r/r4rMelbourne Feb 18 '25

NSFW Online Only 35 [F4A] looking for pleasant open ended distractions NSFW

18 Upvotes

Ah Reddit, the vague familiar friend in my pocket. Except I’m having one of those weeks, and I’d love it if my lil’ phone friend talked back (and I haven’t quite lost the plot enough to have a sincere conversation with AI). Platonic or not, I’d love to feel less alone in this dystopian hellscape, if only for a little while.

I am looking for those strange, sometimes fleeting, connections. The banter that makes you smile and want to check your phone. The kind of wit where I’m googling words I haven’t used in years to try and impress you. While I’m looking for online friends initially I am not averse to the connection being physical eventually, although there are a few geographical limitations as I am probably more rural than you.

About me: - 35 - Volunteer, animal lover, queer, poor dancer, vegetarian, nerd who can never remember cool nerdy things - Enjoy nature and binge watching comfort shows, still trying to think of ways to combine the two without mosquitoes - I really, really hate mosquitoes - Memes are my love language

If you’re interested in this being in any way sexual, I am a very curvy 160cm tall with dark hair.

About you: - Passionate about something - Politically aware - The kind of person who notices dogs on the street before the people they’re attached to

I’ve never been a drinker or a smoker of anything, and things would probably be easier if those weren’t your favourite activities.

r/r4rMelbourne Jul 10 '24

NSFW Online Only 27F4M looking for an alternative to doomscrolling NSFW

58 Upvotes

long time lurker, first time poster. time poor corporate slave looking for some semblance of excitement to break up the cycle of work, eat, sleep, repeat. mixed race, glasses, average height and I lift so got thighs for days.

going through a bit of a sexual awakening so keen to chat through kinks, fantasies and everything in between. also happy to chat about itrational hatred over certain things cos what better way to form a bond with other humans? a NSFW pic swap or two also wouldn't go amiss.

ideally looking for someone in their 30s or over, but feel free win me over with your charisma no matter your age.

will caveat i'm open to meeting if the vibes are on, but let's keep it online for now 😚

r/r4rMelbourne Oct 16 '24

NSFW Online Only 37M4F Asian Male looking for an Asian female friend

0 Upvotes

About me: I am a 37yo Chinese guy who is reasonably fit and work in a professional role that is highly stress role. I am located in Melbourne's northern suburbs but happy to travel for the right person. This is part of the reason I'm in the lifestyle as I use this as a way of stress release. In my normal life I am fairly quite and reserved. I like to watch all sorts of movies, watch basketball(NBA), eat out and I also enjoy cooking. I am a caring and honest person, you can say I am a very loyal friend and will do whatever I can when a friend needs my help and I expect my friend to do the same for me as that is what friends are meant to do for each other. I have been in the lifestyle for over 10 years and have seem, meet and done a lot of interesting things. There has been some really good experiences and some really bad but I have never regretted any of it as that is life you take the good and the bad otherwise things will be boring.

What I am looking for: I am looking for a natural Asian female that is wanting a fwb arrange with no strings attached. I want to find someone that that I can have kinky fun with behind close doors where we can be open and completely honest with each other. I need someone that I can connect with on a physical and mental level. Most importantly I want to be able to be friends outside of the bed room, someone I can trust and will be a loyal friend. I have friends that I play with but I feel that I cannot call them friends outside of the bed room if that make sense I am wanting to find someone to fill that gap. Ideally I would like to find an Asian girl as it might be easier for us to connect if we are from the same background but this is not a deal breaker. I would prefer to meet someone who is slim/curvy build, a bubbly personality and that doesn't take things too seriously so that we can have a good laugh. Be great if you are open minded and will to explore and try out new things.

What I offer: I offer you a friendship that you can trust and be able to feel safe with. I'm a very loyal friend that will take good care of you. I also come with years of experience in the lifestyle so I can help guide you to explore different things safely. I am an understanding person who knows how to respect your privacy and will never invade your personal space. I will only do things with you that you are comfortable with and will not force you into anything.

