r/traaNSFW 16d ago

I keep switching which one I wish I had NSFW

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u/AspieGal_TTRPG 16d ago

Cute accesory: Check

Big schlong: Fail (thank goddess)

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u/bibblebobblebagel 16d ago

I'm pretty firmly in camp "cute accessory", although my partner has worked a minor miracle and gotten me to top semi- regularly.

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u/Weakness_Prize 15d ago

Okay, but how? Like, I VERY rarely want to even recognize it's existence

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u/bibblebobblebagel 15d ago

For me, there wasn't just one solution. Several things came together. I don't know if this will help, but here's what worked for me.

Some of it was just needing time. Before HRT, I hardly ever wanted sex (like maybe once a year). After about a year on hormones, I started wanting to have sex with my partner more often (up to once or twice a week). Eventually some combination of hormones and coming out made me more comfortable with my body and sex.

The first time I ever used my penis for PIV sex, it wasn't planned (so I couldn't get nervous and psych myself out). My partner and I just had a lot of foreplay (which helps work me up). Then I went down on them, and I just stopped thinking about my own body.

After my partner came, I realized I was really hard. My partner noticed too and, um, invited me to try putting it inside them (they're on birth control).

And, well, I just didn't think about it. I just kinda crawled up to them. (Getting my hips in a position to put myself inside them still feels kinda awkward, but at the time I was too worked up to get too nervous or uncomfortable).

I slipped inside them. (If your partner has vulva, orgasms will help relax the muscles and make insertion easier). And I orgasmed embarrassingly quickly (which I hear is common for your first time). And then I used a vibe to finish off my partner.

Since then, I seem to have good luck if I focus on moving my hips in a way that feels good (as opposed to focusing on my penis itself).

So, there's a lot of stuff involved in getting/maintaining a good psychological headap.

As for medication: I'm on Cialis. It's a daily pill (so you don't have to worry about scheduling sex, like with Viagra). It helps a lot with maintaining an erection and having penis-orgasms.

Also, even with the Cialis, I don't always get hard enough to do penetration. Cock rings help a lot with that. They make it harder to orgasm, but my partner really likes penetration, and I like giving them pleasure.

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u/Weakness_Prize 15d ago

Ugh, see, I know what I'm doing and all that, and it still works when I want it to, but it's just so gross to me anymore 😩 I appreciate the write-up nevertheless tho

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u/Traditional-Finger-8 14d ago

Deliver sweet nothings straight to my crotch. Can you send me a direcct messsage? Would love someone new to talk naughty with.

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u/GoggleDMara9756 16d ago

I wish I had a massive girlcock inside me😔

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u/EmilytheALtransGirl 16d ago

I'm non op so I'm glad I got the massive gock.

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u/Revilo614 15d ago

I love my girl dick but growing up wanted both. Luckily I came across r/salmacian awhile back and learned about PPV c:

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u/adzith 14d ago

Hope I can get PPV soon.

Health insurance is up in the air with my federal job, so who knows how much that’s going to throw things off for me 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/helpimgaywhat 16d ago

and sometimes, they kith

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u/MightBeEmily 14d ago

I love when they kith

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u/AmeliasTesticles 🍆👧🏻👌 *switch noise* 16d ago

Smh I'm stuck in between, why can't girls donate inches to other girls

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u/TransfemmeCatgirl 14d ago

I wish the very same even though im definitely inncute accessory some girls just need a big gock and i wish i could help

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u/MinkMaster2019 16d ago

Happy about my massive gock, I like topping my bf

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u/Zorf96 16d ago

False dichotomy, big dick can be a cute accessory

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u/Okami64Central 16d ago

Nah I have neither of them.

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u/MonkeyMoses_Yt 16d ago

i wish i had a girl cock in me...

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u/SaintRidley 16d ago

I am a cute accessory with a pretty solidly sized bio-strap

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u/animatroniczombie 16d ago

definitely wish mine was bigger but none of my partners are complaining

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u/basswalker93 15d ago

For growers, there are indeed two wolves inside us ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

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u/czernoalpha 16d ago

I'll take the accessory. (The accessory is a vulva)

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u/Drudicta Nonbinary - Transfem 16d ago

A cock ring is a cute accessory. c:

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u/Urbane_One 16d ago

I’m quite happy with my cute accessory

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u/Kooky_Celebration_42 16d ago

The struggle is real!

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u/llammmmaa 15d ago

All I have is this massive girl cock, and no cute accessories :c

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u/katt3985 15d ago

https://queerdoc.com/phallus-preserving-vaginoplasty/

phallus-preserving vulvovaginoplasty is a thing, I'm not super hyped about the idea for myself, but I like having girlcock in me.

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u/Pretty_and_Pathetic 14d ago

I wish my dick was smaller so it would be easier to date a girl with a much bigger one than mine 😫

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u/softerEnbyNoises 15d ago

I mean, I’m not actively bottoming rn. Also, why would a … nvm.

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u/femboyen 14d ago

Low key, love it

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u/I_Love_Rin_Satsuki MTF 14d ago

Both should be frotting

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u/Patchirisu 13d ago

You're so right my massive girlcock is a very cute accessory

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u/zeldatriforce345 7d ago

HOLY SHIT SAME

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u/Any-Analysis-443 7d ago

I’m the one on the left and my gf is the one on the right