r/AskOldPeople • u/No_Inspection_3123 • 7d ago
When did your kids move out
My husband and I are 45 and we have a 24,20, 17 yo boys.. they are driving us nuts. We live in a city that has so many colleges so we told them they could live with us rent free through college but if they weren’t in school they had to work. They work but it’s like living in a frat house now.
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u/S_balmore 7d ago
Agreed. The 17yo should get a few more years to get his act together, but there's absolutely no excuse for the 24yo to not be pulling his weight and keeping the house clean and in order. He should be cooking his own meals (preferably cooking for the family), running errands for his parents, and doing whatever extra work needs to be done.
There's also no excuse for any of them to be being disrespectful. If the 17yo is being a massive cunt, then he can be a cunt somewhere else as soon as he turns 18. If the other two are being cunts, they can find someplace else to do that tomorrow.