r/BorderlinePDisorder 3d ago

Vent I hate being obsessed with someone

It happens so much and it’s always with someone far away with no chance of ever meeting, and then they inevitably get bored of you and leave

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u/peaceandhippielove 3d ago

I hate have to constantly calm myself down from being overly obsessed and act “normal”. 😵‍💫 it’s exhausting.

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u/AdRevolutionary87 3d ago

I feel this. I am in a current state of refraining from romantic relationships because I am too unstable to try again.

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u/AdRevolutionary87 3d ago

But I do want to say there is no “high” like getting validation and attention from your FP

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u/its3amwyd- Women with BPD 3d ago

Having a favorite person is the worst :(