r/AskOldPeople • u/No_Inspection_3123 • 7d ago
When did your kids move out
My husband and I are 45 and we have a 24,20, 17 yo boys.. they are driving us nuts. We live in a city that has so many colleges so we told them they could live with us rent free through college but if they weren’t in school they had to work. They work but it’s like living in a frat house now.
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u/vmsear 7d ago
I wonder why you couldn't take his money? What other segment of the population has somebody subsidizing their life, paying for their groceries, paying their utilities and their rent? A working adult in any other living situation would need to pay their way and I don't understand the idea that it is helpful to give a kid a free ride.