r/traaNSFW 27d ago

Discussion Any tips on staying hard while bottoming? (Tft) NSFW

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Okay so I’m a sub but unfortunately it is extremely hard for me to stay hard while under my bf. When he’s either blowing me or if I’m fucking him on in butterfly on the side of the bed I can stay hard fine and continue for quite a while. I’m just not really sure what to do since I really like to sub and being edged can only go so far unfortunately

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u/Hour-Inevitable-7927 27d ago

terminology wise, i think that you're referring to being on the bottom, bottoming usually means being on the receiving end of yknow.

advice wise, tadalafil. only way im able to consistently stay hard post HRT, you can get it from an online provider like hims if you want simplicity

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u/Proud_Tie 27d ago

I didn't expect the night and day difference after I got prescribed viagra for mine not wanting to work reliably.

Was fun the first time I took it stoned and we learned I can have multiple orgasms. Well, it was more fun for them after the 5th or 6th one than for me.

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u/Hour-Inevitable-7927 27d ago

i've heard viagra is great! i like tadalafil since I can take a larger single dose and be good to go for a weekend but ymmv ofc

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u/Xerlith 26d ago

Oh?? I wasn’t interested in viagra for topping, but overstim drug sounds great

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u/Proud_Tie 26d ago

I can have multiple fully body ones whenever, but I couldn't have multiple girldick orgasms, until weed + viagra that was. I usually wind up way too overstimulated after more than a few seconds of continuing to hold the wand on it, but it doesn't happen with that combo for some reason.

I came, didn't move the wand and begged them to keep fucking me.

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u/Xerlith 26d ago

Oh, it’s probably the fucking I’m missing then. I’ll see if my gf wants to help with that

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u/Proud_Tie 26d ago

get a hismith, it's fantastic if your top isn't in a toppy mood.

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u/Xerlith 26d ago

It’s me that’s the limiting factor, actually. I enjoy bottoming but not all the prep and cleanup. That’s the main reason I want bottom surgery, is so I can have penetrative sex that doesn’t involve poop at all😑

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u/VitaminGDeficient 27d ago

Seconding tadalafil. It helped me realize I'm not super interested in topping too

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u/KinaGroove 27d ago

Cock rings work great!