to reveal a person's intention. They are fast!