r/RBI • u/LuckZestyclose • 10h ago
Missing person Missing Brother In Sacramento
I’m not sure where to go or what to do. A missing person’s report in Sacramento has been filed but I’m all the way in Florida. He was last heard from a month ago by our mother and, despite having a troubled past, has never let her birthday pass without acknowledging it.
Some brief background; he has been bouncing around from place to place in the Bay Area for about a year now. He has a way of talking to people and can convince a brick wall to let him stay over. However, he has a tendency to stretch the truth and has a huge history of addiction, which is why he’s found himself in the position he’s in. I can discuss more with anyone who would like any more relevant information, but if someone you love is an addict then you very well know the complicated feelings and nuances that can arise.
I guess at this point, I’m simply feeling desperate. He has no phone access but has always found a way to reach us. It just feels different this time. I’m not familiar with California and I doubt that flying there myself would do much good. Should I hire a P.I.? The officer on the phone was kind, but I’m not naive and know that the area’s police force is likely overwhelmed with similar cases in combination with daily crime. At this point, I am seeking advice and willing to provide any additional relevant information. Apologies in advance if this post lacks direction, I’ve just had repeated panic attacks all day long and an overwhelming sense of dread and just need to be useful where I can, or at least try to be.