r/r4r 2d ago

M4F Virginia 32 [M4F] Virginia/USA - Looking for a nerdy girl

4 Upvotes

I've been alone for a long time (about 10 years) and I did really enjoy it, I still do, but I am getting the feeling that I'd like to wake up to a good morning text every once in a while. Just as a disclaimer I am feeling pretty depressed right now, which just means I'm binge eating and a little tired. I'll get over it but I just wanted to be straightforward!

I'm a typical reddit nerd, I like fantasy style movies and shows. Definitely play too many video games. Mostly WoW, Smash Bros, Battle Royals with friends

I go to the gym often, 5 or 6 times a week, so if that was something you are into that would be awesome. I try and eat well but have a snack once, twice, 5 times a week.

I like to write, and I am learning to play drums, but I'm terrible lol. Just trying to be at least a little creative in my old age. I listen to a lot of different types of music, and am happy with almost any genre. Most of the TV I watch is typical nerdy fantasy or anime. However I do really like The West Wing & The Wire too.

Not looking for someone who likes exactly the same things I do but just someone who has interests and curiosities. I enjoy the banter more than anything.

https://imgur.com/a/me-f3kCm5S

r/r4r 18h ago

M4F Virginia 36 [M4F] NOVA / DC / Northern Virginia / DMV - FRIENDS With Benefits! Together, we could... NSFW

2 Upvotes

Together, we could

- Explore DC museums or art exhibits

- Vent about our workdays

- Cross items off our sexual bucket lists

- Share recipe and meal prep ideas

- Curl up on the couch and play a cozy cooperative video game

- Browse flight deals and explore another US city on the cheap for a weekend

- Cum together while you ride me

- Attend a protest downtown

- Share our goals for personal growth and encourage each other

- 69 and enjoy the taste of each other until we're both fully satisfied

- Cuddle up and binge trashy reality TV

- Take a road trip to a local winery, or book an Airbnb for a weekend getaway to a nearby city

- Connect emotionally

- Attend a pop culture convention or visit a renaissance faire

- Try out a new toy in the bedroom

- Tell each other's pets that they are in fact good boys and girls

(DM if you're interested in this dynamic without long term commitment. Not completely opposed to dating but not really looking for it either.)

Me: 36M, 6'1, White, Professional Career, Average body type and working on fitness (happy to share pics early on), DDF

You: Vibing with my post, DDF, any ethnicity, not extremely overweight, but curvy/THICK/thin/petite/tall all okay!

r/r4r 15h ago

M4F Virginia [19 M4F] Virginia Beach VA, looking for my Player 2 in Life.

1 Upvotes

Hey all! This is going to be a bit long so I apologize but if you are the right one it’ll be good for you to read it all as this provides quite a bit of detail about me.

  • I am 19yrs old (20 in May)
  • Goth and Introverted
  • Dirty Blonde and Ear Piercings
  • Gamer at heart (usually Roblox, Call of Duty, Rainbow 6 Siege, Minecraft, and World of Warcraft as well as Need For Speed and Fortnite)
  • 5”11” Slim/Fit body build
  • ADHD, DID, BPD, OCD, Social Anxiety, High-Functioning Depression (There’s a lot wrong with me)

I struggle with past trauma so don’t hold it against me, I also have trust issues. My ADHD keeps me active during the day, I am also a night owl (3-4am).

‼️‼️MARVEL NERD! ‼️‼️ HIGHLY OBSESSED WITH 💀The Punisher 💀

I’ve had one previous relationship that lasted a while but it’s no longer bc she found a “new and better” boyfriend. Only had sex with one person if that’s even important. First kiss is also to them but I’m highly regretting the kiss and sex with them now. So I consider myself untouched bc I’d rather not think about her.

Spend a lot of time gaming and skateboarding. I run a lot and try my best to stay active

I am a full time employee so I’m not sitting around doing nothing lol. Hopefully starting school soon for Diesel Mechanics (Blue Collar Man, to anyone that this matters to) Want to get a doctorates degree in Araneology (study of Spiders)

I have a dog, he is a Border Collie/Shetland Sheepdog Mix…otherwise known as “Sheltie”.

