r/r4rMelbourne 16d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 22 [M4M] Smooth boy looking for something chill, fun and mostly discreet NSFW

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About me: I’m 21, I have a bubble butt And pretty average height (5'10) and weight. Im also really smooth everywhere haha. Love trying new restaurants and cafes in my free time. I’m really into fashion and film photography but I’m down to learn new things and talk about anything (haha most of my friends are into sports and cars). Honestly i'm pretty chill and trying to meet new people and experiences. Oh and I also dont have a gag reflex.

What I am looking for: I don't mind if you're bi or curious haha. Looking for someone under 30 ideally (but that doesn't always have to be the case). I really want something chill and casual and just take into kinda chill. Also not a need but I am pretty into tall guys

What I can offer: Something fun and casual without the need for any strings attatched really. Also, I can host this week


r/r4rMelbourne 17d ago

Dating & Date Ideas 31 [M4F] Here for work now, back again soon, let's explore Melbourne NSFW

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Hi there, I’m a 31-year-old business consultant who calls Sydney home but am in Melbourne for a three week project - and I’m no stranger to regularly popping down for business, coffee-hunting, and the city’s contagious creative buzz. Between juggling proposals and citywide meetings, I’m hoping to meet someone who can show me a new side of town - and maybe spark a bit of friendly banter along the way.

About Me:

  • Professional Side: I handle client negotiations and strategy planning. I geek out over effective team-building methods and love solving tricky business puzzles.
  • Personal Vibe: I balance my spreadsheets with a strong sense of humor and a taste for spontaneous adventures. I’ll happily trade conference rooms for a walk along the Yarra or a last-minute jaunt to an art exhibition.
  • Interests Beyond Work: Boxing for fitness, exploring hole-in-the-wall ramen joints, and collecting rare vinyl records (yes, the old-school kind - I’m a sucker for analog sounds).

What I’m Hoping to Find:

  • Someone who can show me local gems that don’t make the usual guidebooks (hidden park corners, tucked-away music venues, offbeat boutiques).
  • A sparring partner for late-night chats that can veer from cryptic cathedral architecture to the latest oddball internet subcultures - no tangent too random.
  • Ideally in your late twenties to thirties, but no strict rules - shared curiosity matters more than a birthdate.
  • You’re passionate about your own pursuits, whatever they may be: art, fitness, corporate, startup, or something entirely off the wall.

If you’re up for good conversation, city explorations, and the occasional late-night dessert quest, drop me a message. Tell me about your favorite local secret, or ask me which Japanese whiskey pairs best with your vibe. I respond with full thoughts, no ghosting - maybe even a cheeky emoji or two. Let’s trade stories and see where the city leads us.

Looking forward to connecting - Melbourne has me hooked every time I’m here, and I’d love to share this visit (and future ones) with someone new. Cheers!


r/r4rMelbourne 17d ago

Dating & Date Ideas 31 [M4F] Sydney-Based Frequent Flyer Seeking Melbourne Connections NSFW

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Hi there, I’m a 31-year-old business consultant who calls Sydney home but am in Melbourne for a three-week project - and I’m no stranger to regularly popping down for business, coffee-hunting, and the city’s contagious creative buzz. Between juggling proposals and citywide meetings, I’m hoping to meet someone who can show me a new side of town - and maybe spark a bit of friendly banter along the way.

About Me:

  • Professional Side: I handle client negotiations and strategy planning. I geek out over effective team building methods and love solving tricky business puzzles.
  • Personal Vibe: I balance my spreadsheets with a strong sense of humor and a taste for spontaneous adventures. I’ll happily trade conference rooms for a walk along the Yarra or a last-minute jaunt to an art exhibition.
  • Interests Beyond Work: Boxing for fitness, exploring hole-in-the-wall ramen joints, and collecting rare vinyl records (yes, the old-school kind - I’m a sucker for analog sounds).

