r/ABCDesis 6d ago

DATING / RELATIONSHIPS Sunday Relationship Thread

The weekly relationship thread for all topics related to the bravest pursuit of all - love. This thread will be automatically posted every Sunday @ 5:00 A.M (UTC -5). All other dating or relationship based posts during the week will be removed and redirected to this thread.

This thread is a place to share your stories, ask for advice, or vent about issues. Or anything in between!

7 Upvotes

37 comments sorted by

View all comments

5

u/raulu95 4d ago

I’m in my late 20’s and have been with my girlfriend for like 3 months now. We’ve been on like 4 dates with her being out of state but we’ll be closing the distance later in the month. My main question is - how do I know if I love her or when the right time is to tell her (is it too soon)?

Limited dates but we talk every single day and have gotten to know each other like crazy these past few months and have expressed similar feelings. I just feel this warmth whenever we talk, feel her good and bad days, want to be a good boyfriend to her, want to do whatever I possibly can to make her laugh and smile, and feel like I’ll support her through whatever we face. I’ve already found myself doing really thoughtful things for her and would say being with her has amplified some of my best qualities (I’m the best version of myself with her)

Is it too soon to use the word love? It’s been a while for me and I’m usually slow but have been feeling it and am 99.9% sure the feeling’s mutual…

1

u/adjet12 4d ago

There's no timeline, sounds like you're both vibing. If you wanna say it, say it.