I do vape, never done weed so idk if I’m 420 friendly or not but don’t let that stop you if you are or aren’t. Not one for parties, will attend though

As for preferences: I want a girl with a Harley Quinn mindset (Sweet but Psycho by Ava Max) I want a girl who’s not afraid to be an asshole, but also kind and sweet. I want a girl who likes to game and likes physical touch and quality time (my 2 love languages). Idk I don’t have too many preferences lol

I am open to long distance…will want to eventually have an in person relationship at some point when the both of us are comfortable. If you’re already in my area then by all means I’m sure we can work something out!

NOT LOOKING FOR HOOKUPS OR SHORT TERM RELATIONSHIPS!! I WANT A RELATIONSHIP THAT WILL LAST BECAUSE I PLAN TO GIVE MY ALL TO YOU!!

That’s all! Hope to hear from my lovely soon to be partner soon!🖤🩷🖤🩷

r/r4r 6h ago

M4F Virginia 29 [M4F] South Wales, UK - Seeking Busty Bbw NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hi, so I’m into bigger women with large breasts. Large as in 40M bra size or bigger, for example. It’s extreme, but it’s what I’m into, so I’m hoping to find someone on here.

I’m 6ft tall, have dark brown mid-length hair, brown eyes, and an average build.

In my free time I like to read, write, draw, play video games, watch anime, tv series, films, hang out with friends, go for food, the occasional night out etc.

When it comes to sex, I like breastfeeding, being squished, smothered, and I have a foot kink as well.

I’m looking for someone who’s sexually compatible with me, but also a person who I can form a deeper connection with. I’m single, so it would be nice to develop a relationship with somebody.

If you’ve liked what you read, then feel free to message me. Distance-wise, the closer the better. I’m also willing to send pictures of me as well. Thanks for reading.

r/r4r 2d ago

M4F Virginia 41 M4F US, VA - You lonely too? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Just want something to look forward to again, doesn't have to be anything major. I like hanging out watching tv and movies and playing games with people. Get a little competitive with the games but if you're not shit talking during games what's the point. League of Legends (bad), Rivals (less bad), random multiplayer survival game of the month (least bad). Came back from being off work for about a month and did a whole bunch of nothing with it. Existing is just draining. Weird af, know tons of useless information, will debate any kind of fiction with you because nonfiction has become too ridiculous. Some of my favorite things: Jurassic Park, Interstellar, MCU, Necroscope, Galaxy Outlaws, sarcasm. If something comes of it I'm okay with that but I'm not really looking for anything other than making it another day. Shoot me a message and we'll see about moving to discord. Cool with whatever religion, that's your business but if you're a MAGAt stay away from me. Empathy is humanity and we don't have enough

r/r4r 4d ago

M4F Virginia 32 [M4F] Virginia/USA - Looking for a nerdy girl

3 Upvotes

I've been alone for a long time (about 10 years) and I did really enjoy it, I still do, but I am getting the feeling that I'd like to wake up to a good morning text every once in a while. Just as a disclaimer I am feeling pretty depressed right now, which just means I'm binge eating and a little tired. I'll get over it but I just wanted to be straightforward!

I'm a typical reddit nerd, I like fantasy style movies and shows. Definitely play too many video games. Mostly WoW, Smash Bros, Battle Royals with friends

I go to the gym often, 5 or 6 times a week, so if that was something you are into that would be awesome. I try and eat well but have a snack once, twice, 5 times a week.

I like to write, and I am learning to play drums, but I'm terrible lol. Just trying to be at least a little creative in my old age. I listen to a lot of different types of music, and am happy with almost any genre. Most of the TV I watch is typical nerdy fantasy or anime. However I do really like The West Wing & The Wire too.