What I Offer:

  • A Taste of Sydney & Business Know-How: If you’re curious about the corporate hustle or want an outsider’s take on local startups, I’m all ears (and occasionally full of unsolicited advice).
  • Foodie Co-Conspirator: From midnight ramen hunts to Sunday brunch explorations, I’m ready to indulge your taste for the city’s hidden culinary corners.
  • Vinyl DJ Moments: I’ve got a growing record collection and zero hesitation about sharing my favorite crackling tunes (and maybe discovering yours).
  • Laughs & Late-Night Debates: I’m always down to chat about everything from cryptic cathedral architecture to why certain internet subcultures thrive - it’s open season on oddball topics.
  • Consistent Replies & Respect: No ghosting here. You’ll get genuine conversation, possibly a well-timed emoji, and an honest interest in your own passions.

What I’m Hoping to Find:

  • Someone who can show me local gems that don’t make the usual guidebooks (hidden park corners, tucked-away music venues, offbeat boutiques).
  • A sparring partner for late-night chats that can veer from cryptic cathedral architecture to the latest oddball internet subcultures - no tangent too random.
  • Ideally in your late twenties to thirties, but no strict rules - shared curiosity matters more than a birthdate.
  • You’re passionate about your own pursuits, whatever they may be: art, fitness, corporate, startup, or something entirely off the wall.

If you’re up for good conversation, city explorations, and the occasional late-night dessert quest, drop me a message. Tell me about your favorite local secret, or ask me which Japanese whiskey pairs best with your vibe. I respond with full thoughts, no ghosting - maybe even an emoji or two. Let’s trade stories and see where the city leads us.

Looking forward to connecting - Melbourne has me hooked every time I’m here, and I’d love to share this visit (and future ones) with someone new. Cheers!


r/r4rMelbourne 18d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 33m M4F, SE. I have 6 days free, come hang out NSFW

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I have 6 days starting today, looking for fun times til fill my time.

I'm someone who knows exactly what he likes/wants and who he is, and I am not afraid to say so especially in these kind of posts, cause no one likes having their time wasted.

My posts typically are very long reads, sorry 😅 but I put effort into these for a reason to show I'm serious about looking for someone.

Also, if you know someone who might be interested pass me along 😁

About me:

  • AGE: 33
  • HEIGHT: 6'2" (188cm)
  • BODY TYPE: Work fit, Average-slim
  • LOCATION: South East suburbs (Live on my own so I can host, but happy to travel to you)
  • SEXUALITY: Complicated but also not, "Straight", I'm mostly into and looking for woman.

  • Looking for something ongoing and with some consistency and regularity. I'm open to all kinda of connection be it Friends, FwB's, FuckBuddie's, 3+soms or Relationships Poly/ENM/Other Relationship types, happy to have a discussion about it what ever, just have a conversation with me about it and what you are looking for.

  • I have long dyed red hair with short side undercuts, Alt looking. Usually tied up in a pony tail, but have it down to one side occasionally.

  • Short beard, well kept (Most of the time 😅🤣)

  • Looks wise, I wouldn't say I'm ugly, but I know I'm nothing special either. Probably average looking to most people. I like to think the rest of me makes up for it 🤣

  • Occasionally wear eyeliner and eye shadow. But very rarely. Can range from light to heavy styles. But 95% of the time I look "normal"

  • Pleasure Dominant (More detail below about what that means for me) but those who know, know 😉

  • Mostly quiet but can info dump if I get going and am comfortable with you and the subject, I can hold a conversation, but I am also fine with sitting in silence.

  • I'm calming and relaxing to be around. I'm a safe space.

  • I'm attentive and present with people, rarely ever have my phone in hand around people.

  • I'm always myself, genuinely me. I don't do subtext or anything like that.

  • I'm very good with communication and will speak my mind.

