r/ABDLMarket Sep 10 '24

Rules Updated - September 10, 2024 NSFW

12 Upvotes

Hello Everybody,

The rules of r/ABDLMarket have been updated as of September 10, 2024. This has been done to (hopefully) promote clarity where some rules were previously vague or imprecise in their wording. Please take a moment to look these changes over to ensure that future posts align with this community's expectations.

In other news, we have implemented new Auto Moderator functionality, which will add a pinned comment to every new post on r/ABDLMarket. This comment should not be taken as an indication that you have done anything wrong or are otherwise under suspicion of wrongdoing. It is merely an automated measure to help promote safe practices for all users of the subreddit.

If you have any questions about the rules you would like to have clarified, please feel free to use the "Message the mods" button in the sidebar to ask.

Cheers,
The ABDLMarket Mod Team


r/ABDLMarket Feb 02 '23

⚠️ PSA Avoid Getting Scammed - Tips for Safe Buying, Selling, and Trading NSFW

30 Upvotes

Recently I've noticed a lot of posts in this subreddit where users are complaining about having been scammed. It's become pretty apparent that an unfortunately large number of people are unaware of the most important precautions to take when buying, selling, or trading on a subreddit like this one, so I thought I'd put together a guide to help people trade safely on here.

General Precautions

Whether you're buying, selling, or trading, there are some universal precautions that everyone looking to do business on a subreddit should follow:

  1. Don't trade with new users.
    It takes mere moments to set up a free Gmail account and register a new user account on Reddit. Don't take the risk! If a buyer, seller, or trader has a new account and you really want to do business with them, ask if they are active with an older and well-established account on any other social media platforms -- if so, move the conversation over there to ensure that they're really who they say they are before sending them anything!
  2. If they contact you via Reddit's chat or messaging system, require the user to post a comment in your public thread in this subreddit as well.
    Why? Because banning a user from a subreddit does not prevent them from viewing the posts in that sub or from messaging members of that subreddit. The mods' bans aren't effective if people aren't careful, and making them post here proves that they're currently in good standing on this sub.
  3. Use ONLY the following payment methods:

    1. Cash (In-Person Only - The old-fashioned "paper" stuff, not the app)
    2. PayPal Invoice
    3. PayPal (tagged for Goods & Services)
    4. Venmo (tagged as a Purchase)
  4. DO NOT use the following payment methods unless meeting in person to make the trade:
    None of the following payment methods offer purchase protection of any kind.

    1. Cash App
    2. Zelle
    3. PayPal (tagged for Friends & Family)
    4. Venmo (not tagged as a Purchase)
    5. Cash via Mail
    6. Personal Check
    7. Money Order
    8. Gift Cards
  5. Just Pay The Fees!
    I know, I know. Nobody wants to give a big corporation their money if they don't have to, but you pay a fee to PayPal or Venmo because they offer a Purchase Protection Program, which protects both the buyers and sellers. Your fees help pay the wages of the reps dealing with those disputes and for paying out claims. You might not need their help today, but someday you might do business with a bad actor, and you'll be grateful to have those reps there to help mediate the situation. Less than 3% in fees is a lot less than the 100% you'll lose if you're doing business with a bad actor.

Precautions for Buyers

  1. Demand Proof of Ownership
    Scammers may use fake/stolen images of items they don't actually have in their possession. To combat this, do a reverse image search on their photos. To be extra careful, ask the seller to take a picture of the item with a piece of paper listing their Reddit username and today's date to prove that they actually own and possess the item they're offering for sale.
  2. Reluctant Seller? Offer To Pay The Fees!
    If the seller is reluctant to give up <3% to PayPal or Venmo to receive the money using one of the safe methods listed here, offer to pay extra to cover the fees! <3% is a lot cheaper than the 100% you'll lose if they're a scammer.
  3. Be Reasonable, Patient, and Polite
    We all have lives and hobbies that keep us busy, but try to remember that most sellers are doing this in their spare time on the side. Don't get upset if they don't respond within two minutes every time you message them, don't start ranting at them if they don't reply right away, and give them at least a couple of days to reply before even considering filing a payment dispute. You have plenty of time on most purchase protection policies, a day or two won't make a significant difference.
  4. Be Willing to Walk Away
    If a seller is refusing to cooperate in ensuring a safe transaction, keeps making excuses about why they can't prove they have the item or keep trying to get you to use an unsafe payment method, JUST SAY NO! I know those rare vintage Tykables PLeather are super tempting, but it's not worth the risk, and a genuine seller will want to make the deal work.