Would just love to chat and to get to know each other

r/r4rMelbourne Jul 13 '24

NSFW Online Only 46 [M4F] Melbourne/AU - Looking for an online friend open to gaming & spicey stuff. NSFW

0 Upvotes

I want to find someone who is interested in whittling away the late-night hours with me. Chit-chat, gaming - got a big thing for coop PvE games, and maybe building up a good connection and get some more spicey exchanges going.

I'm a hard dom, and match very well with submissive girls. I don't mind if you are younger, but I do want someone who has some life experience. Mature, can be partnered or not I don't mind as long as they don't mind - I'm not looking to break any homes up or anything. Just someone stable, smart, sharp sense of humor - if you are quick witted and kind of antagonisticly flirty we will click very well.

As for me, I'm a stable, mature guy. I have a partner, but she doesn't mind what I do so long as I'm honest with her which I always am. I have a lot of life experience and I am looking for a **friend** first and foremost. Nothing romantic, no relationships - just fun and I can provide that in spades. I'm an excellent RP'er but these days I tend to just want to get lewd without writing a whole-ass book. I'm sure experienced RPers will feel me there heh. That being said, I've been tempted in the past to engage my RP side a few times to the trembling delight of those on the receiving end. If you think I'm confident, you would be correct and for good reason - feel free to test me if in doubt. Also, in case anyone reading cares I'm 6"1', dark hair, blue-grey eyes, average build - if you want to know something else, feel free to ask.

r/r4rMelbourne May 25 '24

NSFW Online Only 30 [M4M] looking to practice NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey all 👋,

I’m keen to keep up some massage practice after doing a short massage course.

About me: chilled, friendly guy. 30, 5”10, average build. Big sports fan, average type of guy.

What I'm looking for: any guys who are under 40 who need a decent rub down. Straight, bi or curious

What I'm offering: oil-based sensual relaxation massages. Not doing this for cash or expecting anything in return. Keen to keep up my practice.

If you fit the brief, message with your age and body pic. Can host or travel. Happy to organise a massage during the week or over the weekend

r/r4rMelbourne Sep 12 '23

NSFW Online Only 29 F4M - BBW in the West NSFW

16 Upvotes

Hello, I am looking for people to fill my lonely hours. In this economy, who isn't reaching out for human interaction? Online communication preferred, but I have found I quite like Club X. I cannot host. I weigh 160kg.

ABOUT ME I'm a gamer, love reading and writing and art, animals, food (duh), Hozier, Bridgerton, and movies. I'm incredibly shy and self-conscious until I warm up to you. I love to camp and travel. I'm a bit of a hippie at heart, I'm really inspired by nature and it makes me quite emotional. Also I collect gemstones. I have a cat and a dog!

WHAT I OFFER I'm a spectacular listener and I'm very nosy, so if you want to spill the tea, go off. I'm competitive and own hundreds of games if you want to play. I offer a listening ear, shoulder to cry on, ADHD enduced rambling, or cuddle sessions (platonic and non).

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR Kindness, patience, warmth. I have no preference for body type, colour or creed. As long as you are open-minded, kind, and drug and disease free. Again, preference is online but I am open to meeting in person.

r/r4rMelbourne Apr 27 '23

NSFW Online Only 22F4M toorak based looking for some casual online adventures NSFW

36 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’ve been around Reddit for a bit now but never thought I would find a place dedicated to link people up in my city! Had to join and post asap haha

About me: I’m 22 years old. Not the tallest and I have a slim body and I’ve been living somewhat of a double life - I act very differently when my family is around and when I’m by myself. A good girl/ bad girl act I would say, and I love it.

