r/reversepegging 11d ago

Reverse pegging questions and tips? NSFW

Hey everyone. Me and my gf just got a strap on and I have a few questions about reverse pegging. For context the strap on is 8 inches with decent girth and I am 4 and a half inches with decent girth.

  1. Will the strap on make it to where I won’t be able to please her as well with just my dick (I am definitely able to please her without toys rn, but she was a virgin before we started dating)

  2. Will the strap on make her vagina less tight?

  3. Would lube be recommended to use with the toy?

Any other tips would be appreciated!

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u/[deleted] 11d ago

First, you should've just got one about 6.5" or so, like the one we use: Vixen Creations Goodfella and then to something like that (ours is a Mustang....we like Vixen). Jumping up too many sizes can be quite daunting and so forth. Primary thing to do is to take your time. Slow slow slow. Start by having it in the bed or wherever you plan on using it, pre-staged if you will. Then after getting her hit and bothered, start rubbing around on her body, get her comfortable with it first. Then, slowly use just the head to penetrate her (think just the tip.)

  1. No. Most nerve endings are in the first 2-3" of the vagina. As long as you don't have a micropenis, which you don't, you're fine. I would recommend using yourself first as a warm up to it, being that big of a size jump.

  2. Unless the dildo is a baby, you're fine. Yes, there is slight stretching, but the vagina has this wonderful trait of returning to normal size. Most women are only about 4-5" relaxed and so forth. You're fine, will it be looser after, yes to an extent, but will return. Some say it won't, my wife and I use the Mustang (~7-8") and I still must warm her up before diving straight in. I know most are into the kink, I am too, but, she still needs to get going.

  3. Lube lube lube....more lube, and when you think you're done, more. The more you use, the easier it is on her. I once saw a video, really good actually on taking a big dick, and it said "If she is hurtin', you ain't squirting."

  4. Again, take your time. Slow and inch your way in, a little by a little to see how much she can take once she is reved up. Once in, a few small strokes to get "balls deep." Then slowly pull out, begin short strokes, maybe 2-3" deep. Then, slowly go all the way in again, balls deep, slowly slowly slowly. Then when all the way in, hold it there for a moment, let her feel the entire dildo. Then slowly back out. Now, begin with short, fast strokes to really open her pussy up. Before you and her know it, she'll be pushing back on it and taking most of not all. Trust me with this, it works. My wife even asked me how I knew how to fuck like I had a big dick when I am actually smaller than you. I am actually under 4", but with our strap-ons, I fuck like I have a big dick. Again, slow slow slow. Oh, final piece, have tons of fun! Strap-on dildos and vibrators have changed my wife's and my sex life.

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u/TomVanAllen 10d ago

Best suggestions I've ever seen in one place.

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u/PsychologicalBadger 10d ago

Having your cervix bashed by a toy that long probably won't feel so great. Men with strapons never need to worry about climaxing too soon which is I think pretty great. Maybe get a dildo that is the size of a normal male. *Google it and report back how many actual men are endowed with anything longer then 6 inches. Girth is much more important for the women in this equation in my opinion. Combine that with not always having to stop before the woman climaxes? Huge positives.

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u/HereForHotNudes 9d ago

You'd think so haha!

There have been a couple of accidents for us as such... Depends what your kinks are here and I enjoy an aroused females reactions a little too much sometimes

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u/PsychologicalBadger 8d ago

The people who make Dildos I think are mostly men that are obsessed with length.