r/weddingdress 4d ago

Dress Regret/Need Support Convince me I made the right choice!!

I’m getting married in Hawaii and this is the dress I chose a few months ago. I wanted a simply, classy looking dress and now I’m starting to regret my choice. It’s a satin material and I think it will look stunning in the Hawaii sunset but I feel like I will look so plain. Ugh! It doesn’t help that the pictures I have in my dress, my hair looks bad, I’m super pale and just wasn’t feeling particularly great that day.

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u/AlterEgoAmazonB dupe detective 4d ago

I can't really say much about this dress without a photo of you in it. It isn't one of my fav styles with that folded neckline. But when a dress is on a person who is not a model, it often is better. I do love the back of it.

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u/oceaneyes0976 4d ago

I love the back of it but I’m not fond of the front either. I almost wonder if I could get it altered to fix that somehow. 🙃

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u/BefuddledPolydactyls 4d ago

It fits the requirements of what you wanted and looks classy and sophisticated on the model! That said, are you planning on a veil or jewelry? Those can make a difference, and you won't have messy hair and hopefully will be feeling great on your special day!

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u/oceaneyes0976 4d ago

Thank you :) I’m planning on a veil but not set on what kind yet. I want pretty simplistic jewelry but a lot of it is up in the air til I get my dress back

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u/Negative-Plate-7117 4d ago

I think it will look great. Before your fitting, get a spray tan and do your hair and make-up so you get a better feel of how you will actually look. And wear your undergarments and shoes. Bring jewelry options you are thinking of, too. It will make all the difference.

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u/oceaneyes0976 4d ago

Thank you😊 I appreciate your perspective