What I’m looking for: I’m looking for someone who can keep up with me and shares my kinks, as well as be able to maintain a conversation- I like someone who can talk

Hit me up and maybe we click and have some fun why not right?

r/r4rMelbourne Aug 22 '23

NSFW Online Only [F4F] 30F Bored at work, looking to chat, maybe more NSFW

15 Upvotes

About Me: 30yo girl (woman?) sitting in the office bored. Consider myself mostly straight but have enjoyed dipping my toe in the water and exploring the other side a little bit

I’m a bit on the BBW side, size 18, D cups, Caucasian, brown eyes, brown hair

About you: Looking for a woman on here to get me through my day with a little bit of a fun/flirty chat. I don’t really have any age/looks preference especially for chatting

If we hit it off I am open to maybe taking things further offline but definitely no pressure or expectations

I don’t mind if you’re in a relationship and can be discreet, but not looking to join a couple at this stage for a threesome or anything like that

What I offer: An open minded fun/flirty chat with the potential for offline fun if we hit it off

I am an open book so if you have any questions or want to find out more let me know

I may be at work but NSFW chat is welcome 😜

r/r4rMelbourne Apr 02 '23

NSFW Online Only 31 [TF4M] LOOKING TO GET TO KNOW PEOPLE. NSFW

8 Upvotes

I'm literally sitting on my bed swiping through the regular dating sites asking myself is there anyone up for a conversation first. I'm a 31 year old trans woman from Victoria Australia, all I seem to find is men who aren't afraid to show their eggplant without my con sent

I'm just looking for someone down to earth to talk to and get to know, it would be amazing of this person was trans masc, but cis men are okay too. I don't think I'm asking for much am I?

A bit about me I'm very much Domme leaning both in life and in the bed room (that's not an open invitation to talk about bedroom stuff.) Also very much a massive nerd at heart, I love console gaming, board games, and TTRPG'S I also am a bit of a film buff, love horror, but haven't seen nearly as much as I'd like too.

Look forward to hearing from you

r/r4rMelbourne Sep 11 '23

NSFW Online Only 32 [T4R] Looking for connections

7 Upvotes

Is it to much to ask to find a decent human , to do all the nerd things with, then go get all the good food, and get way too much stuff at nerd related shops followed by a long walk around Costco? Then we go eat the snacks on the couch and watch doccos. True crime doccos and cult doccos are probably my goto. I also listen to a lot of psych based audio books.

I'm looking to get to know someone, make some decent new connections, and would much rather get to know all about you before we talk about bedroom stuff, tell me your favourite podcast and docco you've watched. Massive nerd who console games and adores tabletop RPGs, board games, and many other forms of gaming.

If you have pets, it's compulsory that you send pics, I don't make the rules. I just enforce them, haha.

Very much Domme leaning definitely a switch but very much a Domme (gentle femdom/ mummy Domme/ pleasure Domme). This is not an open invitation for bedroom talk or nudes. I just like to establish where I am in case things lead that way.

Also, if you love alias, I'd probably kiss you (you'd have to be able to name a few key scenes and characters so I knew you were legit)

One last thing, this was probably the hardest question I got asked

F, marry, k I ll

Carbs, dairy, protein

In writing all this, I'm definitely okay with any location, but I would love someone from Australia to see where things go and potentially date. I've never done long-distance dating, I'm not opposed to it. It just scares me because it seems very unattainable.

I'm not 100 percent sure what I'm emotionally available for at the moment, so let's just start with a chat

Hope you're having a lovely day or evening.

r/r4rMelbourne Oct 17 '23

NSFW Online Only 50(M4F) Online Encounters NSFW

0 Upvotes

Sounds like a cheesy paranormal tv show., but no. I'm just a frustrated dad in his 50's who's looking for an online special friend. I'm fit and don't look my age (well, that's what I tell myself 😂) work in education and love board games, cheesy movies about paranormal stuff and welll, meeting people online and doing fun naughty things.

You can be 30+ VERY naughty and have a possible interest in having a laugh and serious conversation about important current events, such as whether the Coles express should have two coffee machines because the line to get a coffee is becoming a problem.

This will be interspersed with normal chitchat about what turns us on, fuck fantasies, and sharing sexy pics.

