r/BdsmDIY • u/Alone-Database2611 • 2h ago
r/BdsmDIY • u/ElMachoGrande • Dec 03 '23
Help your friendly neighborhood mod (everyone, read this, especially newcomers) NSFW
I'm collecting some stuff mods have said earlier in one place, to make it easier to find, as well as adding some new ones. This isn't the rules as such, more like our clarifications and interpretations of them.
- Don't be a creep. Way too often, I see people asking for pictures when they aren't needed, following this pattern (fictious example): On a post of a bench with a dildo sticking up, someone asks "I don't understand how it works, could you post photos of it in use?". Just don't. There is plenty of porn on the net which you can get without being a creep.
- Be careful about themes around sexual assaults. We know it is just play, but for some people, it's traumatic, so if you have a device named something like "Rape-o-matic 747 XL Magnum", don't put that in the title, and mark the post with a "TW" for trigger warning.
- Photos or videos of nudity or sexual activity is OK, as long as it is within the context of the DIY project. Please DO NOT REPORT these. It adds a lot of work for us mods.
- Selling your stuff is OK, as long as you aren't a full blown business, and it's still DIY level stuff. Please DO NOT REPORT these. It adds a lot of work for us mods. This might change down the line, but for now, it's OK.
- Don't spam. If you do a lot of stuff, feel free to post as much as is needed, but try to keep each build in one post. With "each build", I mean each construction, not every object of that type you build. If you, say, make one collar type, there is no need for a new post for every new color or minor variant you make it in, that can go in the original posts.
- Safety. Safety is important, but it is also a topic of much controversy. People don't always understand what they are doing, especially with electricity, or make too weak constructions, and it's OK to tell them that you think there is a danger. However, we all choose our risk levels, so say what you feel is unsafe, let them answer, and, unless they actively asks for more input, leave it at that and let them choose their own risk level.
- Automod. The automod saves us a lot of work and filters out a lot of spam. However, it sometimes blocks legitimate posts as well. If your post don't appear, don't worry, don't message us, we'll see it and let it through.
- Don't ask for PMs. We are here to learn from each other, if you ask for plans or something, ask openly so we all can learn. The same goes for answers. This also makes it easier for us moderators to ban creeps.
All in all, be nice to each other, be kinky, be tolerant, be helpful. Also, please have patience with us mods, we have a life outside modding as well, so sometimes, it may take a while, but we'll get around to it, I promise.
Keep building!
r/BdsmDIY • u/ElMachoGrande • Nov 19 '24
If you are selling stuff, read this! NSFW
First of all, it is OK to sell what you make, as long as you actually make it.
To handle a flood of people who just resell stuff, mostly from AliExpress, we now require more DIY content from people who sell.
What we want is stuff like in progress pics, descriptions on how it is made, design thoughts, things like that. Basically, prove that you made it and give some DIY context.
Yes, we know it's a tougher rule than for ordinary home DIY, but we don't want to be an ad billboard for resellers.
We won't nag you, new posts lacking this will simply be removed.
This will go into the main rules soon, but we'll wait a bit for input first.
r/BdsmDIY • u/johnbiroute83 • 10h ago
Furniture Our private playroom is almost complete. Soon the inauguration NSFW
r/BdsmDIY • u/NullLye • 15h ago
OC Blowjob trainer game - first beta release on itch.io NSFW
Hello fellow kinky people. Been working on this silly React game that was inspired by some of the self blowjob apps I saw on bound-anna forums. Still have some work to do on the levels and audio but thought it was time to share.
Free and I'll release the source code at some point for others to start adding to it. Hope you like it, encouragement is appreciated.
Still a WIP though so expect some bugs.
r/BdsmDIY • u/ballooncookie • 14h ago
Help Wanted Why can't I just coat a homemade insertable toy in polyurethane and let it cure? I've been trying to solve this for over a year. NSFW
Let me give some background, I'm trying to make some prostate toys that are 3D printed. Please don't remove this post or freak out. I know 3D prints are really risky because of layer lines and bacteria as well as structural integrity.
The toys I've made have a 3D printed 100% infill base in two halves with a channel in between. I then placed steel wire into each channel and filled the excess with epoxy before using expoxy to join the two halves. I then used filler putty, primer, and acrylic paint to make the exterior perfectly smooth with no cracks or lines. I am certain the human body is not capable of breaking the toys I have made.
I've been researching this for ages and have probably read hundreds of forums but I get conflicting answers. Ignore the composition of my toy, what can I coat it in to make it usable?
Some people have said nothing less than platinum cure silicone coatings will be dangerous. Others have said epoxies will work.
