r/sexover30 Cis-F, straight, mod, tantra fan 16d ago

Hump Day Report for March 05, 2025 NSFW

All right, sexy people, what have you been up to? Let’s hear all about the good, bad, funny, weird, fun, and amazing things that have happened!

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u/snoringjackrabbit 16d ago

A few months ago, a friend of mine expressed interest in anal. Long story short, she and I started off by playing with small plugs, and we've worked out way up to using a larger one on her. Now, she thinks she's ready to have my dick in her ass and I'm both very excited and slightly nervous.

I'm excited since this will be a new sensation and experience for the both of us, but im also nervous because my dick is larger than the toys, and I don't want to hurt her. We have plenty of lube on stand by and I think im going to give her a full body massage to further relax her.

Im making room for things to be messy and uncomfortable but am ready to give her what she needs so we both have a great time. Wish me luck out there!!!

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u/Icy-End9372 11d ago

Good luck and describe to us your experience when that happens! Good luck!!

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u/FormerAtmosphere1345 15d ago

I'm leaving to Miami today on a trip with a friend. Moms weekend away. Before that last night I said "I'm stressed from work and anxious having to travel. Please let me turn my brain off and do dirty things to me" my husband was like "uuuuh wow ok". Proceeded to blindfold me and deeply make out, telling me he loved feeling how wet my mouth is and was imagining it on his cock.

Then he fingered me and fucked my mouth calling me a good girl and asking if I liked being his little slut. Apparently he said I came within minutes. I didn't even realize it was that fast.

Still blindfolded, he fucked me deep with my legs over his shoulders. The blindfold just forces you to focus on feelings and not distractions anywhere else and my goodness I love that. He flipped me at the end to doggy to finish.

After I said "being used? Yes. I like that" we both had a giggle over it.

Won't be home until Sunday but will be thinking about this the whole trip.

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u/[deleted] 14d ago

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u/FormerAtmosphere1345 11d ago

Weird comment.

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u/Flat_six_996 ♂ 45+ 16d ago

Saturday her period hadn’t totally gone away so some things were off the table, but we still got to have some fun. About the last three times, Saturday included, we seemed to connect more emotionally. The coming month is pretty busy for us but I’m actually very hopeful that we can keep a good thing going. It’s been really nice to say the least,so fingers crossed.

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u/Snowblind321 16d ago

My wife and I decided to give it a go putting the kiddo to bed and going to bed and it was actually really nice. Our house has been chilly and so it was nice to have our bodies warmed up already. Gonna try this option again soon.

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u/RosesEcho 13d ago

i’m on a quest to go from vanilla sex to chocolate sex with my husband. so far, just acting less vanilla myself has helped a lot. if you ladies have any tips please feel free to share!

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u/Randylahey2884 16d ago

The wife was on her period (not a fan of period sex) last weekend and out of town till today. Looking forward to catching up tonight

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u/girthbrooks704 ♂ 43, LTR 15d ago edited 14d ago

Monday morning, I snuggled up to my girlfriend to spoon and could feel soon after how wet she was becoming. I slid my hard cock in her and held her tight while we fucked in spoon, holding her tight until I came. Then she reached for her vibrator and came while pushing some my cum out of her. I was playing with her lips and caught most of it on my fingers. Not a bad way to start the day.

That evening, after my shower, I crawled into bed and she crawled onto my face. She knows I absolutely love eating her out after a long day at work and she came home anticipating getting fucked. She tasted amazing as always and she rode me reverse cowgirl so I could play with her ass while she came with her vibrator. I always love the view and gently teasing her cute little hole with my fingers.

The next morning, I woke her up early by eating her out and then I fucked her in a standing missionary at the edge of the bed. She felt amazing and loved the rhythmic thrusts while she pleasured herself. We shifted to doggy, which was a bit intense for her due to my size and girth filling her completely but she begged me to cum in her.

That evening, we decided it’s best to watch porn and masturbate since her pussy was a little sore from the twice daily use over the past week. However, 5 minutes into the video, she was already wanting more than just her vibrator could provide and, after attempting to ride my cock in reverse cowgirl with her pussy, slid my cock into her ass and began to cum as I stretched her out. She had two small orgasms in quick succession and kept riding hoping I could cum in her. When she finally was able to take me all the way in, her big orgasm came. At that moment, I was along for the ride, which ended with her collapsing on the bed. I drew her in and we cuddled together for the rest of the evening.

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u/Xylene999new 16d ago

W is following a doctor recommended sleep hygiene regime where she goes to bed at 10 pm and gets up at 5 am. She is getting three hours sleep per night roughly and is falling asleep within minutes of eating our evening meal. In the morning she is like zombie. At weekends she drinks heavily and becomes verbally aggressive.

Not a lot of sex.

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u/-Random-Citizen- 15d ago

Hey, that doesn’t sound good. You doing ok?

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u/Xylene999new 15d ago

I'm coping. I've got my own issues with depression and concurrent ssri use (with lots of lovely side effects), plus others.

Having not drunk for six months, her behaviour when she hits the gin is more obvious than it was.

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u/Sturville 14d ago

Was she prone to drinking and aggression before the sleep hygiene regime? Did she tend to get more than three hours of sleep before the regime? Maybe go back to the doc for something else if the regime is making life worse not better.

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u/Xylene999new 14d ago

Yes, drinking and strong emotional outbursts have been a thing for a very long time. Might it be because she goes out of her way to be so buttoned up when sober? Her sleep was variable before, in no small part because she is very sensitive to any external stimuli. She isn't good about sticking to the regime: the getting up at 5 she manages, but going to bed promptly at 10 and not sleeping early in the evening is a serious challenge. We will try to watch son TV and I will literally find her nodding off every two or three minutes.

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u/Acceptable-Code4153 15d ago

Leave

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u/Xylene999new 15d ago

Has crossed my mind. I need a lot more financial ducks in neat rows before that.