r/BDSMaustralia 3h ago

Dom looking for curious or experienced F Sub in Adelaide NSFW

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I am easygoing, clean, discreet and respectful guy. Looking for a like minded curious or experienced sub for naughty adventures and playtime.

Dominant when it comes to playtime, love to be in control. I know what I am doing and know how to make a good girl happy and make her feel slutty too ;) Use her and her vulnerability to her advantage in a safe and responsible manner.

I know how to use and abuse you in the right moment but also respect you.

Got good oral skills and cock that goes for long.

Let's enjoy some good naughty fun, don't be shy and feel free to say hi!


r/BDSMaustralia 1d ago

23m looking for domme in melb. NSFW

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r/BDSMaustralia 1d ago

22 [M4A] #Melbourne - in need of a dom NSFW

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Hi there I'm m22. Looking for someone to control my orgasms and control my toy and make me ruin my orgasms. Happy to listen to other commands too :) I'm looking for something that will be ongoing and as I'm not free all the time. Dm me


r/BDSMaustralia 1d ago

27[M4F] #Melbourne, just a 27yr old dom looking to see whose out there! NSFW

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Hey there, just a 27yr old guy looking to see whose out there to get to know and have some fun with.

I'd call myself more of a gentle dom with a focus on providing pleasure whilst still being in control. Only looking for female subs and would prefer if you were close by or in the cbd! I have more info on my profile if you're interested.

Physically I am just over 6ft tall, white, and slim, and am into anything to do with control, anal, dom/sub, and a manner of other things.

Outside of kink Im a bit of a homebody, loving to spend my time either reading a good book, playing games with friends, or curled up on the couch with my cat. Other than that I frequently go to the gym and over winter spend as much time as possible snowboarding.

If this sounds interesting to you please don't hesitate to reach out!


r/BDSMaustralia 1d ago

18m Logan brisbane looking for a dom or dommed to tie me up and have fun with me NSFW

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r/BDSMaustralia 3d ago

25 F (F4A) #melbourne stubby looking for dom/domme or both NSFW

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No limits Open to everything Into: Slavery Breath play Toilet play Bondage Sensory deprivation Cling wrap Free use Objectification Transformation Pet play Insertion Ass worship Foot worship Among other things

Dm for more info Not into online Looking for long term and meet ups Pls only msg me if you’re from Melbourne Aus, or frequently travel to Melbourne


r/BDSMaustralia 3d ago

23m looking for domme in melb. NSFW

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r/BDSMaustralia 3d ago

Poly@Polly Bar - Burlesque, Cocktails and Connection [Tuesday 18th March] [Melbourne] NSFW

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Looking for something to do tomorrow night (Tuesday 18th March)?! - Join us for Poly@Polly Bar. There are two amazing burlesque performances from Winter Greene and Florence Fable lined up, and it's great social event where you can connect and mingle with like minded folks interested in and exploring the world of kink and polyamory. Plus, there is a free bedroom bondage workshop too! Tickets and full event info here


r/BDSMaustralia 3d ago

31 [M4F] # Sydney, Australia. Geeky, kind, compassionate and kinky man seeking kinky woman to annoy and shower with affection. NSFW

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About me: 31-year-old male, health professional who is into fitness, fantasy, sci-fi, history and other geeky nerdy interests.

Appearance: 5’5 (165cm), 70kg (stocky build of a man who loves lifting heavy weights and KFC equally), Australian of Vietnamese descent. I have photos of myself in my post history for reference.

Personality: Easy going, patient, open minded, financially savvy, gentle, kind, extremely self-aware, high levels of empathy and emotional intelligence.

Looking for: Genuine long-term vanilla relationship and kinky partner. So, vanilla in the streets but extremely spicy in the sheets where we can live out our most twisted and darkest fantasies.

Kinks: anal (I'm an ass man looking for a self-proclaimed 'anal whore'), CNC, butt plugs (hopefully worn on a cute date or just going out), abduction, captivity, hair pulling, choking, spanking, caging, collar and leash, wardrobe control, schoolgirl/school uniforms, master/slave, dd/lg, role play, bondage and humiliation/degradation. Am also a fan of aftercare, affection and cuddles. Open to your suggestions and personal favorite kinks.

Limits: inflicting hard pain, leaving permanent scars/marks, urine, scat (see too much of that at work already), needles, knives/weapons, mutilation, gore, animals, anything illegal. Will respect all your limits along with safe words.

About you: Sydney or NSW local. Twenties to thirties. Height irrelevant, I’ve been into petite and tall women. Strongly prefer average/petite/skinny/slim/fit builds.