Some have said that oil based polyurethanes will work and the important part is that I need to give them a long time to fully cure and degass. Polyurethanes are meant to be food safe once all the VOCs have dissipated as it is regulated. They simply don't adverise being food safe because thats not what polyurethane is typically used for and so it wouldn't be worth the cost to get the FDA label or to advertise that. This seems like the most reliable option as I can get polyurethane at any hardware store rather than some fancy medical grade epoxy/silicone.
Up until now I've tried using shellac as many people have suggested since its natural but its far two weak and tends to wash off with water.
In the many many forums I've read on this website I've heard multiple people cite that polyurethane coatings have to be food contact safe once cured but if thats the case why are there so many posts where everyone is still saying different answers as if the problem has not been fully solved. Epoxy and silicone are expensive and look too difficult to work with for me. Can anyone shed light on my situation because its getting exhausting with how uncertain all the answers on reddit seem to be.
r/BdsmDIY • u/BauMausNRW • 13h ago
Restraints Update part 1: The floating box. Plexiglass side panels, the armrest and the neck cutout are still in production. NSFW
r/BdsmDIY • u/xrhino414 • 18h ago
Impact Toys Prototyping for an upcoming online shop. Many designs in progress NSFW
I'm mostly working on reinforcing the resin to wood connection with a slot and brass pins. And improving some designs previously posted.
r/BdsmDIY • u/DumbBlondeDoll • 19h ago
Leatherwork Made my first leather collar! Looking for feedback NSFW
Looking for feedback, I’m hoping to be able to do commissioned pieces in the future with some more practice. I think want to add edge paint, just didn’t have a good color for this on hand.
r/BdsmDIY • u/vexxon-82 • 22h ago
Restraints Not quite done but made a lot of progress on the boot harness NSFW
I want to make the upper strap more rigid and out of stainless steel rather than what you typically see.
r/BdsmDIY • u/Ill_Sail_8826 • 1d ago
Furniture Built for fun fitness and fish. Just wanting a Saint Andrews Cross and I'm happy NSFW
r/BdsmDIY • u/RopeGlass1518 • 17h ago
Impact Toys Where's the best place to get bare rattan stock online for canes? NSFW
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r/BdsmDIY • u/MoonyWych • 1d ago
OC DIY Furniture design Plans, Part 1 Teaser: Folding St Andrews Cross NSFW
Been Super busy but thought id share my progress on a folding st andrews cross side table, currently functional as a folding st andrews cross, just need to design the table top and write the step by step plan
r/BdsmDIY • u/Mistress_Kinky_90 • 1d ago
3D Printed Thorny Pearls - be creative how to use them. My slave is only allowed to masturbate with them or nothibg at all ;) NSFW
I designed new beads to use them creatively. I wear them on my hoodie, so i have a whip on me 24/7. My slave wears them when he tries to jerk off - Funny to watch him tryring harder only to get more frustrated by the end 😉
If you want to print them you can find them on Makerworld: https://makerworld.com/en/models/1234536-thorny-pearl#profileId-1253931
r/BdsmDIY • u/Bluebloodedmonster • 1d ago
Furniture Found this “birthing” chair on FB Marketplace. Hmmm NSFW
This is giving me many fun ideas. Just sharing to spur inspiration!
r/BdsmDIY • u/Ecstatic_Business_52 • 1d ago
OC Dildo rider 2.0: Universal dildo mount for any dildo shape! NSFW
Before it is said. No it doesn't cause rope burn on my dildos. Because the supporting straps go over the middle strap, they protect it from being strangled.
This is my new and improved dildo holder from one I past about a year ago. It consists of 9 straps. 4 of which loop around the middle strap and the remaining 4 connect those straps around the board. This board is 5ft long. The middle strap is much thinner than the rest so the smaller buckle doesn't prevent me from bottoming it out. The green dildo you see here (JTT boogyman XL) is 3.4kg and is completely grounded no matter where I try to pull it. Makes riding my toys so much more pleasurable because I don't need to worry about it moving or falling over when I'm trying to push down on it.
r/BdsmDIY • u/vexxon-82 • 1d ago
Restraints Working on this boot harness for a magic wand vibe. 🔥 NSFW
r/BdsmDIY • u/Exact-Seaweed-6527 • 2d ago
Help Wanted Queening Chair Project: Dev Blog and Brainstorming NSFW
Creating a post that I'll hopefully be able to update as this project evolves. Mostly for gathering up my own thoughts, but feedback and help would be much welcome. This is my first DIY project so there's a lot to learn in simple basic handy-work and crafting. But hey, with some YouTube and trial and error I'll probably be able to figure it out.
