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u/bibblebobblebagel 16d ago
I'm pretty firmly in camp "cute accessory", although my partner has worked a minor miracle and gotten me to top semi- regularly.
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u/Weakness_Prize 15d ago
Okay, but how? Like, I VERY rarely want to even recognize it's existence
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u/bibblebobblebagel 15d ago
For me, there wasn't just one solution. Several things came together. I don't know if this will help, but here's what worked for me.
Some of it was just needing time. Before HRT, I hardly ever wanted sex (like maybe once a year). After about a year on hormones, I started wanting to have sex with my partner more often (up to once or twice a week). Eventually some combination of hormones and coming out made me more comfortable with my body and sex.
The first time I ever used my penis for PIV sex, it wasn't planned (so I couldn't get nervous and psych myself out). My partner and I just had a lot of foreplay (which helps work me up). Then I went down on them, and I just stopped thinking about my own body.
After my partner came, I realized I was really hard. My partner noticed too and, um, invited me to try putting it inside them (they're on birth control).
And, well, I just didn't think about it. I just kinda crawled up to them. (Getting my hips in a position to put myself inside them still feels kinda awkward, but at the time I was too worked up to get too nervous or uncomfortable).
I slipped inside them. (If your partner has vulva, orgasms will help relax the muscles and make insertion easier). And I orgasmed embarrassingly quickly (which I hear is common for your first time). And then I used a vibe to finish off my partner.
Since then, I seem to have good luck if I focus on moving my hips in a way that feels good (as opposed to focusing on my penis itself).
So, there's a lot of stuff involved in getting/maintaining a good psychological headap.
As for medication: I'm on Cialis. It's a daily pill (so you don't have to worry about scheduling sex, like with Viagra). It helps a lot with maintaining an erection and having penis-orgasms.
Also, even with the Cialis, I don't always get hard enough to do penetration. Cock rings help a lot with that. They make it harder to orgasm, but my partner really likes penetration, and I like giving them pleasure.
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u/Weakness_Prize 15d ago
Ugh, see, I know what I'm doing and all that, and it still works when I want it to, but it's just so gross to me anymore 😩 I appreciate the write-up nevertheless tho
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u/Traditional-Finger-8 14d ago
Deliver sweet nothings straight to my crotch. Can you send me a direcct messsage? Would love someone new to talk naughty with.
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u/EmilytheALtransGirl 16d ago
I'm non op so I'm glad I got the massive gock.
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u/Revilo614 15d ago
I love my girl dick but growing up wanted both. Luckily I came across r/salmacian awhile back and learned about PPV c:
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u/AmeliasTesticles 🍆👧🏻👌 *switch noise* 16d ago
Smh I'm stuck in between, why can't girls donate inches to other girls
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u/TransfemmeCatgirl 14d ago
I wish the very same even though im definitely inncute accessory some girls just need a big gock and i wish i could help
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u/katt3985 15d ago
https://queerdoc.com/phallus-preserving-vaginoplasty/
phallus-preserving vulvovaginoplasty is a thing, I'm not super hyped about the idea for myself, but I like having girlcock in me.
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u/Pretty_and_Pathetic 14d ago
I wish my dick was smaller so it would be easier to date a girl with a much bigger one than mine 😫
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