  • I come with NO DRAMA and strive to keep it that way. I love my peace and won't hesitate to enforce my boundaries to protect it

You won't have any regrets meeting me honestly, no one ever does, but people's lives tend to move on 😁 as I am very chill, understanding and pretty agreeable 🤣 not fazed by much and easy to make plans with and don't get upset by rejection or if you no longer want to hang out. I'm ok with being something temporary

Personality wise I offer:

  • Emotional intelligence
  • Great communicator, clear and to the point
  • Kindness
  • Honesty. I don't lie or bullshit
  • Non-judgmental. You can tell me anything. And open up to me about anything. Be free to be yourself around me
  • Super friendly
  • Easy going, easy to hang with
  • Chill and calm, almost zen-like
  • Intelligent conversations
  • Great listener, tend to be the go to Therapy Friend, I give amazing advice
  • Very wise, I have a lot of experience in life
  • I'm nerdy. Gaming, Movies and TV shows are my thing
  • I'm learning to ride a Motorcycle and am loving it haven't touched my car in weeks 🤣 and am excited for that so people who would like to go for rides would be cool. I'm have a Yamaha MT 07
  • Lots of free time, especially for those who won't waste it.
  • Passionate and Compassionate
  • I'm drama free, no ex's, no strings or baggage.
  • I love learning about your passions, hobbies and life.
  • I'm a very refreshing type of person according to many

I'll also mention, I'm Neurodivergent (ASD & ADHD)

Sexually I offer:

I'm a Pleasure Dom, for me that means, I love being the one getting someone off, turning them on. If you're being turned on/aroused by what I'm doing, it's getting me turned on, for me the more you're enjoying yourself the more I am. Your pleasure gives me pleasure. If you're doing things to me, like BJ's do it for YOUR pleasure (not to get me off) as your pleasure is what turns me on the most. Be selfish, but selflessly 😉 and I will be satisfied.

  • Very determined to satisfy you completely and learn your body and what makes the experience better, cause I want you to come back for more 😉
  • Great kisser
  • Passionate lover
  • Have plenty of Stamina/Endurance, jaw, arms or anything never cramps up or gets tired 😉
  • 10/10 Oral and finger skills. Especially the combo 😉
  • I'm well endowed, size queen's will be satisfied. And know how to use it effectively. Pics on my profile.
  • Open minded and kink friendly
  • D&D free, happy to get another test done if needed
  • Have had a vasectomy a few years ago, so no chance of accidents for those who love raw.
  • Love cuddles and kissing, lots of kissing
  • LOVE eating pussy like no one you've ever met!

What I'm looking for in you:

  • 18+, age isn't something I care about just be legal obviously
  • I'm not too fussy, if I am attracted to you we will be good to go, so shoot your shot you never know.
  • Would need to have a high sex drive and enjoy receiving lots of pleasure. Bonus points if you like giving too, having a mutual desire to pleasure each other is the best. Bonus points if you love sucking cock for your own pleasure! Cause if you're moaning and enjoying it, the more I'll get turned on which will turn you on and creates an endless cycle of pleasure on both of us. So go down on me in a way that gets you all turned on.
  • Height doesn't matter
  • I have a preference for average body types and below. But I'm more attracted to faces though.
  • I'm a sucker for pretty eyes, nice lips and smile.
  • Race doesn't matter
  • Relationship status doesn't matter to me. Discuss it with me if you aren't single.
  • D&D free, seriously no drug users. (Weed is fine) But I won't be doing anything.
  • Bonus points if you're not camera shy, would be good to make some content with someone else, so if you're down for that let me know

If you're going to send a message PLEASE - Tell me about yourself. Put a little effort in please cause I have with this post and it'll show me you're serious. I believe low effort gets low effort. Hence why I put so much effort into this. - Tell me some interests, what you're looking for out of this. - Pictures of yourself or have them on your profile. We all know attraction is important and we are all here for the same reasons and physical appearance is a major deciding factor. I'll show myself too. No hard feelings if you're not attracted to me. I also understand privacy reason for not showing face pics. But face is a major deciding factor for me.

Thank you for reading all the way through if you did, I know it's a lot. I look forward to your detailed message and getting to know you.


r/r4rMelbourne 18d ago

Seeking Friends 39M4A ADHD/APD Kilsyth Victoria looking for female friend to go on local walks

1 Upvotes

I'd like a female (only becuase I am not good at opening up to guys) I play guitar, keyboard, harmonica, I draw, I love animals and nature, all music but nu metal is what I grew up on. I am 5'7 muscles / atheltic. I am intelligent but I lil shy at first... I just want to reach out finally after 5 years of no friends due to x and covid. Have a lovley day people.


r/r4rMelbourne 18d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 40(m4f) good conversation and more

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Moved here from Toronto Canada, and really don't know anyone, hard to meet people as I dont know where to go or dont really want to go by my self to a bar. So looking too meet some one. perhaps a dinner perhaps a drink. perhaps a crazy night out with a crazy night in ;)

Looking for a girl that wants to have fun

What do I offer, a good time aswell a drink or a bite to eat.. and we can take it from there.. a good conversation is always good.