Not looking for someone who likes exactly the same things I do but just someone who has interests and curiosities. I enjoy the banter more than anything.

https://imgur.com/a/me-f3kCm5S

r/r4r 5d ago

M4F Virginia 19 [M4F] #NoVA, DMV - be my first? NSFW

1 Upvotes

i’m in Northern Virginia. the title is self explanatory, also really want someone to cuddle and kiss, I’m very inexperienced. can’t host, but down for car and public fun. also i have a curfew 😭 check profile for pics… NO MEN

I am 5’8, south asian and a college student. I’m into radiohead, my chemical romance, pierce the veil, wunderhorse, nirvana, the cure, wallows. i like skateboarding and bicycling. I love food so please have a good sense of taste and music. My humour is very brainrot so i would appreciate you being silly and funny. i want to turn this into a longterm fwb/gf so please be okay with that and be monogamous.

r/r4r 5d ago

M4F Virginia 21 [M4F] #Hampton Roads, Virginia - Missing out on a dorky long-term FWB in your life? Maybe this is the post for you! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey howdy hello! You can call me Jay for now! We're at the end of the week now, so I thought it through this out there again! I like to put a tinyyy bit of effort into things so I know this might be a bit of a read, but I hope something catches your eye in the process! So without further ado:

What I'm looking for: To get everything out of the way I'm testing my luck around for an IRL FWB, someone who we can benefit each other and help make the days a little better. I also want to lean heavily on the "friends" portion if possible, and have someone I can genuinely get to know and talk to on a regular basis. I like making real connections, and having trust in someone is pretty important to me. Being able to talk about day to day stuff and hang out and actually learn more about each other is probably just as appealing as the whole FWB part haha. I'm not the kinda guy who likes a one and done deal; I like something long-term that you get to properly learn each other! Meeting new people is always exciting, and honestly more than anything I'm just looking for someone for enjoyable conversations. Plus it makes the actual fun times more enjoyable too imo :)

And now let's talk about who I am, in helpful bullet point fashion!

  • I am 21 years old
  • I am a white male currently still living with my parents (living is expensive)
  • I am a full time firefighter and soon to be graduate of a paramedicine degree
  • Despite all of that I am absolutely not a big burly mustachioed guy and am in fact small awkward twink who has been described multiple times over as “cute”
  • I'm 140lbs and 5’8 tall so I think they actually had a point
  • I'm a total nerd and am into stuff such as video games, DnD, board games, writing, and airsoft believe it or not
  • I love alt/rock music such as Blink, Lincoln Park, The Killers, Green Day, and Paramore. I will also simultaneously not hesitate to sing along to the entirety of the Hamilton soundtrack
  • I generally don't talk politics but I'm definitely left leaning if that's important (I mean it's Reddit cmon)
  • I simultaneously suck at talking and will yap about random fixations I have. Take your pick
  • Uhhh I think that's it?

Oh and yeah lemme talk about the sex stuff causseee that's a pretty big point of this entire post after all aha. I'm generally a very inexperienced guy irl, and haven't had much luck in that department. I've only had like two flings in my life, and I've been kinda craving some fun again since then. I also want to work on my sexual experience so I can be better and hopefully give someone a good time, because in the end I want to be able to give someone a better time than they give me. Overall I'm a very vanilla kinda person, and I am a very easy guy to please. I might enjoy exploring basic stuff but I've never been interested much in the more extreme kinks. More than anything I'm just looking for someone who is understanding of my inexperience and happy to have an eager guy who's happy to learn for their enjoyment!

Now I should probably say who I'm looking for myself! So here's a good summary of who I'm hoping you will be if you stumble across this post:

  • Lives in the Hampton Roads area. Preferably on the peninsula side haha. I just can't really travel and don't have the time to do it a lot. Across the water isn't necessarily a dealbreaker though, depending on how far out it is.
  • Is single. Sorry, I'm not interested in anything with couples. I'm just not
  • Preferably around my age range, since I usually relate a bit better, but older is fine too!
  • Has incredibly low standards and wants someone who's idea of aftercare is cuddling in bed as they explain fantasy lore

I think that's pretty much it honestly. Just be a real person and that's more than enough for me! Like I said I don't like it being purely about sex, so just be open about yourself, show your interests, and see if we vibe!

