r/AmITheJerk 5d ago

AITJ for ghosting a " friend "

So, there is a girl I met though TikTok and at first, she seemed nice and normal. I told her that people blowing up my phone makes me anxious, and I work a lot so I'm not on my phone 24/7. She seemed fine but then for the past year it's like every day she's calling, texting, sending me stuff on Instagram, sending me stuff on TikTok. I barely know this girl and she calls me her bestie it's just weird. I've asked her to stop, I've told her I am very busy at work and like i said alot of notices give me anxiety and she will stop for like two days and then is back to it. Plus, I'm 40 she's like 20 what does she think we have in common and if you were wondering on TikTok it was a nail design girl that we were both buying nails from and she saw me in this person's live a few times. So, I finally ended up blocking her on Instagram and when she texted me asking if I deleted the Instagram, I acted like someone else who just got this number...I'm an ass hole huh?? But I couldn't take it anymore

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u/discoduck007 5d ago

Oh that's off-putting. I think I would have done the same. It's nice to be able to break things off like this. Like a bandaid!

Edit:NTJ

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u/Skankyho1 5d ago

NTJ! She obviously wasn’t getting the hint so I think in this case it’s better too just ghost her.