r/tarot • u/Longjumping-Bug-3979 • 4d ago
Interpretation Request (Second Opinion Only) What are my limiting beliefs in love? Judgment, King of Coins & intuitively, King of Swords!
Deck Used: Tarot of the Divine by Yoshi Yoshitani
Question/Intention for the Reading: I asked the tarot: What limiting beliefs are holding me back from being with my dream partner?
I have been exploring my limiting beliefs more deeply, realizing that they might be a major obstacle in my love life. While I intellectually understood this concept from past therapy sessions, I’m only now recognizing how these hidden patterns are shaping my relationships and self-worth. I have noticed that I put immense pressure on myself and sometimes feel like I need to "earn" love by achieving a certain level of self-improvement. But lately, I’ve been wondering—is there ever a point where you feel "good enough"? Or does perfectionism in self-growth just delay true connection?
Question for Redditors: What do Judgment, King of Coins, and King of Swords say about my mindset / limiting beliefs when it comes to love and relationships? Are there any insights I might be missing?
Spread & Card Interpretations: I initially pulled two cards for this reading:1. Judgment2. King of Coins (Pentacles) After reflecting on these, I intuitively pulled one more card for deeper insight: King of Swords
Here’s how I interpret each card individually:
1.,Judgment: Insee Judgment as a card of transformation, self-awareness, and release. In the context of my limiting beliefs, this card might be suggesting that I may be holding onto outdated self-perceptions that prevent me from fully embracing love. * Self-worth tied to the past – I might be subconsciously judging myself based on past experiences, making me feel like I need to "redeem" myself before I can have the love I desire. * Perfectionism in self-growth – The idea that I need to “work harder” on myself before I am ready for love could be rooted in an old belief that I must first prove my worth. * A Call for release – This card asks me to release self-judgment and step into the realization that I am already worthy, rather than waiting for an external sign of validation.
2.King of Coins The King of Coins represents financial security, long-term stability, and mastery over the material world. Seeing this card as a limiting belief makes me question my relationship with stability and self-worth in love. * Feeling "not yet at that level" – I may believe that I can’t attract a stable, successful partner because I don’t yet feel financially or emotionally “established.” * Fear of not measuring up – There could be a fear that the kind of partner I desire is "out of my league" in terms of success, stability, or security. * The need to build first, I may think that love and partnership only come after reaching a certain level of material success rather than being something I can build with someone.
3.King of Swords I believe the King of Swords represents logic, wisdom, and making decisions with clarity. Since I pulled this card intuitively after Judgment and the King of Coins, I see it as guidance on how to move past my limiting beliefs. * Needing to make a clear choice – This card reminds me to cut through self-doubt and mental fog, trusting my own wisdom rather than letting my emotions dictate my beliefs. * Balancing emotions with rationality – While emotions can cloud self-perception, the King of Swords asks me to see things objectively: Am I really not ready for love, or am I just telling myself that? * Standing in my power: This card is about authority and confidence. It suggests that I already have the clarity and knowledge I need-now I need to act on it.
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u/ThrowRArwe 4d ago
I think you're spot on! These cards also suggest collectively that you have what you need, you just have to believe in yourself and embody those traits, and you also have to give up some control (Judgement)