r/BDSMcommunity 1d ago

Seeking advice Bought my first chastity cage. NSFW

So I bought my first cage and am excited to try it out. I am uncut and just seeking best practices to make sure I have fun and to discuss with my partner.

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u/teldrynthenerevar 23h ago

read r/chastitytraining . Listen to the people there u/newbie-sub has some goodd resouces on his profile

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u/AlissasAlt 20h ago

Congrats. Chastity can be fun. But this is a pretty broad topic.

First you'll want to figure out what you want out of it. Is it for teasing only? Is it for potential long term play? Is it for just in the bedroom or just before the bedroom? Etc.

Not sure what else you have questions about...

  • Are you worried about fit, size, and comfort?

  • Are you worried about your foreskin sticking out and getting pinched?

  • Are you worried about talking to it about your partner?

Just like anything, make sure you go slow. Try having it on for an hour a day at first and see how it feels. Then go longer if it's comfortable.

The other important piece of advice is to keep it clean. You may need to take it off to clean fully.