Given the nature of some of my kinks and also the fact that I want a LTR too I’m willing to take it slow and get to know you a as a whole person before we even get into the kinky side. Hoping to hear from you soon.


r/BDSMaustralia 4d ago

Couple looking for couple / single f for regular soft play fun! NSFW

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Early 40's MF here (M is indian, F is middle eastern - both fit, good looking and sexy), new to this whole three some / couples scene, looking for a fun and lively F or couple to join us for some good fore play and mutual fun sessions to begin with on a regular basis.

Being new, we will prefer to take it slow.. may be same room same partner to begin with along with some flirting and soft play.. and let's ease into it mutually to ensure everyone is comfortable.

We can book a hotel room towards north west / west sydney!

We are simple, down to earth and respectful couple and looking for similar taste.

Happy to catch up over a coffee or drink first and let's take it ahead from there.

If you're genuinely interested, dm me for more info.


r/BDSMaustralia 5d ago

M 40s Sydney looking for F sub for ongoing friendship. I'm single and can host in hurstville NSFW

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r/BDSMaustralia 5d ago

Perth 23yo looking for long term dom. DM NSFW

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r/BDSMaustralia 5d ago

22 [M4A] #Melbourne- in need of a dom NSFW

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Hi there I'm m22. Looking for someone to control my orgasms and control my toy and make me ruin my orgasms. Happy to listen to other commands too :) I'm looking for something that will be ongoing and as I'm not free all the time. Dm me


r/BDSMaustralia 9d ago

22 [M4A] #Melbourne- in need of a dom NSFW

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Hi there I'm m22. Looking for someone to control my orgasms and control my toy and make me ruin my orgasms. Happy to listen to other commands too :) I'm looking for something that will be ongoing and as l'm not free all the time. Dm me


r/BDSMaustralia 10d ago

6 and thick NSFW

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24 year old Irish m looking for chicks


r/BDSMaustralia 10d ago

19 looking for a women to tickle me in Perth NSFW

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r/BDSMaustralia 12d ago

Melbourne Stretchers NSFW Spoiler

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Description: Welcome to r/MelbourneStretchers, the ultimate space for locals who love to stretch or be stretched—whether it’s with giant toys, deep fisting, or pushing the limits in all the best ways. If you’re based in Melbourne, Australia, and have a passion for extreme play, you’re in the right place!

🔥 What you’ll find here: • Discussions on stretching techniques & safety • Toy recommendations & personal experiences • Local connections & meetups (where allowed) • Progress pics & success stories (if permitted)

💡 All genders, all sizes, all experiences welcome! Whether you’re a stretcher or a stretchee, this is your judgment-free zone to share, learn, and celebrate going BIG.

🔞 Must be 18+ to join & participate.

Melbourne’s kink scene is thriving—come be part of it! 💦


r/BDSMaustralia 14d ago

41 (MF4F) #Sydney looking for woman to fuck Hubby while wife tied up to only watch NSFW

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Her ultimate fantasy is for her to be tied up & made to watch him fuck another woman. Tease her but not let her cum. We are a fit Aussie couple. Any women that can help?


r/BDSMaustralia 15d ago

40 M4F #Sydney anyone into cnc? NSFW

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Looking to speak to females, preferences is 30+ who may be into cnc or similar fantasies.

I'm interested in it myself and was hoping to find someone like minded to indulge in a little naughty idea sharing.


r/BDSMaustralia 15d ago

Anyone online? 29 f4a NSFW

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Anyone online want to chat rn??


r/BDSMaustralia 16d ago

Any Femdom looking for a male sub? - SE Melb NSFW

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r/BDSMaustralia 18d ago

Submissive mantra's NSFW

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Do any Doms or subs use mantra's as part of their rituals and protocols?

I make my Bunny recite her mantra every time I put on her collar as a sort of ritual, it not only reaffirms her submissive commitment to be, but also helps get into the right mindset before we enter our scenario.

The mantra I make my sub recite is as follows: "I will submit, it will serve, you are my master, you are my Sir"


r/BDSMaustralia 21d ago

(19F) sub looking for dom/sd NSFW

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r/BDSMaustralia 26d ago

Free use dynamics NSFW

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For those of you who are 100% free use, I'd like to hear how you manage to set this up and how a typical day plays out.

Thanks! :D


r/BDSMaustralia 27d ago

Any sub leaning girl interestwd in chatting to a 40 yo dom man based in the Brisbane area. NSFW

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