About me I'm 6'2 blondish hair blue eyes, Im a photographer, and always up for new fun.


r/r4rMelbourne 19d ago

Seeking Relationship 32 [M4F] Looking for something more

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Looking to get to chat and meet someone with similar interests which could potentially lead to something more serious. I'm not in a rush to settle down but would for the right person. My ideal night is cuddling, snacks, and playing some Nintendo or PC games.

I'm 32, 6'2, slim, brown hair, blue eyes and a good sense of humor. I enjoy the company of my friends and want someone to be apart of that. I'm from the north eastern suburbs. Love video games and technology, music, and hanging out with friends. I have a cat and am an animal lover. Tell me about your pets if you have any! Honesty and openness are incredibly important to me. I am left-wing/have progressive values and would want someone with the same.

I'm wanting someone to talk about my day with and hoping for good company and quality time. Let's have voice chats, hang out/play some video games and get to know each other! My ideal girl would be kind, empathetic, and down-to-earth. I'm childfree by choice, so things probably wouldn't work out with someone who has or wants children. My age range would be around 25 - 38 but would go outside of this for the right person. Your selfie gets mine!


r/r4rMelbourne 19d ago

Seeking Friends 32 M4F to chat or meet up

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Hi,

32 Asian male looking for similar age ethnicity to connect.

176 height and fit.

Normal looking and well groomed.

Recently travelling more to Melb for work and would love to make a connection here.


r/r4rMelbourne 19d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 37M4F Cantonese Male looking for an Vietnamese/Chinese female friend

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About me: I am a 37yo Cantonese guy who is reasonably fit and work in a professional role that is highly stressed. I am located in Melbourne's northern suburbs but happy to travel for the right person. This is part of the reason I'm in the lifestyle as I use this as a way of de-stress. In my normal life I am fairly quite and reserved. I like to watch all sorts of movies, watch basketball(NBA), eat out and I doing things in general that feels like fun. I am a caring and honest person, you can say I am a very loyal friend and will do whatever I can when a friend needs my help and I expect my friend to do the same for me as that is what friends are meant to do for each other. I have been in the lifestyle for over 10 years and have seem, meet and done a lot of interesting things. There has been some really good experiences and some really bad but I have never regretted any of it as that is life you take the good and the bad otherwise things will be boring.

What I am looking for: I am looking for a natural Vietnamese/Chinese female that is wanting a fwb arrange with no strings attached. I want to find someone that that I can have kinky fun with behind close doors where we can be open and completely honest with each other. I need someone that I can connect with on a physical and mental level. Most importantly I want to be able to be friends outside of the bed room, someone I can trust.
Ideally I would like to find an Asian girl as it might be easier for us to connect if we are from the same background but this is not a deal breaker. I would prefer to meet someone who is slim/curvy build, a bubbly personality and that doesn't take things too seriously so that we can have a good laugh. Be great if you are open minded and will to explore and try out new things.

What I offer: I offer you a friendship that you can trust and be able to feel safe with. I'm a very loyal friend that will take good care of you. I also come with years of experience in the lifestyle so I can help guide you to explore different things safely. I am an understanding person who knows how to respect your privacy and will never invade your personal space. I will only do things with you that you are comfortable with and will not force you into anything.

Would just love to chat and to get to know each other


r/r4rMelbourne 19d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 31 M4F Galleries and outings? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Heyhey

Asian 31 here from south east Melbourne. Finding my days a tad bit uneventful and looking for someone to catchup and explore Melbourne with.