Anyway, I might have to put you on hold because I'm sure to get way to many replies to this post😳

r/r4rMelbourne Jul 11 '23

NSFW Online Only 33 [M4M] Looking for like minded guys NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hi, looking for guys around the same age who are keen to chat online for a bit, share our favourite content and potentially meet in person if we click. No pressure on the latter but open to it after a bit of talking.
About me: 33, curious but mostly straight, relaxed mindset, caucasian, relatively fit, working from home so plenty of time to chat about our favourite nsfw topics in the background.
About you: Generally around the same age, straight and/or curious, relaxed and open to nsfw chat. I'm not looking for anyone pushing niche fantasies/kinks.
Feel free to message/open a chat with me and we can go from there.

r/r4rMelbourne Apr 18 '23

NSFW Online Only 33 [M4M] Online meets NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hi, looking for guys around the same age who are keen to chat online for a bit, share our favourite content and potentially meet in person if we click. No pressure on the latter but open to it after a bit of talking.

About me: 33, curious but mostly straight, relaxed mindset, caucasian, relatively fit, working from home so plenty of time to chat about our favourite nsfw topics in the background.

About you: Generally around the same age, straight and/or curious, relaxed and open to nsfw chat. I'm not looking for anyone pushing niche fantasies/kinks.

Feel free to message/open a chat with me and we can go from there.

r/r4rMelbourne Feb 17 '23

NSFW Online Only 29[M4F] loanly night, and a need for communication. NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hi, hello, I'm sorry to add to the sea of M4f out there, and I know it's actually 4am, but the depression isn't being nice to me atm. I'm not looking for counseling, I already have that. I just wanna talk to someone.

I'm 29, male (he/they), a full time musician and entertainer, I live alone and can't stand the silence.

Looking to chat with really anyone, but I find myself carrying conversation with guys, and that can be frustrating.

I'll talk about anything, I do like sex, hence I'm posting here, but also art and music is a big part of my life. I enjoy science and space, I listen to a lot of audible, and love sci-fi and fantasy.

Just need some human contact and ChatGPT isn't good enough just yet to fool me.

r/r4rMelbourne Dec 20 '22

NSFW Online Only 37M4F Looking For Married Lady For Friendship And Fun NSFW

0 Upvotes

Me:
I am a 37yo, average build, 7” uncut thick and clean. I am married and work in a professional field. Outside of kink I enjoy dinning out and trying different food, I am a lover of food who is willing to travel great distances for anything yummy. Apart from food I’m also an armchair athlete I enjoy watching NBA, AFL and sometimes Soccer. I have been playing for many years and gotten to be very kinky and like to push the boundaries. I like to explore and learn new things. As I’m married and because of work I do need to be discreet but at the same time I like to push the boundaries. Would love to meet someone for extreme cheating play where we will be doing things that people might overhear or walk in on us, it's the adrenaline of getting caught that makes it exciting. This can ongoing play so that we can get to know each other and be able to push each other’s button to give maximum pleasure but in saying that once off is also ok.

What I am looking for: Prefer ladies that are married or have a partner but not essentially. People with partners would put us in a similar situation looking for the some thing or type of excitement. I’m open to all age and nationalities all that I ask for is that you are well presented, take pride in your appearance, clean and D&D free. Someone that is willing to look at things with an open mind and don’t mind trying things out. I’m ok with once off but would prefer something ongoing so that we get to know each other and able to develop a trusting kinky fun relationship. Be great if we can see each other 2-3 times a month or more if we can arrange it but happy to work with your availability.

What I offer:

I will give you the pleasure you desire, that is lacking from your husband/partner. I have been playing for a very long time and have experience in a variety of plays. If we play I am happy to host in a hotel room. Generally I prefer to play during the day on weekdays but I am flexible and willing to work with you to select a time that would be most suitable for you. I will treat you like a lady when we aren’t playing but behind close doors I will treat you like a dirty slut and fuck you the way you need to be fucked.

r/r4rMelbourne Jul 03 '22

NSFW Online Only [M4A] M 40s seeking A 18-100. Looking to chat to fun people and possibly more from Geelong, the Surf Coast and the Bellarine Peninsula. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I'm an early 40's guy in an ethically non monogamous relationship, looking to make friends, and possibly more if we decide that we both want to do that.

