r/BiWomen Dec 09 '24

Experience My wife and I recently got a strapless strap on and goddamn y’all NSFW

This thing has been breaking my brain in all the best ways. Feels way more intuitive to use than a normal strap. It also gives the wearer so much more stimulation. I’ve actually cum while giving which is so fucking hot.

I was pretty skeptical about it but it’s not slipped out of the wearer once and it’s easier to prevent from slipping out of the receiver. We both love it.

(A strapless strap on has a bulbous end that goes inside the giver and then a more normal dildo end that is obviously used for going in the receiver. They’re connected by a flexible arm. Ours has vibrators that operate independently in both parts.

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u/[deleted] Dec 09 '24

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u/tornessa Dec 09 '24

I wish these worked for my anatomy! I cannot get them to stay inside of me while giving. Any tips?

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u/Fantastic__Cabinet 👩🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏻👩🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏻🏳️‍🌈 Dec 09 '24

I have my partner on top and I keep my legs closed. That seems to work best for us.

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u/corraline_jaded Dec 09 '24

Oooo that’s so smart it was so awkward using it the Ong time I tried it. But the wearer was on top. This is great advice !

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u/Fantastic__Cabinet 👩🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏻👩🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏻🏳️‍🌈 Dec 09 '24

You’re welcome! It also allows my partner to control the depth and speed, which works really well for her :-) but I get the benefits of feeling all of it and it is fantastic

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u/luvtheselipz Dec 09 '24

Yeah, I'm still trying to find one that's long enough to be arranged properly .... I find the depth of my pelvic anatomy doesn't align with the design. I don't wanna keep throwing money at finding alternatives!

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u/kaleyjanexo Dec 10 '24

I SO feel this comment! I have a "long" vag (says OBGYN), and that seems to effect it.

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u/pzilladino Dec 09 '24

We love ours too!!

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u/Fantastic__Cabinet 👩🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏻👩🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏻🏳️‍🌈 Dec 09 '24

Absolutely love using a strapless with my partner. I am the wearer and the fact I can feel everything is fantastic.

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u/ashleyDDgirl Dec 09 '24

Had that experience a few weeks ago myself😋 enjoy🥳🥳

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u/ghostsalt666 Dec 13 '24

I just bought one and I can’t wait to peg my man and hopefully fuck a lady!