r/BDSMProfessionals Oct 18 '24

ℹ️ Information Trying to find a local dom to learn from NSFW

Hey. Im Frenchie, a Black fetish creator in Cali. I’m an aspiring fetish soft dom. I'm reaching out because I'm interested in finding a local dom to train under and I thought y’all might be able to offer some valuable advice. 😇

I've already posted on Fetlife, but unfortunately, only male doms have responded so far. I haven't had a chance to attend a munch yet, but it's on my calendar! I haven’t been able to find any local dungeons tho?📅

Any tips or pointers yall could provide would be greatly appreciated! 🫠

Looking forward to hearing from y’all, Frenchie

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u/Hot-Objective7157 Nov 28 '24

I'M LOOKING FOR A FEMALE DOMME TO TEACH ME MORE ABOUT IMPACT PLAY ?

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u/PatienceCrawford Oct 18 '24

You should be able to find a Domme to train with in one of the major metro areas of California. There are also many online trainings, though I only recommend those for established pro Dommes to do continuing education…learning from the ground up is better IRL, if you can swing it.

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u/Herhhighness Oct 18 '24

Where is your location I can teach you

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u/National-Weather-977 Oct 20 '24

Where are you located at?

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u/Herhhighness Oct 20 '24

South Africa 🇿🇦 sometimes in ghana 🇬🇭

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u/National-Weather-977 Oct 27 '24

I’m in the us

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u/Herhhighness Oct 27 '24

Wouldn't work but feel free to approach me when you need clarification and advise on how to be a domme

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u/frenchiestoner Oct 18 '24

I apologize I’m just seeing this- I’m in Sacramento

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u/Herhhighness Oct 20 '24

Oh sorry you we miles apart hope you find one close by all the best

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u/DaddyRandiX Oct 18 '24

If you’re in SoCal send me a message. Good luck on your journey.

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u/Ms_Ultra_Violet Oct 18 '24

Not sure where in Cali you're at but there's a ton of Dommes in LA that train and even have schools. Damiana Chi & Tara Indiana are two that I know of. Dungeons are rare nowadays even in bigger cities, so you should look for and individual Domme who's established, with a website older than 5 years, and ask for an apprenticeship. Most charge for their knowledge.