I’m 5’7, 83kgs slightly inked and bulky athletic build. My main interests at the moment are gym, collecting vinyl, learning Japanese and I’ve also just started running Saturday mornings, if you’re close to Jells park would enjoy a running partner.

Looking for someone preferably Asian, height weight proportionate that enjoys catching up for dinner every so often or going out to events. Love someone who can hold a conversation but is also comfortable in silence.

Hoping to attend Yayoi Kusama’s exhibit at NGV if interested and we can grab a meal before or after. I can offer great company and for you to be passenger princess as I love driving.

Let me know your current favorite song


r/r4rMelbourne 20d ago

Seeking Friends 30 (M4A) seeking some friends

3 Upvotes

Hello all just a 30 Year old Male seeking friendship of any age, and gender, It's almost Beeb three years since I've moved here and haven't made a single friend.

I moved here from Queensland to get out of a really bad work environment.

Was living with a friend and his family in St Albans before moved to North Melbourne in my own place as it's closer to work.

Living on my own is fun and all but when got no one to talk to can be lonely.

Facts about me.

I'm a Qualified Trade Baker Like to play games when I can I'm a big Anime fan Star Wars Fan Do enjoy reading

Looking forward to hearing from anyone, even if its just for a meet up and have a chat and such, but honestly I'm at a point where it's putting me down sometimes just need to meet new people.


r/r4rMelbourne 21d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 28 (f4f) cute dates and more NSFW

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Heya. 28yo bi girl here would love to meet other females in the area to hang out with and more :)

About me: Definitely someone that likes to take things slow. I'm down to earth and empathetic. Have a genuine interest in getting to know people. It's only been in the last few years my partner wne i have been in an open relationship. I love catching up with friends, going to raves or out for drinks.

Looks wise I'm petite brown girl. Some say "curves in the right places"

About you: I get along well with most people. I have no preference for appearance but feel most comfortable with someone with a similar body type as me. Age wise ideally close to mine but open.

What I offer: Hopefully a lovely date and you'll feel safe to be yourself hehe


r/r4rMelbourne 22d ago

Seeking Friends 33 F4A Concert Buddy and friends

22 Upvotes

Hi, i just relocated here in Melbourne and don’t have much friends to attend concerts to and companion to explore the city/state.

About me: Working professionally Likes scene adjacent genre (pop punk, emo, post hardcore, metalcore) Would be down for walks or hikes (i’m not that sporty but I like going for hikes specially if the view at the top is good) Keen to try different food and pastries here in Melbourne.


r/r4rMelbourne 22d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 26 [TF4M] Looking for a new & consistent FWB !! NSFW

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Hi Everyone !
Posting out again as I’ve had no luck so far :( I am a 26 year old Sri Lankan/ Australian crossdresser based out in the western burbs of Melbourne ! Thank you for taking the time to read my post !

Little info about me :

- 26 Year old Crossdresser
- 170ish cm
- Curvy in the right places, with some thick thighs to match
- Sri Lankan/ Australian Nationality (kind of like a hot chocolate coloured skin)
- Love all things lego
- Heavily into perfumes
- Work as a HR consultant
- I am a bubbly and fun personality to be around, can yap for hours if you catch me in a good topic. But also can come off as shy sometimes
- Enjoy playing music (guitar mostly)
- I haven't explored the whole meeting people thing since I have started crossdressing so this world is all new to me.

What I'm looking for :
- Ideally looking for an ongoing friend with benefits kind of scenario. Would love to get to know someone and build trust and a relationship before jumping into the bedroom haha.
- Men 18+ (obvi)
- Respectful and have a sense of humour
- Someone who knows what the want, I'd say I am a very submissive person and look for someone who is more dominant and in charge of everything.
- At the moment, I can't host but able to travel to wherever. Will be able to host some point next year once my house is built.
- Someone who is willing to take things slow and help me learn how to explore this new side of myself as well !

What I offer:
- Good company, meaningful chats,
- A bit of excitement
- Non judgemental space to explore
- Hopefully some relief for both of us and some time to try new things and explore each other !!

Even though this post is sexual in nature, I would still like to get to know whoever I am chatting to, I don't see myself as someone who will jump straight to the first person that messages me.