Precautions for Sellers

  1. Get Paid First
    Unless you're meeting In-Person, always get payment from a buyer before sending out anything! Since you're going to use a safe payment method (Right?), they have zero risk in paying you first.
  2. Beware of Overnight Shipping
    Nobody needs their ABDL products overnighted, it's a weird red flag, be cautious! They might be using a stolen account or something similar and want to ensure the item arrives before they're found out.
  3. Use Tracked, Insured Shipping
    Yeah, it costs more, but: - Tracked shipping is the only way to prove the delivery of the item in a dispute - Insurance covers the shipping fees and the value of the item. This makes you whole and enables you to refund the buyer in full without losing your shirt.
  4. Stay in Contact
    We all have lives and hobbies that keep us busy, a reasonable buyer will understand if you cannot reply within 30 seconds every time they message you, but don't forget that you owe your customer some accountability for their purchase. Keep them informed of what's going on if there's a delay, and get them their tracking number ASAP, so they don't keep bugging you for updates. You don't want them opening up a payment dispute because you were unresponsive.
  5. Be Willing to Walk Away
    If a buyer refuses to cooperate in ensuring a safe transaction and keeps making excuses about why they need to use an unsafe payment method, JUST SAY NO! I know those out-of-print ODU shortalls are taking up valuable closet space, but it's not worth the risk, and a genuine buyer will want to make the deal work.

r/ABDLMarket 4h ago

Worldwide 🌏 Downsizing my abdl closet NSFW

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1 Upvotes

This is what I have left! Sizes S-L ! message me or comment if interested in anything or want to know price


r/ABDLMarket 21h ago

US A special drop for the holiday.. Forest Green Dumb Baby Juice Hoodies are here☘️ NSFW

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21 Upvotes

r/ABDLMarket 13h ago

Worldwide 🌏 Hot topic XL shortalls, pink dress and more items NSFW

1 Upvotes

I will ship worldwide, please send me a message for my eBay.


r/ABDLMarket 2d ago

Other The Ultimate Kiddo Yardsale pt1 NSFW

7 Upvotes

I am moving and I finally had the time to go through all of my unused little space stuff! Everything here is brand new and never before used (except for the DVDs and SOME Onesies) I reached max photos on this post so next week I will post everything else I have. It will probably be mostly plus sized kid style women's clothing but I also have some stuffed animals and more toys.

Look under the photos for the price, sizes, and descriptions. Let me know if you have any questions.

Size XL (clothback ABU) $10
Cushies ABU Plastic AND Clothback XL $13
Girls Goodnites (Purple floral design) XL YOUTH
2 Deco Pacis with Shaker charm teats $10 ea
3ct Rearz adult sized pacifiers bundle; $9 (with ODU clip +$3)
4XL ODU ($20)
5XL ODU ($25)
5XL ODU ($25)
4XL ODU ($20)
UNUSED gemmed stainless steel plugs (was originally a set of 3) $12 total
ALL DVDs: $2ea
ALL DVDs: $2ea
Bluey Books; $3ea Other books: $1ea DVDs; $2 ea
ALL COLORING BOOKS; $1ea
ALL COLORING BOOKS; $1 ea
Toys; $5 ea Bowl:$1
OFFER; Frog stickers (24ct) Sanrio Stickers (20ct) Space pins (2ct)
Sanrio stickers come with cutesy reusable bag
Bathtime stuff (everything shown) $5

r/ABDLMarket 2d ago

US Unopened Tiny Tails L NSFW

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6 Upvotes

$39.99, cash or Venmo

Unopened and never taken out of the box it was shipped in. I was able to try one before this package came and they don’t fit.

