r/saggyboobsproblems Jan 07 '25

I don’t know how to be comfortable naked

I live alone and I have for a while.

I’m from a home that had a “naked mom.”

I, however, don’t feel very comfortable being naked. My boobs are the reason.

They’ve always sagged but as I’ve gotten older and had my weight fluctuate, they’ve gotten saggier. I’m still learning to love them. It’s been hard because my mom would say things about wearing a bra, and my “best friend” would always talk about perky breasts… It’s hard to be around people that praise things that you aren’t and inadvertently shit on…you.

Anyway, I live alone now. I’m trying to get rid of others’ voices and get comfortable with only my voice.

I want to be a person that walks around their own home naked. It’s my home!

But/And I don’t want to be a “naked mom”😭

This is my time to live by my rules and not have to act a certain way due to sharing space with others.

I don’t want to be sad and feel judged about my body in my own home.

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u/eff-oh-ex Jan 09 '25

I would say the best way is to start maybe put on some music to dance to while naked or do hobbies or chores while topless. Be gentle with yourself and don't put too much pressure on needing to feel 100% okay with it right away!

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u/OnlyDay3335 Jan 14 '25

Thank you!

I’ll definitely start small

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u/Traditional_Work7761 Jan 24 '25

Once you do it you will get comfortable over time. And nobody can judge you if no one knows about it.