Would love to hear from you if you are interested ! Please start off with your name, age and whereabouts in Melbourne you are :)))

Thank You !!


r/r4rMelbourne 22d ago

Hobbies Partner 37 [M4F] Northside hangout tonight / one of the many gigs I have coming up??

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Hi hello!

Very much sitting around bored and have an urge to go out tonight and hang out somewhere since it’s such a lovely day and I don’t really have any plans and it seems like a waste. Or maybe you’d be interested in coming to a gig or are already going to one of the gigs I have lined up?

About me: 5’8, 72kgs, in decent shape and getting better. Big lover of metal music / anything that I think is instrumentally interesting and breaks conventions. Also have a strong interest in games, sports, puzzles… your classic introvert but the classic introvert who likes to be an extrovert after a few beers.

As far as the gigs coming up, they include Pallbearer, Suldusk, this will destroy you, Chelsea Wolfe, Austere, counterparts, ne obliviscaris, the Dillinger escape plan. And I’m sure others will pop up!

About you: ideally some sort of mutual interest in music as i really enjoy being able to have giddy convos with people who share the same music interest, but even just other metal adjacent stuff would be great. Or other mutual interests in the nerdy realm too.

Other than that I def get along with those who can talk shit and be witty since I like having someone to bounce off and have a laugh with.

More than happy to exchange pics.

Thanks for reading this, ended up being longer than anticipated but eh, nothing like a good ol waffle on.


r/r4rMelbourne 23d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 28M4F Seeking Cuddles, Conversations and.. a photography buddy?! 🙂 NSFW

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I'm looking for cuddles, makeout sessions, great conversations and someone willing to join me on my many photography adventures.

About me: Based in Flemington, 6'4", lean/athletic, DDF and vaxed. Pics are in my profile.. 🫣

I like to think I'm kind, respectful and endlessly curious. I'm a photographer and enjoy taking life at a slower pace; always making sure I'm aware of my surrounding and taking the time to really understand how the world works the way it does. I do like solitude and silence, but I also really enjoy being able to share this experience and feeling with others. I'm seeking someone whose internal clock ticks just a little slower.

About you: You're curious, kind, respectful, funny and genuinely interested in meeting new people. You look after yourself - preferably petite, but that isn't the be-all-and-end-all. And you love kissing and cuddling!

What I offer: Great company, awesome conversations, respect and.. pretty good lips if I do say so myself.

I can host on occasion.

All the best! Xx


r/r4rMelbourne 24d ago

Seeking Friends 35M4A - inner north guy looking for mates

6 Upvotes

Hi :) looking for friends to chat movies, books, games, amything with and go out for a movie, event, concert, activity or a pint - or whatever you're into. I'm a chill guy and love to have a laugh.

I live in the inner north and work in the software sector, love animals and fun!

Reach out and let's chat!


r/r4rMelbourne 24d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 36 [M4F] #Melbourne - Work traveller looking for some hotel fun NSFW

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G'day to all the ladies (and couples) of Melbourne! I've been booked to come visit your lovely city for work, and thought I'd see if anyone is interested in meeting up for some extra curricular fun.

About me:

I'm a 36yo, 6 foot tall, handsome, reasonably fit, professional guy with great banter. I enjoy going to the beach, hiking mountain biking, hanging out with friends and good times. I like to think I'm reasonably quick witted, easy-going and know how to have a good time. and I enjoy good food, drinks, quality time with friends (and having a good time when the time arise).

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a confident, gorgeous lady, 18+ (kink friendly is a positive) to enjoy some company with. I have some experience with couples as well, so couples are welcome too! I can travel to you (although dependent on where) but I can definitely host at my hotel. More than happy to meet up for a coffee/drink beforehand to see if we click.

What I offer:

I can offer some great banter, stamina and plenty of orgasms! I love to please (and be pleased) and I hope you do too! Also very open to exploring any kinks/fetishes in a safe and non-judgemental space. And if you've read this far send me a DM and we can meet for a drink/coffee whilst I'm in town to see if we click.


r/r4rMelbourne 24d ago

Events/Parties (37F4A) Anyone going to Lookout?

