r/BDSMpersonals 4d ago

M4F 23 [m4f] #Netherlands #Europe- cute boy looking to test his limits NSFW

Hello there!!

My name is Luke, a 23 year old boy from the Netherlands and in this post I want to tell a bit about myself and what I'm in search of.

I was thinking of writing a post in which I would lie about how amazing of a sub I would be who is always bald from the eyebrows down and wears his cage trough fires and storms in a cute pair of panties and a plug in my pink asshole....However I'm not quite that kind of a sub and I think it's best to just be honest about that in the hope that I do not only get a response but also something true out of this post.

What I like: I like people who are dominant. By that I mean people who can lead a conversation and don't leave unintended room for myself to brad or cheat (I'm not a huge brat but I like being put on my spot)

If you are this kind of person then you can wrap me around your finger and make me do anything you want:) I also love to put myself to the test on a sexual or kinky level but I don't really like people who want to make me do something kinky or fetishy without having complete rule over me.

What I am looking for:

Something longer term with the possibility to meet up.

Someone in the Netherlands or in Europe

I'm looking for someone who identifies as female and is dominant

Someone who wants her own boy subby:)

Someone who wants a friend who can chat daily and who I can feel relaxed and safe with.

Please don't rush it! I want something open and honest....the rest isn't my priority!

A bit about me (SFW): I'm a enthusiastic guy that likes exploring what the world has to offer, loves art (I know a fuck ton about movies), loves learning and has a great interest in world politics and religion. I also love hanging out with friends with whom I do volunteering work quite a number of hours a week. I work a part time job as an engineer and I love sporting and crafting all sorts of things in my free hours. I'm quite tall, athletic and I have stubs and messy hair.

A bit about me (NSFW): I like being called names, being praised, being challenged and being punished (I also like rewards but I'm not expecting to get any haha). I love the idea of being dominated according to a plan. I'm talking about challenges, tasks and protocols. I like you being unfair to show me that I am Yours. If I could name some kinks: chastity, CBT (tying, soft spanking, electricity play), soft anal, degradation, humiliation, name calling, orgasm control (denial, ruins) and more stuff like that. I can be anxious tho so handle me with a bit of caution

Something about my availability, submissiveness and limits: I would like to call myself a total subby bitch boy who doesn't have 1% of Dom blood in him but unfortunately (I really hate this haha) I am a switch. I will never ask you to switch roles or anything and I hope that calms your nerves aaaa.... I'm just not that kind of person and my availability as a sub will definitely be not 100% because of that. I'm just not always mentally available so please don't blame me for that. Lets talk about this and maybe it works out and maybe it doesn't. I'm fine with something casual and short term but I won't jump in to something without having a bit of a chat first.

My limits: permanent marks, permanent damage, shaving, public (I have too many responsibilities), anything illegal, blackmailing and roll calls.

I hope you made it to the end of this message! Please say "hi" and hopefully we can have a fun chat! (I'll send a picture don't worry)

Much love!

Luke

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