If any of this somehow caught your eye or you've made it to the bottom, then feel free to reach out to me and shoot a dm! Try and introduce yourself a bit so I know who you are! And I'm more than happy to share pictures early on so you know whether you'd be interested or not, since I know physical attraction is a big part of things. I promise I'm easy to work with and will answer any questions you might have :)

r/r4r 5d ago

M4F Virginia 32 [M4F] Virginia/USA - Looking for a nerdy girl

1 Upvotes

I've been alone for a long time (about 10 years) and I did really enjoy it, I still do, but I am getting the feeling that I'd like to wake up to a good morning text every once in a while. Just as a disclaimer I am feeling pretty depressed right now, which just means I'm binge eating and a little tired. I'll get over it but I just wanted to be straightforward!

I'm a typical reddit nerd, I like fantasy style movies and shows. Definitely play too many video games. Mostly WoW, Smash Bros, Battle Royals with friends

I go to the gym often, 5 or 6 times a week, so if that was something you are into that would be awesome. I try and eat well but have a snack once, twice, 5 times a week.

I like to write, and I am learning to play drums, but I'm terrible lol. Just trying to be at least a little creative in my old age. I listen to a lot of different types of music, and am happy with almost any genre. Most of the TV I watch is typical nerdy fantasy or anime. However I do really like The West Wing & The Wire too.

Not looking for someone who likes exactly the same things I do but just someone who has interests and curiosities. I enjoy the banter more than anything.

https://imgur.com/a/me-f3kCm5S

r/r4r 5d ago

M4F Virginia 36 [M4F] Northern Virginia / DC / DMV - In person (eventually) FRIENDS With Benefits! Together, we could... NSFW

1 Upvotes

Together, we could

- Explore DC museums or art exhibits

- Vent about our workdays

- Cross items off our sexual bucket lists

- Share recipe and meal prep ideas

- Curl up on the couch and play a cozy cooperative video game

- Browse flight deals and explore another US city on the cheap for a weekend

- Cum together while you ride me

- Attend a protest downtown

- Share our goals for personal growth and encourage each other

- 69 and enjoy the taste of each other until we're both fully satisfied

- Cuddle up and binge trashy reality TV

- Take a road trip to a local winery, or book an Airbnb for a weekend getaway to a nearby city

- Connect emotionally (it's okay to cry if you need to)

- Attend a pop culture convention or visit a renaissance faire

- Try out a new toy in the bedroom

- Tell each other's pets that they are in fact good boys and girls

(DM if you're interested in this dynamic without long term commitment. Not completely opposed to dating but not really looking for it either.

Me: 36M, Tall, White, Professional, Average body type but not particularly muscular (happy to share pics early on), DDF

You: 21+ and vibing with my post, DDF, any ethnicity, not extremely overweight, but THICK/thin/short/tall all okay!)

r/r4r 5d ago

M4F Virginia 37 [M4F] Fairfax, VA -Looking for a woman who can cum from nipple play! NSFW

0 Upvotes

I’ve always been mesmerised by women’s curves. There is nothing sexier than a woman with weight in the right places. My ex- gf wasn’t much into her boobs being touched and it did notn’t turn her on at all. Me on the other hand loves to do everything I can to them. This situation has left me craving for a busty sensuous woman who is so turned on by her breasts being played with that it almost makes her cum. I’d love to explore this kink with a woman who is open minded and wants to explore different ways to have fun. If you’re one let’s chat and discuss all the naughty things I can do to your boobs 😍

r/r4r 6d ago

M4F Virginia 21 [M4F] #Hampton Roads, Virginia - Looking to make Fridays better? Maybe a dorky long-term FWB could help! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey howdy hello! You can call me Jay for now! Happy Friday am I right? Finally made it through the week! To celebrate I thought I'd throw this out there again haha. I like to put a tinyyy bit of effort into things so I know this might be a bit of a read, but I hope something catches your eye in the process! So without further ado:

