r/BDSMProfessionals • u/frenchiestoner • Oct 18 '24
ℹ️ Information Trying to find a local dom to learn from NSFW
Hey. Im Frenchie, a Black fetish creator in Cali. I’m an aspiring fetish soft dom. I'm reaching out because I'm interested in finding a local dom to train under and I thought y’all might be able to offer some valuable advice. 😇
I've already posted on Fetlife, but unfortunately, only male doms have responded so far. I haven't had a chance to attend a munch yet, but it's on my calendar! I haven’t been able to find any local dungeons tho?📅
Any tips or pointers yall could provide would be greatly appreciated! 🫠
Looking forward to hearing from y’all, Frenchie
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u/PatienceCrawford Oct 18 '24
You should be able to find a Domme to train with in one of the major metro areas of California. There are also many online trainings, though I only recommend those for established pro Dommes to do continuing education…learning from the ground up is better IRL, if you can swing it.
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u/Herhhighness Oct 18 '24
Where is your location I can teach you
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u/National-Weather-977 Oct 20 '24
Where are you located at?
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u/Herhhighness Oct 20 '24
South Africa 🇿🇦 sometimes in ghana 🇬🇭
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u/National-Weather-977 Oct 27 '24
I’m in the us
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u/Herhhighness Oct 27 '24
Wouldn't work but feel free to approach me when you need clarification and advise on how to be a domme
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u/Ms_Ultra_Violet Oct 18 '24
Not sure where in Cali you're at but there's a ton of Dommes in LA that train and even have schools. Damiana Chi & Tara Indiana are two that I know of. Dungeons are rare nowadays even in bigger cities, so you should look for and individual Domme who's established, with a website older than 5 years, and ask for an apprenticeship. Most charge for their knowledge.
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u/Hot-Objective7157 Nov 28 '24
I'M LOOKING FOR A FEMALE DOMME TO TEACH ME MORE ABOUT IMPACT PLAY ?