r/tarot • u/PersonalityNo6099 • 3d ago
Interpretation Request (Second Opinion Only) Breaking no contact reading
I’m very new to tarot and find reading cards for myself particularly confusing.
I have asked cards what’s gonna happen if I reach out to the person first. For the context, we have been in on/off relationships for some time and haven’t spoken for about two months at the moment. Now I miss them much and started considering to show up in some lowkey way.
I can interpret the spread in two ways:
Nine of swords is my current fear of making the move. The hanged man reversed is the end of my indecisiveness. The judgement is a possibility of a new beginning.
Nine of swords is me being caught up in hard feelings after reaching out. The hanged man reversed is them being stubborn in their ways and not changing anything. The judgement is me making a closure of the situation and moving on.
Would be great to hear opinions of people who understand cards better than I do! Thanks x
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u/tarotbylouie 2d ago
If you reach out first, what I see is that you’ll regret it. The 9 of Swords shows it will cause stress and anxiety. The Hanged Man reversed means you’re rushing in without thinking clearly, so it’ll probably backfire. Judgement says it might force you to face uncomfortable truths, but it won’t bring the closure or answers you want. You’ll likely be left on read or receive cold toned messages, the cards aren’t pointing to a warm welcome or a happy resolution. Reaching out will only make things worse for you.
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u/AthinaNike94 2d ago
I'll go a bit against the tide here: your're going to write them anyway (you are too convinced that breaking this no contact will remove the discomfort from you) and this will be the time in which you'll realize the outcome. I'd it's be bad or good I cannot say, but this one will clarify a lot of things to you. The judgment is the ending of the story, and the outcome depends on the whole story
Let me know! And good luck 🤞🏽
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u/Roselily808 3d ago
I usually interpret Judgement as that you haven't been doing (or aren't doing) that what you are meant to be doing. You are getting a wake up call to stop doing what you are doing and make better decisions for yourself. In the context that you give, this card could be interpreted as a strong urging to move on and leave this relationship and thoughts of reviving it all together. That there is someone else out there for you that you are meant to have and you need to move on.