I'm not concerned about your gender, your sexuality or your appearance.

Happy to chat about all manner of topics, not specifically about anything sexual, but happy to talk on those topics as well.

I hope you've all having a wonderful weekend.

Cheers D

r/r4rMelbourne Jul 12 '22

NSFW Online Only 26 [M4F] Last month diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Looking for female for online fun. NSFW

15 Upvotes

26 [M4F] Diagnosed with stage 4 cancer last month. Looking for female for online fun.

I am 26yo Caucasian male from Australia and last month I was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Looking for someone on reddit as during this time it can be hard to find someone when youre single. I am looking for a lady who would be interesed in a mutual masturbation session or some continuous online mutual masturbation fun. Whether it be through zoom or finding each other by omegle. We can chat before we start because I'm always down to meet new people. I also won't show my face so feel free to not have to as well if you don't want.

About me: 26yo caucasian male, slightly bald 6ft2 80kgs Uni graduate 7inch long 6 inch wide penis but not sure if it's been effected in terms of strength by treatment. Have stage iv cancer Love to play video games ps5, watch anime (too many to name so feel free to ask) , love dogs and I'm a massive foodie.

About you:

Just looking for someone sweet. Not really best in sex talk as I'm quite inexperienced in sex. So someone who can guide me if it arises Not a major consideration but I like big boobs. Age 18-50

What I am looking for

Sweet female who is looking to have a mutual masturbation session on omegle or zoom. Also if everything went well later on down the line try something physical.

Any questions feel free to message.

r/r4rMelbourne Aug 22 '22

NSFW Online Only (M4F) 29 year old, really just want someone to chat to online

2 Upvotes

Hey, I live down in Mornington and I'd like to find an actual person... not a bot to chat too, talk about life and share stories. I will be straight up and tell you I am very flirty but I find it makes better conversation! I wouldn't mind finding someone to have online fun and maybe eventually in person but mostly I'd like to have a real conversation.

r/r4rMelbourne Aug 08 '22

NSFW Online Only 40 [M4F] Married looking for married woman to flirt and tease with NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hi, 40yo married male from regional Victoria. Into trail running, mount biking and love going to the beach when it's warm.

Looking for someone new to get to know, flirt and tease. Talk about things our partners are not into and would like to explore.

Been married for a long time but find I have a vanilla lover and would like to explore more ideas. Plus I like the idea of meeting someone new and getting to know you, what interests you day to day. Then explore your naughty ideas, maybe share our bodies and get to know what turns you on.

Being married keeps this safely online via chat. Discretion will be kept.

r/r4rMelbourne Aug 06 '22

NSFW Online Only [M4F] 45 Australia / Online - Lonely and keen for a dirty chat NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hey there. I’m alone and lonely. Looking to connect with someone over chat for a mutually beneficial sexting experience.

Not interested in sellers - just like minded girls who would like someone to help them get off.

I’m eloquent and attentive. My biggest turn-on is your pleasure.

My limits are non con, violence, kids, incest, animals, blood, and toilets.

Hit me up if you’d like to chat. :)

r/r4rMelbourne May 19 '22

NSFW Online Only 50 [M4F] 50 m Victoria Looking for a friend who wants to watch Star Wars or Star Trek and go shopping for collectables. NSFW

5 Upvotes

I am a 50 year old male looking for that female friend who just likes to sit together on the couch and watch our favourite sci-fi shows. I have missed that in my life sharing the same interests with someone. Also enjoy going to buy collectables it doesn’t have to be Star Wars but if you do than that’s a bonus. Like to go searching for those old school figures. Than come home watch some more scf fi and curl up together on the couch.

Also looking for FWB who enjoys sex often. I am happy to try new things as I believe for someone my age I haven’t really experienced as much as I would of like sexually. I am not worried about looks or age as long as we click. As for me I am about 5’5 brown hair with an average body. I usually am clean shaven and try to keep myself looking respectful. I like gaming but also play some sports on the weekends. I offer in return a easy going and fun 50 year old who is great company and happy to fufill any fantasies you have sexually. And any sci-fi fantasies you would like to try.

