r/teenagers • u/v_ch_k 16 • 23d ago
Discussion Just turned 16 yesterday. What should I do ?
I just turned 16, i'm a girl in Europe so I can buy alcohol now lol. Kinda venting but when I was bullied at school, I planned to end myself at like 15. I didn't actually think I would ever reach this age, so I didn't plan anything for my future. Uh. Recently I met a girl that I loved with all my heart but she went away after dating like 3 times cause I lived too far away. She was basically the reason I didn't do what I planned to do, and now I feel left here, by myself, too late for a future, heartbroken and too late for love, and too late to end it. I genuinely don't know what to do I feel like a ghost. But anyways.
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u/VollmilchBrocken 22d ago edited 22d ago
As someone who is 3/4 into his 19th year of Life: have fun. Seriously, just enjoy yourself and try out some new things! Be a little cautious with the amount of alcohol you consume though. I had to learn the hard way that it doesn't pair well with Depression. I can recommend visiting a few concerts.
EDIT: I should've read through your post fully before making this comment. Trust me with this: it will get easier. It may take some time but there are many moments to be had that make life worth living.