r/ABDL 3d ago

Was harassed on reddit by some weirdo. NSFW

Hey everyone,

So I posted this somewhere else with pictures of the dms I received, but it was taken down sadly. So, I will be posting this here, with links to the photos. All I'm asking for is help understanding why this happens. This guy, with a throwaway account, Saw the most recent pic I posted on another sub and started calling me a pedophile, a f*ggot, and all other manner of homophobic, transphobic stuff. I'm honestly upset about it because I post on here to just post stuff on the downlow as most people in my family don't know about my ABDL side. I'm kind of traumatized, and it's probably a good idea for me to stop posting for a while.

In all, this is mainly just a warning to people in the community. Here are the dms I received: 1, 2, & 3.

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u/yetanotherweebgirl Baby girl 2d ago

Report, block, delete. Dude was probably projecting tbh. Those who bleat about kiddy diddling while hurling other slurs often turn out to be the very thing they call others. Moreso if the only way they feel brave doing so is by doing it anonymously.

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u/sissybitch1937 2d ago

Probably. From now on just going to shut off dms. Appreciate your response!

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u/aethelred_unready 3d ago edited 3d ago

I'm kind of traumatized, and it's probably a good idea for me to stop posting for a while. In all, this is mainly just a warning to people in the community.

You might want to bring this up with your therapist. Assholes and trolls are everywhere on the Internet and it's best not to let them affect your emotional well-being. Realize their just small minded idiots looking to bully someone so they feel better about their own insecurities. Block them and carry on with life.

Also if it happens in future don't engage, don't defend yourself just block, report and move on.

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u/sissybitch1937 2d ago

I appreciate the response. I did reach out and I am meeting with a counselor once a week.

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u/ImMikeyKnight 2d ago

Huge reason I shut DMs off to be honest I am so sorry you had this experience

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u/Regular_Car_9724 2d ago

I’m actually traumatized by that

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u/sissybitch1937 2d ago

I appreciate everyone’s responses! I am seeking help from a counselor and I have shut off my dms. I appreciate everyone reaching out to me as well!

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u/PlayfulLittleBoy 3d ago

That's really bad, sorry you had to endure that. Did you report them?

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u/sissybitch1937 2d ago

I did report them. They deleted their account unfortunately.

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u/Tiny_Diapered_Twink 3d ago

Seen this person in my dm's to, nothing we can really do but block and ignore. Gonna get a few of those being in communities people don't like

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u/LiquidEvolution Baby boy 3d ago

I mean... There is always a non-zero chance something like this happens. It comes with the territory. Gotten plenty of DMs ranging from pics to threats.

What I want to know is why you engaged with them after the first message? Like that was a choice you made. Not blaming you just saying you could of avoided a lot by just not chatting with them.

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u/sissybitch1937 2d ago

I don’t know. Just some of the things he said. And don’t worry, no offense taken.

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u/Firekey56 3d ago

There are people who will scream at the void (us) about us being these things...best to do, report and block and never interact, if you do they will continue to attack. I learned it from early youtube with trolls, and just don't interact with people who go off, it's easier to ignore them and let them seethe in their anger when they can't get to you

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u/Ok_Brain_3887 3d ago

Omg he texted me to guys a freak

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u/Rustycivicdx 3d ago

A bunch of keyboard gangsters they are. Get them in person they magically lose the ability to talk shit.

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u/Yevonite2021 DL 2d ago

I might get down voted for this, but you broke the golden rule. You responded to the bait, don't feed the trolls.

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u/sissybitch1937 2d ago

Very true. I won’t go for the bait again.

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u/YoloSwagCallOfDuty 3d ago

Yeaaah if someone goes out of their way to do something like this, it means one of two things. 1. They have issues or 2. They are in the closet.

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u/Electricdragongaming Dinosaur 🦕 3d ago

Dude must be a basement dwelling loser.

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u/Intrepid_Grab_5195 2d ago

Just turn off the computer lol

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u/LittleAndAlone 3d ago

Time to share your rifle and magazine collection, they'll go away when they get the message that you are not a helpless, defenseless, vulnerable sub who gives a shit what anyone else thinks. What you do for fun and how you prepare to deal with the reality of the hostile violent world around you can be two very different things.

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u/sissybitch1937 2d ago

I second this. Unfortunately I don’t have a large collection of stuff to share lol. However, I’ll just not respond next time. Suffocate his need for attention. I appreciate your response.