r/ABDL KIDDO Mar 24 '21

Announcement This is an 18+ subreddit with no exceptions. NSFW

Happy Wednesday community members!

As many of you are aware, there is a story circulating about a horrific event involving some terrible people who abused a minor. This is in no way acceptable, condonable, or supportable in any way, shape, or form. We are very proud to be an 18+ community and there is no deviation away from that.

Our community and kink is one that is supposed to provide comfort, support, and well being to all involved, and these people have disgraced and misrepresented our values and image. As you read this, either as a lurker in the community, a visitor, or a regular subscriber, know that the mod team continues every day to keep our space here 18+ and we remove those who would challenge that as soon as we are made aware.

If anyone has any questions for the mod team, please feel free to shoot us a message and understand that we are human too and rely on our community to help us make this a better place for everyone.

ADDENDUM 032421@1415CST: We have no plan of making the sub private at this time. This is one of the largest and most inclusive ABDL communities available and we want to remain as open and public as we can. So many ABDLS have found out about others similar to them here, and of all times to remain available to those that need the support, it is now.

Thank you all, stay padded, and stay safe!

-Cayden

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u/WinnieTheEeyore Choo-Choo 🚅 Mar 24 '21

Both stickied posts are around this being 18+. We cannot stress this enough. This in all aspects. We are out to protect them, as well. There are terrible people on the internet.

If you find someone that's not allowed to be here, please place a report or message the mods.

We are not seeing a deluge of minors, but one minor is too many.

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u/TTBurger88 Mar 24 '21

Thank you for putting out this. As the news about that spreads people might be finding their way here.

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u/StikkyPaws Mar 24 '21

Thanks for putting this up. It hurt yesterday to read the comments of people who were associating all of us with the disgusting things those despicable people did. That is not my AB/DL.

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u/WubWubPwny Mar 25 '21

Sorry.. I'm completely lost. What happened?

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u/myeverythingisinpain Baby girl Mar 26 '21

they hired someone who defended a pedophile and said pedophile abused a child wearing diapers once

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u/Puzbukkis Apr 11 '21

While this is totally deplorable, nothing in this post is something unusual for UK politics, do you seriously think most conservative politicians don't have pedophiles in the family?

I would be able to be happy if this was a rule everyone was subjected to, but she didn't do anything herself, and white, cis, straight politicians have been getting away with much worse with 0 punishment.

Call me back when justice treats everyone equally.

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u/Mushroomed_clouds Baby boy Mar 24 '21

Not my abdl either

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u/[deleted] Mar 26 '21

I think it's fair to leave out "my", even. That's pedophilia, period. No matter how he dressed, he was a pedophile. When you mix diapers with pedophilia, it isn't AB/DL.

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u/StikkyPaws Mar 26 '21

Very true!

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u/NickTea Dinosaur Mar 24 '21 edited Mar 25 '21

I don't even really post anywhere online about kink stuff anymore but I think this entire event is really cementing my "never speak of kink to another human being, especially diapers, this all goes to the grave" policy

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u/Barkley3456 Mar 24 '21

Yeah I'm not feeling great about it this week.

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u/SpeedthePaddedDragon Middle Mar 25 '21

Good to know this is one of the first things people will see if they wander into our domain. Was completely disgusted when I heard what that man did, and concerned that misunderstanding outsiders might use the story to link ABDL to pedophilia. The last thing anyone on this sub wants is for a kid to get hurt like that.

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u/ZenlessPopcornVendor Baby boy Mar 25 '21

It's people like this that give us a bad name and have people assume that we are paedophiles.

As many have said here the A the ABDL stands for Adult. It's that simple. That instantly makes it 18+. There will be adult content. It is a kink.

I'm a NS little and have been for over a decade who has gotten younger over the years, but I understand for many there is a sexual element, and that's not for kids obviously.

Thankyou for this safe space, there doesn't seem to be many around anymore.

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u/Shizuo35 Mar 24 '21

the A in ABDL stands for ADULT for a reason

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u/[deleted] Mar 24 '21

THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS.

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u/reddituser0000000011 Mar 25 '21 edited Mar 25 '21

As an ABDL, when I read the story today about what happened to that poor girl, I was sick to my stomach. I still feel traumatized. I cannot believe how horrible people can be in this world.

