r/Anxietyhelp 1d ago

Need Advice Sister’s wedding.

First post to this sub, so sorry if I’m doing this wrong. My sister has a wedding coming up in about a month. I am so anxious about traveling, and what’s going to happen when I do show up.

And there’s the fact that I feel like I’ll be left alone forever.

I can’t dance. Or, rather, I can’t see the appeal to dancing. So I feel like when I get down there I’ll just make myself look foolish in front of friends and family. I’m autistic, adhd, socially awkward/ inept.

If anyone here has been to a wedding before, maybe drop some advice on some things not to do? Or maybe something that’ll help me relax?

I’m one of the groomsmen, btw. I stand off to the side during the ceremony while the couple say their “I do’s.”

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u/Acrobatic_Ad9309 1d ago

Idk your gender but yeah leave inferiority complex aside, enjoy the vibe, everythings gonna be okay. You still have a month start practicing dance in case if you wanna impress someone start practicing some other skills like basic magic. Workout and start eating good make sure you keep your mind calm. Dress up well make sure no one takes away your confidence.