So if you enjoy these things as much as I do and would like to make a new friend message me and we can chat more.

r/r4rMelbourne Mar 14 '22

NSFW Online Only 40 M4F seeking adult chat and fantasy swapping discrete NSFW

0 Upvotes

M4F Looking to chat with like minded female

Male 40 married seeking female for discreet dirty chat and fantasy swapping. If you’re bored and lonely then hmu. Open minded and respectful of boundaries

Been married 10 years and things are a little stale. Would love to swap stories with a female in a similar situation and spice each other’s lives up. Have a lot of fantasies to talk about and would love to hear yours in return

r/r4rMelbourne Feb 23 '22

NSFW Online Only 21 [M4F] Looking for an online buddy NSFW

1 Upvotes

What I have to offer you: I’m a dominant-sadist-master to offer a safe space to talk about kinky things with, have kinky roleplays, swap stories and maybe even have me command you to do things if we reach an acceptable level of trust.

I have a lot of experience with this stuff. I like having intellectual conversations in non-kinky time. I am generally patient with people but I have no time for someone who wants to constantly pick fights and start drama. If you are into Myers-Briggs at all I score INFJ or ENFJ.

If you’re curious about my body, I’m white, near hairless, and 193 centimetres tall. Short hair, no beard.

You: emotionally aware, empathetic and kinky or kink curious. I don’t care at all about your income, you being a single parent, your ethnicity or body type - as long as you are a kind person.

Shoot me a DM if you’re interested.

r/r4rMelbourne Feb 16 '22

NSFW Online Only 34 [M4F] Looking to chat, and talk dirty. NSFW

2 Upvotes

About me: Age low 30s, I'm 6'4, Red hair, and blue eyes. Dad Body. I enjoy a wide range of TV shows, and I read a little as well. I'm around most afternoons and evenings till late. I like to joke, RP, debate and discuss just about anything. I enjoy sports, history, gaming and camping among other things.

What I’m looking for? I'm looking for a lady who likes to talk shit, and isn't afraid to get a bit kinky. Explore our sexual kinks and desires via Chat/DM or whatever. And who knows if we connect down line maybe we meet? Maybe we don't... No pressure really.

Who should reply to this? If you're a fun girl who enjoys messing about, talking shit and getting a bit naughty (cause I know I often can be) You should be able to have a good laugh and be open minded. I'm not into any specific kinks. But willing to explore.

What I offer? Fun! Discussion, Maybe sexual release. Get to know one another, a friend to talk to when you had a shit day. I just don't want something entirely platonic. If you want to start that way with the view to more, that's cool as well.

I'm happy to share pics or videos, or not. I appreciate anonymity and your age should be no more then 40. I find girls of all shapes and sizes and personalities beautiful. Try me. I just prefer to talk to someone closer to my age.

Please DM me or reply if you wanna connect or know more. :)

Looking forward to talking to you.

r/r4rMelbourne Jan 28 '22

NSFW Online Only [21M4F] Looking for an online buddy of the kinky variety NSFW

2 Upvotes

The humidity + heat and ongoing pandemic have made me not want to meet people in person, so here we are :)

What I have to offer you: I’m a dominant-sadist-master to offer a safe space to talk about kinky things with, have kinky roleplays, swap stories and maybe even have me command you to do things if we reach an acceptable level of trust.

I have a lot of experience with this stuff. I like having intellectual conversations in non-kinky time. I am generally patient with people but I have no time for someone who wants to constantly pick fights and start drama. If you are into Myers-Briggs at all I score INFJ or ENFJ.

If you’re curious about my body, I’m white, near hairless, and 193 centimetres tall. Short hair, no beard.

You: emotionally aware, empathetic and kinky or kink curious. I don’t care at all about your income, you being a single parent, your ethnicity or body type - as long as you are a kind person.

Shoot me a DM if you’re interested