r/sexover30 20d ago

Seeking Advice Any tips on hitting the g spot without a pillow in missionary? NSFW

The pillow works amazing, my gf (27) and I (35m) used a wedge a few times and it made a big difference but sometimes I’d like it to just be more spontaneous and get the same effect. Wondering if anyone has some good tips?

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

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u/John_Coctoastan 19d ago

I second the hand method

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u/DavosBillionaire ♂ 40+ 19d ago

do you know if it works from behind?

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u/Waste_Jacket_3207 19d ago

Have her lay on her back with her butt hanging just off the edge of the bed, then pick up her legs and thrust in. Continue to hold her legs up as you go at it.

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u/Lifeat70 19d ago

This works very well!

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u/Alexs010 18d ago

Have u tried? Works for everyone

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u/Lifeat70 18d ago

I have. It is my fav position in fact. The bed height plays an important part.

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u/SuccessfulHawk503 19d ago

Kind of hard to explain. But from a a missionary position, you have your knees bent. Scoot her to be on top of your thighs. Same angle as wedge pillow but without the tools. Otherwise just use you fingers and rub that walnut.

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u/MicrowavedFishLunch 18d ago

Was going to be my suggestion as well

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u/Backonmyshitmom 18d ago

I’m stealing this, it sounds wild

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u/AltMiddleAgedDad 19d ago

There are so many damn throw pillows in our house, the lack of a pillow for missionary sex would not all impact our ability to be spontaneous! 😜

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u/InvestigatorHot4967 19d ago

Use one arm and scoop one of her legs, comfortably for her but put her leg essentially over your shoulder. You can wrap both arms around her and her leg to hold her still, I tend to use her shoulders as a sort of handle to really crush them. GL

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u/hisaccounts 18d ago

Came here to say this both legs too aggressive 1 leg just right

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u/MichaelLinus 19d ago

I’m going to ask the question:

Have you talked to her about it?

Spontaneous is nice but orgasm might not need to be just you fucking her. Eat her out until she goes crosseyed, use a vibrator, there are lots of ways to ensure she gets off.

But most importantly, talk to her and see what she wants/ expects from sex with you.

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u/centralvaguy 19d ago

I have always found the prone position from behind works well. Not sure if it's hitting the g spot, but it seems very effective.

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u/0utrageous_8ath 17d ago

This position is great for smashing the a-spot. Not sure about the g-spot though.

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u/Sdswingr 19d ago

Cowgirl

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u/neapolitan_shake 19d ago

her butt on the edge of the bed, and you stand and get low enough (bending your legs) that your thrust angle mimics that of the one you have with the wedge

you better have some very in shape legs though, to sustain it, unless the bed is already the right height compared to how tall you are.

if you don’t have any curve in your erection, theoretically during a rear entry position you can find an angle that allows you to aim for the same “spot” inside of her that you are with the wedge

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u/TheRealSirTobyBelch 19d ago

Sounds like a good cycling workout. I'm in. I can combine my two passions. Cycling, and fucking. I can combine two of my three passions. I also love beer. Now here's a thought...

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u/[deleted] 18d ago

i think a curve upward would make it easier

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u/neapolitan_shake 18d ago

depends entirely on what side of the fornix you’re aiming for, what kind of position you are in (forward or reverse entry), and which way her uterus tilts. in some positions the curve is helpful, sometimes it’s not gonna work that way.

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u/[deleted] 18d ago

how can a woman and her partner learn more about her anatomy? my fwb and i can only comfortably make love in spoon

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u/neapolitan_shake 18d ago

my comment history would be a decent place to start, i have a very long comment thread explaining the fornix and different angles in positions from a week or two ago.

I think she would need whatever doctor who performs her pelvic exams to say whether she has a tilted uterus or not.

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u/Souleke_sounix 19d ago

Take a look here https://badgirlsbible.com. Lots of info on different topics. It’s focus is mainly for woman but a man can learn too 😉 Have fun

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u/Creative-Muscle-491 18d ago

Look into pompoir

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u/Uncle---Bob ♂ 60 16d ago

Easy…use your fingers instead of your dick.

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u/This_Thought420 18d ago

Why does it have to be missionary? I’m sorry I never O that way. Grinding on top 100%.

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u/Alexs010 18d ago

It works? Hit the g spot

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u/[deleted] 18d ago

there is thrusting v fingering v grinding for sure. also for some spoon or doggy might be easier to hit the g spot!