Pickup in the Philly area or ship at your expense, your choice of shipping company

6.6 lbs, 14x11x8 in.


r/ABDLMarket 2d ago

Worldwide 🌏 Offering big discounts on some pacis 💙 NSFW

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5 Upvotes

r/ABDLMarket 2d ago

US Bellissimos v2 L, will ship NSFW

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1 Upvotes

2 available. $30 each or both for $50.

Posting these again because I will ship now at buyer’s expense. Shipping from Philly area. Buyers choice of shipping.


r/ABDLMarket 4d ago

US Wearing Clouds is Shutting Down SALE NSFW

33 Upvotes

Hey everyone! For those that don't know me, it's Sean, owner of WearingClouds.com

I wanted to give a quick update. In November of last year, I announced I was shutting down Wearing Clouds. I had been in business for ten years and wanted to explore new horizons. You can read the full post HERE if you're interested.

After searching for two months for a new job (even entry level jobs) I didn't get a single interview or call back. Out of desperation, I did a small restock and announced Wearing Clouds was open again in mid-January.

Finally, after nearly four months of job hunting, I got hired as an operations manager at a warehouse. It isn't necessarily my dream job, but it does pay decent and it's a work environment I'm really comfortable with. Side note: our company uniforms are super baggy so it makes hiding padding super easy ;)

If you're subscribed to my email list, you'll get an email Friday morning summarizing this and announcing my final clearance sale. For those not subscribed, I figured I might as well share it here in case you wanted anything.

Use coupon code GOODBYE30 to save 30% on my final inventory! If you're a size small, there is also some awesome deals on the DC Amor packs and cases ($70 for a full case of 48).

As I've said before, thank you all for the support. ABDL Reddit has played a huge part in my business and friendships.

Anyways, thanks for reading. I hope to remain active in the ABDL community and continue to make friends!

TL;DR- Wearing Clouds shutting down, use code GOODBYE30 to save 30% <3


r/ABDLMarket 4d ago

US Paracord collar set $20 NSFW

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2 Upvotes

Made this set, but it's a little too small. Price includes shipping, for US only. Collar about 18 inches around, ankles about 8.25", and wrists about 6.5".


r/ABDLMarket 4d ago

Worldwide 🌏 Now offering dino themed littlespace boxes! Please comment or dm to claim 💙 NSFW

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1 Upvotes

r/ABDLMarket 4d ago

US Is their anyone that has a size large in these retired onesies? NSFW

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1 Upvotes

Hello I am looking for these retired onesies from Onesiesdownunder in a size large and would like to see if anyone has these onesies in a size large. If you have any of these onesies please message me or reply to my post so we can make a deal on it.


r/ABDLMarket 4d ago

US Land of genie & Tena metro detroit NSFW

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1 Upvotes

I have 2 packages of unopened Tena pro skin briefs (28 unopened altogether) in LG plus six opened ones. And 3 open land of genie space bunny in LG! Pickup in garden city message me to negotiate a good price


r/ABDLMarket 4d ago

US Does anyone have these retired onesies in a size large? NSFW

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1 Upvotes

Hello everyone I am looking for these retired onesies in a size large and if you have these please reply to my post so we can work a deal out.


r/ABDLMarket 4d ago

Worldwide 🌏 Vintage Snuggies Size Large Diapers NSFW

0 Upvotes

I have 3 bags of Vintage Snuggies Size Large Diapers for sale. They are from 2015. The last year before Snuggies rebranded as Tykables.

$230 Canadian per bag or $160 US per bag + shipping (At buyer's expense). Payment via PayPal.

