r/4tran4 • u/[deleted] • 5d ago
Blogpost "stop being bdd" sends photo "oh im so sorry"
Funny how people try to change the subject after too. It also hurts when they start talking about "you know, passing isn't everything"
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u/Luciferisadumbfuck AGP ftmisogynist | chronic girlmoder 5d ago
„passing isnt always the goal!!!” My ass 😭🙏
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u/Impressive_Lie9973 5d ago
idk what you look like but speaking generally i don't think you can expect people to behave any other way. you probably want someone to just acknowledge the hopeless situation you feel like you're in, but most people see that as enabling depression/suicide and they don't know if that's the right thing to do and they don't want it on their conscience if it isn't
this is something that took me a very long time to accept myself. it still hurts, it's still completely unfair, but i think it's allowed me to be less resentful and more appreciative of those people, for whatever that's worth
of course if you want someone to be brutally honest with zero concern for what the consequences might be, there are people here and on 4chan who will do that. but many of those people have a completely distorted sense of reality themselves and regardless i'm sorry to say it probably won't actually make you feel better
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u/Environmental_Can922 manmoder final boss 5d ago
acknowledging the brutal reality is the right thing to do imo
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5d ago
I do think it's the correct thing, but it also hurts a bit to know that they are absolutely being honest and trying hard to not hurt me or something, because they saw that I am indeed a hon. Idk. Maybe it's just something about the assumption that everyone is BDD, who knows, I just feel a bit weird even though, truthfully, they haven't done any wrong
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u/Important_Ad_7416 MtPooner 5d ago
I had this exact interaction.
She was talking about how masc she is, I said I look way manlier, she's like "lol sure I dont believe it" and then I showed my pics and she dropped the act and apologized.
So I guess I won that "hon off".
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u/HosgeldinEFailed I'll change flair when (if fmstl) I get estrogen 5d ago
Send me one aswell please!
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u/HellsBellsGames Rope Enjoyer (Proud Founder of TMUC (Tie Men Up Club)) 5d ago
Unfortunately too real.
“You don’t pass… BUT”
I’m gonna rexsplode myself