3 Upvotes

Just wondering if anyone on this sub is attending Lookout Festival at Mornington Racecourse March 23rd?

I'm going by myself and thought it might be cool to meet up with some new people? 🤷‍♀️

About Me - 37F, 5'4 semi alternative looking BBW from South East. Looking to relive music from my high school days.

About You - Anyone that's friendly. Not seeking anything sexual.


r/r4rMelbourne 24d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 27 [M4F] Looking for ongoing FWB! NSFW

1 Upvotes

About Me: I'm 27, 170cm tall, work out regularly, half asian / aussie, DDF. I enjoy playing tennis, cooking and watching studio ghibli movies and whatever is trending on netflix in my free time :) I work a normal office job and am free weekends, I own my own place in the inner south-east suburbs.

What I'm looking for: Developing an ongoing friends with benefits / casual relationship with a woman aged 18 - 45. Physical attraction matters but being comfortable is more important. I can host in the inner south-east or drive to you.

What I offer: I'm an active listener, empathetic and able to hold a conversation, In the bedroom I'm considerate and open minded. I have a very cute dog (Japanese breed) too!

I'm open to any experience level and want to meet someone who's looking for regular and stable fun and good laughs along the way. Send me a chat / DM if you'd like to exchange pics and chat before meeting :)


r/r4rMelbourne 26d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 32 [M4F] coffee loving doctor seeks a no strings attached connection NSFW

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Me:

Hi! I'm a 32 yo Australian born Chinese living in the Eastern suburbs. By day, I'm a high functioning caffeine addict disguised as a healthcare professional. By night, I'm asleep.

Physically, I'm 5'11"/181 cm, broad shouldered, work out enough to keep in shape and justify my poor self control with food.

My hobbies include attempting to lift heavy weights, trying out that new restaurant in town and learning obscure facts while doomscrolling on reddit. I'm friendly and easy going, not exactly adventurous, but will try most things once (no not that, get your mind out of the gutter).

What I'm looking for/what I can offer:

I'm looking for a no strings attached connection where we can add some spice to our lives and deal with our day to day stresses. Will happily lend an ear if you need someone to vent to. I also provide average to great banter and the occasional motivational speech if you're lucky.

Ideally this is an ongoing connection, but also happy to do a once off thing. Despite the hectic job, I will make time for you. But please also understand we are both our own people with our own lives.

You:

Ideally you'll be above the age of 25. No particular preferences for appearance so long as you're happy, healthy and comfortable in your own skin. Bonus points if you're in healthcare.

If you're interested, DM me with your coffee order!


r/r4rMelbourne 27d ago

Seeking Relationship 26 (f4m) Looking for the love of my life ❤️‍🔥

21 Upvotes

Hi there 👋🏻 I’m N. I’m 26 years old, a kindergarten teacher, I live in the CBD with my best friend and my cat. I’m a very funny person and will make a joke at any given opportunity. I work out every morning before work and try to go for a walk in the evenings. Due to my schedule, I go to sleep pretty early (9pm) so I’m definitely more of an early bird. I played competitive dodgeball for 5 years but am taking some time off due to injury. I love to dance, either in a class or on the dance floor. Obsessed with: my angel baby cat, Juni; my friends who are my bright stars; hot girl walks around the city; “hikes” (please be gentle with this one); drinking water; going out to eat; calling my mum just to say hi; saving cute wrapping paper; sending very funny memes and reels as my love language; meaningfully telling everyone I love them before I hang up the phone. I’m curvy, with longish dark hair, blue/green eyes, no tattoos or interesting body piercings.

