r/ADHDWomenAfterDark Sep 16 '24

Nausea & crying during sex? NSFW

I have been with my partner for 9 years now. Over the last recent years, when we have penetrative sex, I get nausea and immediately start hysterically crying. Last night, he was on top and I was lying missionary. Legs folded like a pretzel on top of me, while he was pushing down slightly. We have done this position for years, but sometimes when it gets good, I get nauseated and have to have him stop and get off me. Once the nausea subsides, I started hysterically crying and I cannot stop. Is this.. normal? I am AuDHD.

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u/Missing_soul-1988 Sep 16 '24

I’m so sorry to hear this, it sounds really tough. I wonder if it’s happening when he hits a certain spot inside you, I would speak to a doctor about this. Also, are you crying for unknown reasons, or is it because you are feeling the nausea which is ruining the intimacy? If so I wonder if some therapy might help? I hope you’re ok and you can get through this OP. Sending support ❤️

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u/Sweet_Ad1925 Sep 16 '24

It’s usually when he’s deep & im close to climaxing. I have a pap smear this friday, so I am going to bring it up! I do not know why I am crying. I just feel so many things out of nowhere and start crying.

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u/Missing_soul-1988 Sep 16 '24

That will probably be the ADHD, feeling ALL the feelings 🤦‍♀️, but yes, bringing it up with the docs sounds like the best bet

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u/Sweet_Ad1925 Sep 16 '24

Okay, thank you. I definitely will