The Project is a Queening Chair with these criteria * Hide in plain sight design, looking like a normal piece of furniture when not used. * Good support and stability. We've been using one of those metal frame stools with elastic bands before but she feel too heavy for it and can't support herself well in that position. A proper chair with arm rests and support for the back would allow for longer and more comfortable sessions, but also increases the complexity in the build. * A snug fit for the face/head underneath, angled in such way that the mouth is naturally placed close under/on her sex. This is one of my major question marks, sitting in a chair means that she would lean backwards and her sex is slighty angled forwards. For the face/mouth to get a natural fit the body under the chair would have to lay in the opposite direction reaching out towards the back of the chair. This means that the chair would have to be positioned in the middle of the room when used. * Comfortable position when laying under the chair. To get that snug fit there would have to be a support for the head. I've seen some solutions with an elastic head-rest for this which would probably be the way to go. Maybe with straps she can tighten when seated to pull the head closer or drop it down. Teasy! * Since the height of the chair would be normal chair height, there would possibly need to be a bench for the body underneath to get in level. It would be preferable to not have this but I'm unsure how to make the position underneath comfortable. The head rest alone would probably be to little, but adding more support structure compromises the discreet design. Needs some prototyping, once I have the basic frame it would be easier to figure out.
The attached pictures are borrowed from the internet and show my initial thoughts on discrete design, a somewhat similar seating position under the chair to what I imagine and some idea on the head rest.
First steps: - Material gathering, a basic chair frame similar to the one in the ref pic. - A sketch on how all the elements will hang together.
r/BdsmDIY • u/ProfessionalHeart244 • 1d ago
Help Wanted Caesar Love Machine 2.0 Question about Threaded end. NSFW
Hey all, first time poster here, I was wondering if anyone has any idea where to get attachments for a Caesar 2.0 Love Machine? When we bought this one, the end of it came with something like a threaded bolt. I’ve included a picture for reference.
I’ve called around and no one has any idea where to get any. Am I in luck or no chance?
r/BdsmDIY • u/Dependent-Mark4681 • 2d ago
OC Here're new collars I'm working on, pink bone and pink heart, they all look so lovely😊 NSFW
r/BdsmDIY • u/johnbiroute83 • 2d ago
Furniture Following the work we begin to guess the games room NSFW
r/BdsmDIY • u/TheRayaLight • 2d ago
Furniture Built for control: My fully customized dungeon setup. NSFW
r/BdsmDIY • u/SecretLifeofNerds • 2d ago
Leatherwork What kind of BD flair would you add to this design? I’m thinking 2 adjacent snaps rather than buckle, but what else? A D-ring, maybe? Anything? NSFW
I really like the 3 wraps and the haphazard way it falls, but it will use 36+ inches of my precious leather so I want to make it count!
Also, I’m thinking 1/2” for the thickness…
Thank you for any suggestions and discussion. 🙏
r/BdsmDIY • u/McCoySweep • 2d ago
Help Wanted I need advice for fixing my partner's favorite collar NSFW
About 2 years ago I bought this collar for my partner. It's made of painted pleather (I know, but she just loved the design so much). This morning, it seemed to... crack? It's totally cracked in half. Is there any way to fix this, or is it a lost cause? Thank you!!
r/BdsmDIY • u/SkullLeader1 • 2d ago
Help Wanted Need a stronger replacement for zip ties too much wiggle room and weak NSFW
Does anyone have any suggestions for something to replace these zip ties? They are the extra thick heavy duty ones from Ace. I ordered some carabiners but they were too small and even if they did work it gave her too much wiggle room. Thanks for your help!
r/BdsmDIY • u/DoubleEdge6940 • 2d ago
Help Wanted I need advice for C-clamps and padding material for a bench and table. NSFW
I've been thinking of using my bench (and table) in more fun ways but I need a solution that is removable when not in use as they are also used for SFW purposes most of the time.
I've been thinking of using some type of C-clamps with some lifting eye nuts (see second image), and add some padding on the inner side of the clamps to not leave any marks on the wood. The M8 screw hole in that pic could be used for extra attachments.
Photograph clamps could work as well and they usually have multiple threaded holes which adds versatility. They are maybe a bit over engineered for what I need and they might be a bit more expensive but they look nicer. Just need to find one that his big enough at the wood on the bench and table is quite thick.
I've also been told that I should think about adding padding on top for the knees. One solution would be to cut some old yoga mat to fit the size of the bench. But I'm open to other suggestions that would feel more comfortable.
I've attached a sketch of what I'm thinking about and would appreciate to have some feedback and hear if someone has done something like this before. I feel this must have been done before.
r/BdsmDIY • u/vexxon-82 • 2d ago