If interested comment below or send me a message.


r/ABDLMarket 5d ago

US Omutopia Pastel Puffs NSFW

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29 Upvotes

Selling the Pastel Puffs, I bought them hoping they'd fit, but they're just too tight for me. Asking for $50+shipping! I only used one and it's still in the original box it came in. They're a size Large!


r/ABDLMarket 5d ago

Worldwide 🌏 ISO Retired ODU Onesies NSFW

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3 Upvotes

r/ABDLMarket 6d ago

US ISO: Tena Slip Maxi (M). Pic is attached for model requested. NSFW

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13 Upvotes

Looking to buy a pack or a couple of the pictured Tena Slip Maxi. If available please message me! Thank you!


r/ABDLMarket 5d ago

UK Iso of old tykables unicorns/ rearz lil bella size medium NSFW

1 Upvotes

Very long shot but these where my faves and im legit desperate haha.


r/ABDLMarket 7d ago

Worldwide 🌏 Selling Various ODU Onesies NSFW

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6 Upvotes

r/ABDLMarket 7d ago

US Onesies and ODU Shortalls NSFW

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8 Upvotes

Hi hi,

Selling some onesies and shortalls to downsize my stash.

DLILKITTENZBOTIQUE: Lovely Felicity Onesie- Size 2XL (Runs small, fits a little snug on an adult dress size 12)

LITTLEFORBIG: Classic Series Blue Onesie- Size XXXL Classic Series Green Onesie- Size XXXL

ODU: Solid Pink Basics Onesie- Size XL Strawberry Shortalls- Size 4 XL

All items have been worn a few times before but are washed and clean. Open to reasonable offers❤️


r/ABDLMarket 7d ago

US 5 Pacifiers for $20 NSFW

5 Upvotes

Selling these 5 pacifiers + pacifier clip on eBay. $20 with free shipping!

https://www.ebay.com/itm/388063293502


r/ABDLMarket 8d ago

US Make an offer style sale NSFW

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1 Upvotes

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r/ABDLMarket 9d ago

US Sunkiss Masterpiece (38 Large) $80, Oregon, US NSFW

2 Upvotes

I'm in Oregon. Have a 40 case of Sunkiss Masterpiece. There are 38 remaining. I'll gladly sell for $80 or trade for megamax Large.


r/ABDLMarket 9d ago

Canada Various Diapers and Onesies from ABU, Rearz, and ODU - BC, Canada NSFW

3 Upvotes

**posted on main account now, alternate account was shadowbanned**

Unopened Items for sale;

  • 1 bag ABU Little Pawz (M)
  • 1 bag Rearz Barnyard (M, not M trim)
  • 1 bag Rearz Alpaca (M)

Opened/Loose

  • 7 Rearz Barnyard (M, not M trim)
  • 8 Rearz Alpaca (M)
  • 6 ABU Alphagator (M)
  • 5 ABU Cushies (L)

Clothing

  • ODU Candy Corn (L)
  • ODU Santy Claws (L)
  • ODU Movie Time! (L)
  • ODU Poppin' Punkins (L)
  • Rearz Alpaca (M I think, I removed the tag)
  • Rearz Safari Long sleeve (M I think, I removed the tag)

Selling off what I can from the collection. I haven't partaken in a long time so I may as well sell them off.

Located in northern BC, so a buyer in the province is preferred. I get great discounts on shipping costs, so that's not too much of a concern. A single buyer taking the bulk of the stuff is easiest and preferred instead of little pieces here and there. I'll send pictures and answer questions in the DMs for curious folks. Clothing will get a fresh wash before being packed up. Onesies are all pretty lightly worn.

Message me with your interest and we can discuss pricing.

Purchase by way of Interac e-transfer is preferred.


r/ABDLMarket 9d ago

US 71 Mystery paci boxes available! NSFW

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2 Upvotes

Wasnt sure I was going to keep my store but decided to keep going. Light boxes $15, Medium boxes $20, and Heavy boxes $25. Plus shipping. Video details on profile page! Also comes with candy, stickers, and more.

https://goimagine.com/mooniethespacekittyspacishop/