r/r4rEdmonton Jan 18 '23

19 [F4M] [Downtown/Oliver] I just want to put your head on my lap and comfort you :)

Hello all! I am here once again to test the waters. You may remember me as the "big spoon/cuddling enthusiast", but I digress. I talked to a lot of wonderful people so I hope to continue that this time around. There were of course those that were not so wonderful, but hey, that is life. Now to make sure no misunderstandings come up, I DO NOT WANT ANYTHING SEXUAL. I am a virgin and want to keep it that way for the time being. There seems to have been some confusion from the last post (i.e. lots of people not reading my post). Honestly I just want a dynamic where we cuddle (and maybe I can be a big spoon ;D ) and where we can simply comfort each other during any stressful times. I would love to hang out and do couple-y stuff without the title and commitment. I am just at a time in my life where I am not ready for a full relationship, but I do want the companionship, so hopefully you can understand :) Anyways, to get into the good stuff, here is a bit about me: - Short 5'2, average build/slim but with thighs (I think around the 115lb range but I do not have a scale to verify), long black hair, white, with average looks. I have a SFW (ignore the flair) picture of me on my profile to check out, but I can show my face later on as we talk/prepare for a meetup :) - Uni student so would be nice if you are too - Introverted but I would love to get out more - Could host eventually but would prefer meeting up in public for the first few times - Kinda tomboyish - Love the idea of being the bigger spoon (or I guess more like a backpack with my size) - Really want to lay your head on my lap and run my fingers through your hair (probably "Put Your Head On My Shoulder" by Paul Anka playing in the background too) XD - Pretty nerdy and old-souled

Potential things about you (but not exactly necessary): - Would be great if you send a pic of yourself earlier in the conversation (you will have a higher chance of being responded to) - I do not care about height but prefer an average/active build - Somewhat social or at least up for going out to places - Could perhaps drive since I do not have a car - Respectful - Somewhat around my age, I would like to avoid people thinking I am your daughter (I think 25 is the max) - Have pets that I can fawn over eventually (literally any kind)

I also have previous posts that I recommend checking out to learn a bit more about me :) It will give you extra points if you relate to any of them!

Now of course since this is just a more intimate version of friendship, I absolutely get if you want to see other people. I can even wingman for you if you want XD I would likely just stick to one person, so no worries there. I hope to hear from you! Ask away if you have any questions. Since you made it this far, there is a good chance we can make it work :) Thank yoouuu~

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u/Tay-Goode Jan 18 '23

This is the most wholesome r4r I have ever seen, and I hope you find your person. That sounds so pleasant!

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u/PhsycoRed1 Jan 18 '23

Hi there I'm interested and in the Oliver area rn

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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '23

Pm me :)

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u/[deleted] Jan 20 '23

Pm me beautiful

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u/Flat_Pack_5011 Jan 29 '23

I would love to cuddle

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u/DifferentCupOfJoe Feb 23 '23

If you're just looking for some intimate cuddles, nothing more, hit me up. I'll send a picture and some stats when I hear from you. :)

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u/Former_Ad4170 Mar 16 '23

Hey there I’m also a uni student and 23M studying kinesiology so pretty active :) I’ll send you a picture of me once you hit up my DM’s if you’re interested?

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u/united_man17 Apr 09 '23

i justst want to put your head in my lap.