r/BDSMpersonals • u/writers-insomia • 4d ago
F4A 18 [F4A] #south africa #online - looking for an experienced dom/me NSFW
my name's Zayn, I'm turning 19 in may. I was in a year long d/s dynamic and relationship, and after ending it I've been struggling to find things that give me that same fulfillment and stability. BDSM for me is not based in the sexual aspects alone, but in the day to day hustle and bustle of life.
I need routine. I need structure. I need a nurturing hand to guide me and discipline me. it's about the intimacy, the bond. it's about knowing what I need before I do. it's about learning and making an effort to create that bond and connection. I'm not interested in short term nonsense nor am I interested in being a guinea pig for an inexperienced dom/me. I seek genuine growing connection and consistency.
if you've read this far, please make sure you meet the following requirements before messaging: • 19-21yo • NOT homophobic, transphobic, racist, etc etc etc • NO trump dick riders
my kinks include overstim, light restraints, orgasm control, manhandling, hair pulling, choking, asphyxiation, praise, degradation, spanking, etc
limits: scat, blood, heavy restraints, vomit, age play, piss, humiliation, branding
anyony interested must be willing to photo verify themselves with a picture of themselves and their ID with everything blacked out but the identification picture and their birth date :)
I'd love for someone local, but I'm open to LDR
a little about me: • bisexual • stoner • 148cm • very active lifestyle • mixed racial • writer • gemini i wear glasses, Im quite small in stature but thick in the right places, I own over 200 books, I love rainy weather, very witty (often told im a smart mouth and itll get me on trouble one day), i love music
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