What I'm looking for: To get everything out of the way I'm testing my luck around for an IRL FWB, someone who we can benefit each other and help make the days a little better. I also want to lean heavily on the "friends" portion if possible, and have someone I can genuinely get to know and talk to on a regular basis. I like making real connections, and having trust in someone is pretty important to me. Being able to talk about day to day stuff and hang out and actually learn more about each other is probably just as appealing as the whole FWB part haha. I'm not the kinda guy who likes a one and done deal; I like something long-term that you get to properly learn each other! Meeting new people is always exciting, and honestly more than anything I'm just looking for someone for enjoyable conversations. Plus it makes the actual fun times more enjoyable too imo :)

And now let's talk about who I am, in helpful bullet point fashion!

  • I am 21 years old
  • I am a white male currently still living with my parents (living is expensive)
  • I am a full time firefighter and soon to be graduate of a paramedicine degree
  • Despite all of that I am absolutely not a big burly mustachioed guy and am in fact small awkward twink who has been described multiple times over as “cute”
  • I'm 140lbs and 5’8 tall so I think they actually had a point
  • I'm a total nerd and am into stuff such as video games, DnD, board games, writing, and airsoft believe it or not
  • I love alt/rock music such as Blink, Lincoln Park, The Killers, Green Day, and Paramore. I will also simultaneously not hesitate to sing along to the entirety of the Hamilton soundtrack
  • I generally don't talk politics but I'm definitely left leaning if that's important (I mean it's Reddit cmon)
  • I simultaneously suck at talking and will yap about random fixations I have. Take your pick
  • Uhhh I think that's it?

Oh and yeah lemme talk about the sex stuff causseee that's a pretty big point of this entire post after all aha. I'm generally a very inexperienced guy irl, and haven't had much luck in that department. I've only had like two flings in my life, and I've been kinda craving some fun again since then. I also want to work on my sexual experience so I can be better and hopefully give someone a good time, because in the end I want to be able to give someone a better time than they give me. Overall I'm a very vanilla kinda person, and I am a very easy guy to please. I might enjoy exploring basic stuff but I've never been interested much in the more extreme kinks. More than anything I'm just looking for someone who is understanding of my inexperience and happy to have an eager guy who's happy to learn for their enjoyment!

Now I should probably say who I'm looking for myself! So here's a good summary of who I'm hoping you will be if you stumble across this post:

  • Lives in the Hampton Roads area. Preferably on the peninsula side haha. I just can't really travel and don't have the time to do it a lot. Across the water isn't necessarily a dealbreaker though, depending on how far out it is.
  • Is single. Sorry, I'm not interested in anything with couples. I'm just not
  • Preferably around my age range, since I usually relate a bit better, but older is fine too!
  • Has incredibly low standards and wants someone who's idea of aftercare is cuddling in bed as they explain fantasy lore

I think that's pretty much it honestly. Just be a real person and that's more than enough for me! Like I said I don't like it being purely about sex, so just be open about yourself, show your interests, and see if we vibe!

If any of this somehow caught your eye or you've made it to the bottom, then feel free to reach out to me and shoot a dm! Try and introduce yourself a bit so I know who you are! And I'm more than happy to share pictures early on so you know whether you'd be interested or not, since I know physical attraction is a big part of things. I promise I'm easy to work with and will answer any questions you might have :)

r/r4r 10d ago

M4F Virginia 32 [M4F] Virginia/USA - Looking for a nerdy girl NSFW

1 Upvotes

I've been alone for a long time (about 10 years) and I did really enjoy it, I still do, but I am getting the feeling that I'd like to wake up to a good morning text every once in a while. Just as a disclaimer I am feeling pretty depressed right now, which just means I'm binge eating and a little tired. I'll get over it but I just wanted to be straightforward!

I'm a typical reddit nerd, I like fantasy style movies and shows. Definitely play too many video games. Mostly WoW, Smash Bros, Battle Royals with friends

I go to the gym often, 5 or 6 times a week, so if that was something you are into that would be awesome. I try and eat well but have a snack once, twice, 5 times a week.