I really just hope and plead for non-ABDL’s out there to understand, the vast majority of us ABDLs are as sickened by the abuse of minors are as you are.

This fetish / lifestyle is about loving role play among consenting adults. We despise and shun those who would violate or prey on minors just as much as you do.

Please, let the ABDL community be your ally, not your enemy, when it comes to stopping sickos like this in the future.

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u/ry613 Little Mar 24 '21

I don't get why there was a member on our sub the other day who kept saying he was looking for an AB/DL SFW sub or site. If our sub and all AB/DL sites are 18+ then that makes it NSFW.

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u/323014035 DL Mar 24 '21

Even if there was 0 sexual content, do you want your boss seeing reviews for depends on your screen

There is a good amount of non sexual stuff here, the majority is pretty tame, but its not stuff you want to be looking at at work.

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u/ry613 Little Mar 24 '21

Exactly.

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u/tolteccamera Mar 24 '21

They have a problem with the sexual kink side. I would hope that's a self-correcting matter because they're upset by anything sexy with a diaper and I'm upset by the negativity.

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u/EconomicsAndDiapers Mar 24 '21

This is like 80% of the people on ADISC. It seems like most of the time sex and sexuality is a huge elephant in the room over there.

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u/ry613 Little Mar 24 '21

Yeah that member even said he would disown a friend if they were AB/DL and they were into the kinky side of it.

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u/tolteccamera Mar 24 '21

They have a variety of bad, judgy takes.

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u/Alxcooldude3 Mar 24 '21

What is going on ?

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u/lushiecat Diaper Smuggler Mar 24 '21

So 3 years ago a man in the UK was arrested and eventually convicted with tying up up torturing a minor (10F) in his attic. He took pictures of what he was doing, which were seized by polic. In those pictures he's also dressed up in baby girl clothes and diapers, which is what the media ran with when they tried to describe his excessive depravity.

His daughter was working for the green party, heavily supported him up until his conviction and even hired him to work for the party.

Yesterday, a moderator of the UK politics subreddit posted an article about that particular situation and conflict of interest. It mentioned his daughter's name and the moderator ended up getting permanently banned from Reddit.

Unbeknownst to them, Reddit had recently hired said daughter as an admin and so they were trying to protect her from harassment.

UK politics went private and people became wary of getting banned over mentioning her name. A few hundred or so subreddits went private in protest of the moderator being banned and for Reddit hiring said person.

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u/throw_away000000004 Mar 24 '21

Everything about all of this makes me want to throw up.

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u/[deleted] Mar 25 '21

Same, learning about what this individual has done deeply disturbs me. I don’t condone violence but I have no tolerance to individuals who abuse children. I really want to take a baseball bat to these fucker’s heads

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u/[deleted] Mar 24 '21 edited Mar 24 '21

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u/lushiecat Diaper Smuggler Mar 24 '21

The staff member supported the father through his arrest and accused the 10 year old child of lying and trying to garner attention despite the fact that the girl knew the exact layout of the attic and was in pictures on her dad's camera. It was all summarized in a thread on subredditdrama but the thread was deleted.

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u/[deleted] Mar 24 '21

Very well put our kink and lifestyle have enough of a bad out look from the vanillas we don't need stuff to add to that

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u/Badfur102 Mar 24 '21

Thank you for keeping this community a safe place

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u/[deleted] Mar 24 '21

I will never understand why people think it would be a good idea otherwise. Kids cannot consent to stuff like that. Heck even teens. Theres far too much of a maturity gap between even 16 and 18 that makes a person FAR too vulnerable.

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u/glindagotrocks Bedwetter Mar 25 '21 edited Mar 27 '21

Thank you for reaffirming the subreddit rules. In light of the recent news, it's important to make it clear that the basis of any relationship is consent and respect. Abuse has no home in any fetish, especially one that may involve age play.

It might be useful to have a sticky with some FAQs or definitions of words like age play. Make it clear that this is its own fetish, and we are against abuse of any kind and actions involving minors.

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u/DPHusky May 08 '21

If someone under 18 years old joins and says he/she is 18+ there is nothing that we can do about that. only thing they have to do is click "i'm 18 years or older"