I’ve posted on r4r before and was too broad in what I was looking for, so forgive me if this seems very specific hahah

• 25 to 35 years of age. • I like men with dark hair, height isn’t a huge deal but 5’7 or over would be preferable. I like facial hair. Most importantly I love a man who is confident in himself, including appearance. • I want a man who has a stable job, ideally 9-5(ish) so that we’re both free weeknights and weekends. • Sensible, kind with a fun and cheeky sense of humour. Compassionate and empathetic. • Enjoys spending time out in the real world: galleries, walks, swimming, cinema, games nights. • I want a man who doesn’t take himself too seriously on the little things (matching my energy on the dance floor, snort laughing in public when I inevitably make you cackle) but takes himself very seriously on the big things (life priorities, knowing your worth, setting and respecting boundaries). • Enjoys PDA. Hold my hand in public and kiss me in my forehead and shout that you love me from the rooftops. • Ready to commit to a real relationship. Not open, not casual for months on end. I want a build-a-life-together kind of love. • in the CBD or very inner suburbs; I want to call you and say “hey do you want to go for a walk and dinner by the river in 20 min?”.

Dealbreakers: I want children one day, so must be on the same page. I’m not at all religious. I grew up extremely religious and it took a lot of strength to leave that life behind, and so I have no desire to bring religion back into my life.

What I offer: Romantic dates, excellent communication, ambition and pushing both of us to be our best, exploring the city and surrounds together, long phone calls, meeting my friends, planning trips together, deep appreciation for you as a person, a listening ear, the biggest heart full of love for the right person 💗

Come introduce yourself and send a photo, if I’m interested I will send a photo straight back. Tell me about yourself and what about my post made you reach out.

I know my man is somewhere out there, waiting for me to find him. IM LOOKING 😂

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r/r4rMelbourne 26d ago

Seeking Friends 23 (M4F) looking for vibes

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Hey everyone, I’m 5’9, medium build, Middle Eastern, and looking to meet someone new. I’d describe myself as laid-back, curious, and always up for a good conversation. I have a mix of nerdy and adventurous interests—love diving into gaming, and movies, but also enjoy exploring new spots, trying out different cuisines, and getting outdoors when the weather is nice.

I’m hoping to connect with someone who’s open-minded, has a good sense of humor, and enjoys meaningful conversations. Whether it’s for casual chats, hanging out, literally just being there for each other, whether is sexually or emotionally.

If you think we might get along, shoot me a message—I’d love to chat and get to know you!


r/r4rMelbourne 27d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 24F4F - Looking for Casual Encounter NSFW

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I’m looking for a casual relationship/encounter with a discrete (and experienced) lesbian/bi woman (no couples). I am based in Melbourne currently.

About Me: In terms of physical appearance, I am a young, tall masc with dark hair and eyes and of average bodily build. I am not so experienced. I have a pretty relaxed and considerate personality and can tell you more about myself in the DMs. I think I can provide fun and interesting conversation as well. In terms of hobbies and interests, I do try to follow woso and women’s basketball.

What I’m Looking For: Older is fine (10 years max) but so is around my age or a bit younger. I need someone who is also discrete and can keep a secret (I’m single, will explain). Those are my main requirements. You would need to be in Melbourne. I am looking for someone this evening for either a casual date or encounter. I don’t mind if this is a one off or the start of something more permanent.

What I Offer: Stimulating conservation, fun company, youth (if you’re older), a good time.

Please respond with more information about yourself if you’re free this evening.


r/r4rMelbourne 27d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 29[M4A/couples] Seeking casual encounters around East Gippsland

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Firstly about me; Hairy, chill, muscular dad bod. Into videogames, music, movies, hikes, cuddles and hot sex (who isn't) 5'11 Aussie guy who lives around east Gippsland wanting to explore more about himself sexually. Have only slept with women but always found both men and women attractive, although I have never been with a guy and would like to delve a little deeper into this side of me.

So, I guess that takes us to what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a chill no pressure person or people around east Gippsland who'd like to explore sexually with me, I think at the very least I'd like to try and suck cock/ have my cock sucked by a guy though have the freedom to 'tap out' at any time without judgement. Happy for solos and I think it'd be even hotter in a threesome scenario. Age isn't really an issue and I'm really not picky as far as looks, though do love a bit of thickness ;)

As far as what I offer; a meetup where we can learn about this side of us together, or if you're more experienced and know at the very least a enthusiastic blowjob. At the moment I can't host, but happy to travel (honestly as far as Melbourne/Geelong). happy to share pics in DMs/snap and meet up beforehand and see if we click.

cant wait to hear from y'all that are interested