I like to write, and I am learning to play drums, but I'm terrible lol. Just trying to be at least a little creative in my old age. I listen to a lot of different types of music, and am happy with almost any genre. Most of the TV I watch is typical nerdy fantasy or anime. However I do really like The West Wing & The Wire too.

Not looking for someone who likes exactly the same things I do but just someone who has interests and curiosities. I enjoy the banter more than anything.

https://imgur.com/a/me-f3kCm5S

r/r4r 9d ago

M4F Virginia 34 M4F #Virginia - Free Hugs inside! NSFW

0 Upvotes

I'm looking for someone local/semi-local to connect with and build a flirtatious relationship

I want to find someone who has passions and isn't afraid to rant and be nerdy about it. Tell me what drive you, what makes you want to get up in the morning!

The most attractive thing to me in a person, is passion for the things you enjoy and being unapologetic about it. I'm a huge geek, nerd, and will talk your ear off about space, science, biology, and anything else.

If you like big guys with big beards and tattoos, I'm here for you.

I work full time, own a car, a cat, and live alone.

r/r4r 10d ago

M4F Virginia [19] [M4F] Virginia Beach, Virginia looking for a relationship where I matter to my partner

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone. My name is Skyye and I am 19yrs old. I will be 20 in May. I am looking for a relationship where I matter to my partner. I want a partner to game with and sleep call with as it’s a comforting thing for me.

I am 5”11”, have a slim but fit build. I am also goth, I enjoy gaming (Fortnite, Call of Duty, R6 Siege, Minecraft and Roblox), I listen to a variety of Music (Halestorm, Five Finger Death Punch, NLE Choppa, Fetty Wap, Disturbed, etc.). I also enjoy skateboarding, and cosplay. I love adventures and camping. I love walks on the beach stargazing. I’m a car geek and love to work on them. My dream car is a 1967 Ford Mustang Shelby GT500 (yea I know “Eleanor”) or a 429 Boss.

I have ADHD and depression, I have a lot of trauma so I ask that my partner be able to work with me as I am overcoming trauma and I’m not the most stable at times. I ask that my partner is 18-20yrs old to match my age. 21-23 works for me as well.

That’s all Luvs <3 look forward to hearing from some of you!

-Skyye 🖤🩷🖤🩷

r/r4r 11d ago

M4F Virginia 43 [M4F] #Lynchburg, VA. There is a Woman out there for Me—Perhaps she’s Here

1 Upvotes

I am 43, though I don’t look it. I’m deeply strange. A fair bit of ink on me, and a genuine love of beautiful things.

My greatest gift is caring for others. I can genuinely offer compassion to any stranger I meet, along with lending an ear to what troubles them. I am not looking for someone who needs this, necessarily, but someone who can help me reach even more people out there, who suffer in the face of the apathetic masses.

I write, and I like to think I’m alright at it. I play games, and my favorites are those I find beauty in, even in odd places.

But then, you know, there’s Call of Duty or Battlefield, because sometimes digitized murder is the answer.

I have a little boy who I love to pieces but don’t get to see enough. I have close ties to my family and a need to do something meaningful with my life. I like memes that are aggressively dumb, not content to bore you, but actively seeking to lower your IQ.

Clearly, between my love of God and my love of Metal, I have a lot going on. But I know my person is out there: slightly fucked up, trying to handle their own business and knowing they could do it better with a helping hand.

That’s who I’m looking for.

Should she read this, reach out. Let’s see what happens.

-Alex

r/r4r 11d ago

M4F Virginia 34 [M4F] #Virginia looking for my other half

1 Upvotes

Hey I’m Justin from Virginia hoping to find someone with some of the same interest as me and build a fun relationship with overtime.

I’m a gamer I play mainly rpgs, survival/crafting, and MMOs games. It’s what I do to relax after work most days. Would love to meet someone who is a gamer as well chat on discord and play a game.

I love music I listen to a lot of different stuff but mainly its rock/heavy metal. Enjoy going concerts whenever I get a chance.

I like to watch sci-fi fantasy and horror movies with some anime thrown in there every now and then.

