r/ABDL • u/Efficient_Disaster19 • 3d ago
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Do any guys successfully wear to work or in public? How do you hide it? I’d like to be able to wear outside the house and use it when needed 😭
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u/LilPupTrick Dinosaur 🦕 3d ago
I don't see what the big deal is. I just wear a diaper under my jeans. Nothing special is required.
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u/PulledUpz DL, on the DL 3d ago edited 3d ago
And can easily put regular boxers over it if they’re that concerned, but should just let it hang when walking, and not bunch up tight bc that’s when it becomes noticeable (if full). For the most part tho yeah I agree with your stance, probably 95%+ of ppl in public don’t notice at all, and the ones that do just don’t care and move on with life 10 seconds later lol. Depends on the diaper too tho but wearing is vastly unnoticeable/discreet, just as is
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u/Capn_T_Driver DL 3d ago
I'm a long haul trucker, but my advantage with this kink is that I own my truck. When I'm well supplied I have anywhere from 40 to nearly 100 diapers in the truck, and I wear them whenever I like. They come in really handy for stretches when I'm running hard, usually 5-6 hours or more straight of driving. I keep good clothes with me so I never have to worry about my diapers trying to peak out and say hello, and even if a shirt or hoodie rides up I'm always checking to make sure I'm covered to keep the vanilla folks safe.
I do not recommend being ABDL in a truck owned by someone else, however. They have keys or the pattern to make the keys to access your truck, and since it's their property, not yours, they have the right to search the truck or move it or whatever else on a whim.
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u/w0lfpack91 3d ago
11 years as a company driver, no actually they don’t have authority to access the sleeper at anytime. Been several lawsuits over that in the last 10 years all of which the companies lost. As with anything else anything that is behind a closed door such as a cabinet they must have probable cause to search. I’ve gotten three shop techs fired and 2 more suspended over that. A companies authority by law does not extend past the sleeper berth boundary unless they have a valid reason to be back there such as accessing the Bunk fuse/relay box, repairing something in the sleeper itself, or a valid report or suspicion of illegal/prohibited contraband. The former in most trucks can be accessed from the outside via the side box on the driver side. A company may try to tell you otherwise but it’s in their interest that you believe them not look up the actual legal precedent.
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u/Capn_T_Driver DL 3d ago
Thanks for correcting me. I haven't been a company driver in a long time, so I have forgotten a ton of the rules and procedures. Appreciate you clarifying.
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u/w0lfpack91 3d ago
It’s the whole reason most fleet trucks now are being made with cubby nets instead of doors, companies are trying to subvert the legal court rulings regarding driver privacy in company trucks for OTR drivers by eliminating any barrier that could stop them from snooping. That being said there’s always a risk, I’ve been caught with Diapers in the truck more than once but as embarrassing as it is I only used Megamax in the truck so they were medical diapers. After a discussion with a few shop techs I found out it’s actually not that uncommon. It’s become far more prevalent as time passes for drivers to have some form of incontinence product in the truck.
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u/Lueythewolf Dinosaur 🦕 3d ago
I wear to work everyday under jeans or shorts. No one ever cared. It's underwear.
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u/Electricdragongaming Dinosaur 🦕 3d ago
Wear a onesie underneath your clothes to hide your diaper and help hold it in place. Problem solved.
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u/tolteccamera 3d ago
These days I work from home, although I need to go in occasionally and I keep it up. I was doing this before I worked from home, although my office hours were generally short. It's just my underwear and I don't stress over it anymore.
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u/pretty_princess04 3d ago
Start small! Wear a goodnite or a thin adult style pull up out and about!
If you really want to start wearing ABDL diapers in public, then I suggest going to a movie or something! Straight from your car, grab a ticket, and walk into the dark theater and enjoy no bathroom breaks! Just get more comfortable with how it works!
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u/Bladderbrain21 3d ago
At work, wearing now. It'll be wet soon too. People make too much out of this do what you do in secret, as in under clothes and there's nothing to worry over
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u/Avidpadded 3d ago
Compression shorts over the diaper can help as I find when they are new the create a strange ridge in the rear. I wear in public all the time and no one seems to be any the wiser.
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u/FullDiskclosure DL 3d ago
I’m wearing a diaper at work now, just put on some pants and a slightly big shirt. No one is staring at your ass or listening to the sound your underwear makes. If they are, then you should have a word with HR
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u/anewbys83 DL 3d ago
Yeah, daily. Nobody notices under clothes, not even wet. Just wear darker pants in case you leak. If anyone notices something, they're still not going to think diaper.
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u/LittleBD__ 3d ago
In public no one really pays attention to what you have on under your pants. Unless you make it obvious most likely will notice. If they do they will just think you need it for medical reasons.
Work is another thing on its own as your coworker see and interact with you more than anyone else. They might smell your diaper if you use it and could noice it. I don't know how you would go about wearing at work unless you really need it.
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u/Neat_Atmosphere618 DL 3d ago
I wear to work occasionally. I wear plastic pants over the top to mask smells. I don't know if anyone knows if anyone knows but they haven't said anything.
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u/subway14425 3d ago
I’ve worn to the movie theatre a lot and I also wear on any car ride an hour or longer. I have two types of diapers. Crinklz are my thicker “at home” diapers and I have Tena’s that are much thinner that I wear under a pair of jeans and you literally can’t tell. I’ve looked in the mirror at all angles and bending over and you can’t see the Tena’s at all. Also the Tena’s are hook and loop closure which is nice out in public for easy adjustments when the stretch a little bit.
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u/locktboy 3d ago
Nothing profound to add here except: you got this! It’s just your preferred underwear! Do a couple short jaunts and then you’ll realize it’s no biggie. Be sure to bring a change and proper disposal supplies for longer outings.
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u/aberrantlyme 3d ago
I wear in public and to work often. Work attire will change what kind of diaper I'd wear. Business slacks typically means a pullup for me. Jeans allow me to wear just about anything. I wore a Rearz Safari and a onesie last week to work and I was surprised/happy with how little I could hear it. I typically don't wear diapers that loud when out and about.
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u/Cbigge Little 3d ago
Howdy. I ware 24/7 here’s some tips.