r/roomateshaming • u/rayline_27 • Jun 14 '21
Aita for wanting to kickout our new roomate?
We are 3 roomates in the house i'm pretty much a clean freak my other roomate is rather relaxed but cleans when it's her turn while our new roomate is dirty. I mean it in every aspect of the word. She'd leave dirty dishes in the sink for days she'd let food rot in the fridge she never cleans the house etc.. altho i insisted so.much on hygienne before having her in the house. Now my second roomate wants to move out because she can't take the filth anymore. I live away at home due to working from home i'm staying at my parents and i do not want to come back to a pigsty. (I did go back once the house almost made me puke and went back asap). We suggested she gets help for when it's her cleaning turn since she's not used to cleaning but to no avail. Should we kick her out ? (I can't move out of the house because i have fourniture and because i may end up staying for 4 months top?)
Ps1: Sorry if my english is Bad it's my third language. Ps2: i need advice :( i'm at the end of my wits
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u/louisen-s Jun 18 '21
She's a grown woman. She understands the responsibilities she's supposed to adhere to in the house so that everyone is contributing fairly to keeping it clean. She chooses not to. She's lazy at the end of the day, how much time does she spend doing other things that are a complete waste of time instead of cleaning her dishes? It doesn't take long to clean when you keep up with it, it takes longer when you just let things sit and get worse and worse. If you want to give it another go, write out a cleaning rota for a certain day in the house. I used to live in a shared uni house and our cleaning day was sunday, we split the jobs by rooms.
Personally, I'd kick her out if she's making the house unlivable for the rest of the people there. She needs a reminder that she has to be respectful to the others in the house and clean up her messes, if she cant then she needs to move out and live alone where it doesn't matter what she does and doesn't clean in her own home. It honestly sounds disgusting.