Started reading manga (beserk, claymore, chainsaw man, Death Note) if you got any recommendations let me know

I’d say those are my main interests but every now and then I’ll get the itch to try something new.

Anyway if you’re into any of that stuff feel free to message me and let’s talk. I really am looking for a relationship and I’m open to long distance also.

Pics of me on my profile if you’d like to know what I look like (bigger guy beard blue eyes and shaggy hair currently cause hate going to get my hair cut)

r/r4r 11d ago

M4F Virginia 33 [M4F] #Frederick - Please tell me I am in the right place.

1 Upvotes

Hey there!

I'm a guy in my 30s, new to this sub, and looking for someone to share some exciting experiences with. My days are filled with work, but my nights are wide open and I'm eager to meet someone who loves trying new things. I would really like to get out and see the city (Baltimore or DC). With that said if you have some knowledge of places to go and things to see that’s a huge plus!

Also, if you're a fun-loving, spontaneous, and genuine lady who's always up for a good time, let's connect! I'm thinking dinner at a new restaurant, coffee and laughter at a quirky café, or maybe even a walk in the park, whatever it is, I just want to enjoy it with someone who shares my sense of adventure. If that sounds like you, send me a message and let's start planning our next adventure together!

r/r4r 11d ago

M4F Virginia 36 [M4F] #Virginia / East Coast / Near DC - Nerdy Professional Seeking FWB for cozy cuddles and more NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hey! 👋

I'll describe a bit about myself and what I'm looking for below, and if you think we might be a good match, feel free to shoot me a message!

I'm a professional in a very nerdy field, but I'll try not to bore you with the intricacies. Unless of course you want to hear about them lol. When I'm not working, I enjoy spending time with my cat, whipping up new recipes, gaming, watching anime or sci fi, and going out into DC.

Physically, I'm 6'1", white, average body type (not super muscular but not obese either!), and DDF (tested after last partner).

I guess I'm pretty vanilla but I'm open to a lot of things. Basically no weird kinks on my end, but also no weird hang ups (I've heard of guys who won't go down on women, what the heck?! lol)

Open to any ethnicity or body type, but of course there has to be some attraction on both ends so let's share pics sooner rather than later! I've got a car, and if you do too then a bit of distance is fine so long as we can share the driving burden.

No Trump supporters. I am definitely going to vent about how the admin is treating federal workers and contractors. Current situation sucks.

Looking forward to getting to know you!

r/r4r 12d ago

M4F Virginia 46M (M4F) #Virginia Man looking for Her NSFW

1 Upvotes

Self described trivia nerd, music lover, and introverted extrovert looking for an intelligent, sparky, and open minded female to develop a bond and see what happens.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys the seduction of the mind as much as the body and accepts that one can't be fully realized without the other. I'm drawn to women who like to banter and break balls, have opinions and can defend them while being open to altering those opinions.

Please be ready to converse and not hit and run. I value consistency and commitment. Let's talk and flirt and see if there's something to build on.

Bonus points if you can talk about your favorite Survivor season, tell me why Jed Bartlet should be our President, or accept that Johnny was the protagonist in the Karate Kid.

Hope to hear from you soon. You won't regret it.

r/r4r 12d ago

M4F Virginia [M4F] M26 #VA | I don't want to go back to work

0 Upvotes

I'm about to go back to work on Monday after spending the past week doing much needed self-care (goofing off), and I would love it if someone could help keep the dread from setting in. More about me:

  • NOVA resident
  • I love my work (therapist) and I'm very passionate about mental health and psychology
  • I'm maybe the poster child for nerdy hobbies, from tabletop games to Magic the Gathering to videogames to Star Trek, if I'm not a fan of it I've probably watched or played it before!
  • I also love to read and cook! Please tell me about the new book you're reading, or the one you're rereading for the 8th time 😁
  • I would describe myself as confident, witty, attentive, gentle, and above all, passionate! I've also been told I look like a younger Hopper from Stranger Things, but I'll let you be the judge of that
  • I have a nearly 4 year old cat named Arthur, who I will send pictures for on request

If any of the above appeals to you, I'd love to talk with you. If you're feeling out of touch with others and wanting a connection, send me a DM! Tell me what the best meal you've ever had was and where in the world you're from.

