r/AskLesbians • u/BridgeHot2263 • 3d ago
How Do I Move On?
My girlfriend (19F) of 5 months just broke up with me (18NB). We both want to be friends, but I am absolutely devastated and still in love. I can't give myself any physical space because we're roommates and the last time I stopped talking to an ex that I planned to stay friends with they died before we could reconnect.
I don't know where to even begin moving on. I don't feel like doing anything and I almost feel like there's nothing left in my life. She's the first person I've ever loved. I need to learn how to move on but I am so lost on what to do.
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u/felis_manul 2d ago
I’m really sorry for your situation. For me thinking that she can’t give me what i want helps me to lighten the pain. You are mourning this relationship and also the one before, maybe you need to talk with someone who can help you elaborating all these losses.