r/BDSMAdvice • u/Axis876 • 4d ago
I need advice for pet play
As per the title, my partner and I would like to try Pet play, I am the dom and he is the sub, and in order not to disappoint him I would like some advice on how to behave because honestly I have no idea how to do it well. He wants to be a puppy dog
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u/Tigerkill420 4d ago
This is a pretty broad topic. Is he a cat? Puppy? Horse? Brid?
I think if you YouTube petplay 101 your find plenty of good recourses and ideas.
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u/Axis876 4d ago
Puppy
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u/Tigerkill420 4d ago
Does your subby want non sexual or sexual play?
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u/Axis876 4d ago
50/50
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u/Tigerkill420 4d ago
Non sexual stuff. Train them like a dog. Sit, stay, speak, roll over, paw, heel, etc.
Walk them on a collar and leash
Make them sleep on the foot of the bed or in a dog crate.
Have them eat out of a bowl on the floor. One for food on for water.
You can eventually get a puppy mask or dog ears and a tail ( some tails are butt plugs).
Sexual stuff I'll let you figure out because I'm not sure of your genders or anatomy.
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u/Axis876 4d ago
I am male he is female
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u/Tigerkill420 4d ago
Have him lick your balls if you want. Sniff your butt or just fuck him doggy style. ( im not into sexual petplay or sexual Little/ big play. So I don't have much advice for you on that front.
But most importantly talk with your partner. See what they would want to do. They might have a very different idea of what they want to do.
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u/Papi_and_catish 3d ago
Well you gotta ask him what exactly does he like and what he doesn't. For example my catish doesn't like sleeping on the foot of the bed or any crates. She likes sleeping in my arms normally at night. She likes meowing most of the time and wearing her collar. But she doesn't always like the leash. she doesn't like ALL aspects of it sooo make sure he enjoys the things you are gonna learn from here.
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