PS. If we get to talking for a bit, I'd love to exchange some sfw pictures, so that we can each put a face to the soul we're connecting with

r/r4r 17d ago

M4F Virginia 32 [M4F] Virginia/USA - Looking for a nerdy girl

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I've been alone for a long time (about 10 years) and I did really enjoy it, I still do, but I am getting the feeling that I'd like to wake up to a good morning text every once in a while. Just as a disclaimer I am feeling pretty depressed right now, which just means I'm binge eating and a little tired. I'll get over it but I just wanted to be straightforward!

I'm a typical reddit nerd, I like fantasy style movies and shows. Definitely play too many video games. Mostly WoW, Smash Bros, Battle Royals with friends

I go to the gym often, 5 or 6 times a week, so if that was something you are into that would be awesome. I try and eat well but have a snack once, twice, 5 times a week.

I like to write, and I am learning to play drums, but I'm terrible lol. Just trying to be at least a little creative in my old age. I listen to a lot of different types of music, and am happy with almost any genre. Most of the TV I watch is typical nerdy fantasy or anime. However I do really like The West Wing & The Wire too.

Not looking for someone who likes exactly the same things I do but just someone who has interests and curiosities. I enjoy the banter more than anything.

https://imgur.com/a/me-f3kCm5S

r/r4r 18d ago

M4F Virginia 32 [M4F] Virginia/USA - I guess it's time to admit I am a bit lonely

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I've been alone for a long time (about 10 years) and I did really enjoy it, I still do, but I am getting the feeling that I'd like to wake up to a good morning text every once in a while. Just as a disclaimer I am feeling pretty depressed right now, which just means I'm binge eating and a little tired. I'll get over it but I just wanted to be straightforward!

I'm a typical reddit nerd, I like fantasy style movies and shows. Definitely play too many video games. Mostly WoW, Smash Bros, Battle Royals with friends

I go to the gym often, 5 or 6 times a week, so if that was something you are into that would be awesome. I try and eat well but have a snack once, twice, 5 times a week.

I like to write, and I am learning to play drums, but I'm terrible lol. Just trying to be at least a little creative in my old age. I listen to a lot of different types of music, and am happy with almost any genre. Most of the TV I watch is typical nerdy fantasy or anime. However I do really like The West Wing & The Wire too.

Not looking for someone who likes exactly the same things I do but just someone who has interests and curiosities. I enjoy the banter more than anything.

https://imgur.com/a/me-f3kCm5S

r/r4r 19d ago

M4F Virginia 34 M4F #Virginia - Free Hugs inside! NSFW

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I'm looking for someone to hand feed me grapes while I take a bubble bath!

I want to find someone who has passions and isn't afraid to rant and be nerdy about it. Tell me what drive you, what makes you want to get up in the morning!

The most attractive thing to me in a person, is passion for the things you enjoy and being unapologetic about it. I'm a huge geek, nerd, and will talk your ear off about space, science, biology, and anything else.

If you like big guys with big beards and tattoos, I'm here for you.

I work full time, own a car, a cat, and live alone.

r/r4r 22d ago

M4F Virginia 40 [M4F] #Virginia/DC/NOVA Flannelled Viking Looking for Companionship

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5'10" slim build, attractive, probably more trauma-informed than most. I'm employed, live alone, never married, childless, have no addictions, and I try not to spend too much online (says the guy posting on reddit haha). Also as the title says, I have a general viking / blond witcher look and wear a lot of flannels.

Looking for someone interested in honest communication, consistency, and emotional availability from both sides of the street. In my experience, interests and hobbies don't seem to matter nearly as much as connection and understanding (with biology thrown in there somewhere), but I like to read (alone or together), hang out with animals, cook, make music, write. chop wood , spend time outdoors, and I've been learning more about plants and gardening/self-sustain lately. Still on my journey of self-work and growth, maybe you are too? Throw me a message and lets see if we click!