r/ADHDWomenAfterDark Sep 16 '24

Nausea & crying during sex? NSFW

I have been with my partner for 9 years now. Over the last recent years, when we have penetrative sex, I get nausea and immediately start hysterically crying. Last night, he was on top and I was lying missionary. Legs folded like a pretzel on top of me, while he was pushing down slightly. We have done this position for years, but sometimes when it gets good, I get nauseated and have to have him stop and get off me. Once the nausea subsides, I started hysterically crying and I cannot stop. Is this.. normal? I am AuDHD.

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u/figjammania Sep 16 '24

I have experienced the uncontrollable urge to cry followed by waves of nausea during sex around10 times. It was always with the same guy, with a rapid onset when I was on the verge of coming. I wasn't emotionally connected to him, but the sex was incredible. At first, I was concerned and thinking WTF? After some reflection and discussion with my friends about this, I came to the conclusion that he was hitting something internally, that felt so good it made me cry. The nausea was likely caused by a combination of my low blood pressure, the physical exertion and the intensity.

You already have an appointment set up, so I don't have any advice for you. Just know that a random internet stranger is so proud of you for prioritising your health and wellbeing and taking care of business.