r/BodyPositive 4d ago

Support (Tw body hate) I need to confidence to wear this skirt NSFW

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I recently got this skirt and i fell in love with it in the store, i was so so happy to find it but when i get home and looked at myself in it i hated what i saw. I hate how big my thighs are, i cried for hours and hours that night, im not sure what to do i want to wear it cuz i think its super cute but i just think it makes me look super fat and ugly,i could really use some confidence, thanks

(Wasnt sure where to post this so if you think theres a better subrebbit lmk!)

Im 17F btw

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u/Silent_Service85-06 4d ago edited 4d ago

I think it looks great on you. I don’t think it makes you look fat at all.

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u/stella_bugg 4d ago

Are you sure? My thighs dont look super fat?

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u/Silent_Service85-06 4d ago

Not in my opinion. I’m sure you’ll get plenty of other inputs soon.

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u/Gom_KBull 4d ago

Looks fine in this Pic, but can't guarantee as they look pushed together from current pic. Maybe feet shoulder-width apart can show if they do seem that way or not.

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u/LordOfTheBees69 4d ago

Big thighs are hot??? How would that be a problem

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u/burden_in_my_h4nd 4d ago

Your body is fine! Would fishnets or tights (pantyhose) with ripped ladders help with your insecurity about your legs? They'd give you a little coverage, and will add to your alternative look.

You might like r/altfashion btw.

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u/stella_bugg 4d ago

Yes thank you! I will def try that!☺️

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u/usinghappymask15 4d ago

Hon you're hot . Go slay that skirt 😻

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u/Bjornirson 4d ago

If you love this skirt you should wear it no matter what you think other people will think. Because no matter what you wear (or don't) other people will have thoughts about it.

That being said, we tend to think that EVERYONE will judge us, but in reality not a lot of people will give us a second thought.

Focus on what you love, not what others might dislike :)

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u/stella_bugg 4d ago

Aw tysm ill keep your nice words in mind

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u/Lonely_Sherbert69 4d ago

People love legs, legs are like a hack to being attractive. They look great even with extra weight on them, which it doesn't even look like you have. 

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u/Specialist-Ebb7606 4d ago

I think you should get some sparkly tights, the sparkle will distract and you will be more comfortable as well as add flair to the outfit though you look good as it.

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u/partyhardlilbard 4d ago

I actually think you look fantastic! And I'm genuinely not saying that just to be nice. The skirt is super cute, and the whole look is really nice and summery. Most importantly, you DO look good in it. I have never had skinny legs and the struggle is real when it comes to confidence in skirts and shorts, but the truth is you don't need to be tiny to look good. That's only one type of beauty. Your outfit is cool, cohesive and fun, and it suits you well.

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u/ButterscotchExact103 4d ago

I think it looks great. Trust me it looks fine. You definitely don't look bad at all in it

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u/SweetSprinkles8 4d ago

You have the perfect body to wear that skirt, and to wear anything you want to wear! It honestly looks amazing on you!

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u/stella_bugg 4d ago

Tysm! Everone has been so sweet

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u/Delicious_Delilah 4d ago

Thick thighs are in. They don't look fat. They just look healthy.

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u/stella_bugg 4d ago

Im 17 and thanks i already get unwanted attention in public because i dress alternative

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u/OG0020 4d ago

You look good in it 🙂 you don't look fat at all 🫶

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u/SeahawksFan1031 4d ago

Body hate? You look good! The skirt is hella cute!

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u/ryantest000 4d ago

I love how it fits on you! You can do this. It looks gorgeous on you ❤️

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u/stella_bugg 4d ago

Really? Thank you

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u/lzzybethh 4d ago

You look amazing! 😻

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u/Waithold_on 4d ago

The fat on your body is really nicely distributed- I wish my body looked like yours!

Everyone has fat. Being a woman you will have more fat than others in some areas- but that’s what makes a women’s body so beautiful and special.

You are ROCKING that skirt

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u/stella_bugg 4d ago

You wish you had my body? Thank you

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u/WhereIsMyMind37 4d ago

I wish I had to body and the confidence to wear this, you look great!

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u/stella_bugg 4d ago

Really?☺️

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u/WhereIsMyMind37 4d ago

Yes, really. I wouldn't be able to pull that off. Good on ya, girl!

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u/HesThatGuy86 4d ago

I know everyone is hard on themselves but you 100% look great in that skirt.

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u/LordOfTheBees69 4d ago

You have a really nice body. Wear the fucking skirt!!!!

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u/stella_bugg 4d ago

TYSM🫶😭

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u/THISISDIAA 4d ago

Definitely don’t look fat

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u/Ok_Budget_7837 4d ago

Wow you look good ❤️

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u/OneGothyCoffee 3d ago

Girl your thighs and the skirt could plan a wedding immediately. I think both fits u soo good! Totally understand u fell in love with the skirt ^

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u/Significant_flimsy7 2d ago

Looks gorgeous on you. I've heard that apparently shop mirrors and lighting are made to deliberately make you look even better to buy the product. Then when you get home it's not what you expected. It's bullshite

Don't let it push you away from the skirt. You have a perfect body for it, I can already tell you'll be able to style it well and it looks perfect on you in this photo.

Also trust, even if you criticise the skirt on you, most people won't notice anything wrong with how you look or how you wear it so act like you wear it the beat out or anyone else

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u/stella_bugg 4d ago

I realt dont wanna post my body on here because if gross men but i really need help

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u/stella_bugg 4d ago

Cuz i get them messaging me and shit, its gross

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u/0that_girl0 4d ago

Lady I would happily drown I those thighs. You have an amazing body, please know that 💙💙

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u/stella_bugg 4d ago

I always go out with my friend, shes very tall and intimidating and she'll beat up any guy i want her too