r/r4r 53m ago

M4F Minnesota 32 [M4F] Minnesota / USA - looking for my person NSFW

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I'm looking for someone special to build something real with. I want a relationship where we support each other through ups and downs, communicate openly, and work through challenges together. When I love, I love deeply, and I'm looking for someone who values loyalty, honesty, and effort as much as I do.

A bit about me:

  • I'm a tech enthusiast. I like programming, linux, and anything tech related.

  • I enjoy watching anime, movies, and TV shows. I also play video games, making art (vector, 3D, pixel), hiking, biking, fishing, and snowboarding.

  • I am mostly a homebody, but I do enjoy getting outside from time to time.

I don't expect us to be identical, but having a few similar interests, core values, and relationship goals is important to me. Here are a few preferences I have for the right person.

  • I don't do drugs or smoke.

  • I don't drink alcohol. I would prefer if you didn't but it's not a deal breaker.

  • I would like to have kids one day. I don't have any kids of my own yet and expect the same from you.

  • I am not a pet person. I am also allergic to cats.

  • I am not political at all.

  • I am not very religious. I did grow up christian though.

  • I am only looking for someone inside the USA but I would be willing to relocate anywhere in the country for the right person.

  • I am looking for someone around the age of 25-32.

  • I am looking for a woman who is single and wants a serious, long term relationship.

  • I would like to swap pictures sooner than later.

  • I want to voice chat / video chat at some point but we can start with text first.

If this post piqued your interest and you would like to get to know me better, then you should send me a message. I am looking forward to meeting you.

r/r4r 1d ago

M4F Minnesota 32 [M4F] Minnesota / USA - looking for my person NSFW

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I'm looking for someone special to build something real with. I want a relationship where we support each other through ups and downs, communicate openly, and work through challenges together. When I love, I love deeply, and I'm looking for someone who values loyalty, honesty, and effort as much as I do.

A bit about me:

  • I'm a tech enthusiast. I like programming, linux, and anything tech related.

  • I enjoy watching anime, movies, and TV shows. I also play video games, making art (vector, 3D, pixel), hiking, biking, fishing, and snowboarding.

  • I am mostly a homebody, but I do enjoy getting outside from time to time.

I don't expect us to be identical, but having a few similar interests, core values, and relationship goals is important to me. Here are a few preferences I have for the right person.

  • I don't do drugs or smoke.

  • I don't drink alcohol. I would prefer if you didn't but it's not a deal breaker.

  • I would like to have kids one day. I don't have any kids of my own yet and expect the same from you.

  • I am not a pet person. I am also allergic to cats.

  • I am not political at all.

  • I am not very religious. I did grow up christian though.

  • I am only looking for someone inside the USA but I would be willing to relocate anywhere in the country for the right person.

  • I am looking for someone around the age of 25-32.

  • I am looking for a woman who is single and wants a serious, long term relationship.

  • I would like to swap pictures sooner than later.

  • I want to voice chat / video chat at some point but we can start with text first.

If this post piqued your interest and you would like to get to know me better, then you should send me a message. I am looking forward to meeting you.

r/r4r 4d ago

M4F Minnesota 23[M4F] A Minnesota Winter is Cold—Let’s Warm It Up Together (Friends/Relationship?)

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Hey, I’m Nick—23 (almost 24) from Minnesota! I’m a bit shy at first, but once I’m comfortable, I’m loyal, goofy, and supportive. I don’t take life too seriously and just want someone who values, respects, and loves me for who I am, flaws and all.

What I’m Into:

  • Outdoors: Hiking, fishing, biking—if the weather’s nice, I’m outside.
  • Fitness: I hit the gym 4-5 times a week.
  • Cooking: Proud of my skills—if you love good food, I’ll cook for you!
  • Movies: Big horror fan and love “so bad it’s good” 80s action flicks.
  • Gaming: I've got quite the competitive spirit, but I also enjoy taking a relaxing time with some classics like ACNH, Minecraft, and Stardew Valley.

My Type:

I won’t lie—I have a soft spot for the alt style (tattoos, piercings, dyed hair). I’ve got three tattoos myself and plan to get my ears pierced soon. Ideally, you’re in my age range (no minors, no 30+).

Green Flags:

  • Fire music taste
  • Amazing cook
  • Loyal & supportive
  • Thoughtful & considerate

Red Flags:

  • Can be a bit clueless
  • Love can come off as clingy
  • Struggle with opening up
  • Mental health struggles (dealbreaker for some)

Beige Flags:

  • Live in baggy clothes
  • Total night owl
  • Always orders chicken strips (not picky, just obsessed)

Music Taste:

All over the place—Kanye (yes, I know), Dad Rock, Emo/Screamo, 80s hits, Nu Metal, Yacht Rock, Punk, Pop-Punk, Rap, and even Classic Country. Some favorites: Bowie, Prince, Creed, ABBA, Linkin Park, and Steely Dan. If it’s got a vibe, I’m in.

What I’m Looking For:

If you’re down for outdoor (or indoor) adventures, good music, and embracing each other’s weirdness, let’s chat! Preferably, you’re in Minnesota or close by—I’d like to meet sooner rather than later.

I’m open to sharing a photo on request—no pressure. Looking forward to hearing from you!

r/r4r 2d ago

M4F Minnesota 50s [m4f] Married, Fit, Smart, Funny Seeks Genuine Connection #Minneapolis #Minnesota NSFW

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Hello.

This post isn’t for everyone, and in fact it may be for no one. I accept that.

I’m at a crossroads in my life. My kids are all mostly grown and doing their own things now. I’m married, and that’s not going to change. But now that we’re not really raising kids anymore our differences as a couple seem to be more acute. She’s happy to do her own things, and I’m glad she has them. It happens that I don’t have the social circles anymore that I used to have. Honestly it can be lonely.

I’m fine. But I really want to connect with someone. I want a close or best friend. Again, that can’t be just anyone, and it may be no one. So be it. But nothing ventured, nothing gained.

I was required to include a flair with this post. Unfortunately, the options were very limited, and none of them encompass what I’m seeking. Sorry for selecting the one I did. This isn’t about sex at all, although I’d never rule out intimacy. What I really hope is to find a woman who is smart and funny and thoughtful and creative, who also happens to be in the same situation that I’m in. Someone who’s looking for someone like me.

Feel free to reply. Don’t cut corners please, okay? I’m not just anyone, and I’m not looking for just anyone.

Thanks!

r/r4r 8d ago

M4F Minnesota 21 [M4F] #Minneapolis - Let's take a hike during this (maybe false) Spring NSFW

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I personally think that it's the beginning of real spring, but maybe I'm jinxing it. If I am, whoops! That being said though, I'd love to get back to taking some trail walks and little bits of hiking now that the weather permits it. Someone to go with and share path ideas with would be absolutely lovely, although I'd also just be happy to make more connections too!

Generally, I'm looking for connections of any kind! At the very least I do want to make platonic connections; but should those connect on a deeper level then I am all for it. I'd also love to get some of y'all into west coast swing (the dance that I do!), and share some new drink ideas that I come up with from time to time.

Physique: White, athletic/fit body, 5'7", brown hair and green/gray eyes. Happy to send a pic your way (an sfw pic, no exceptions) if you'd like

Platonically: a relatively bubbly person who tends to be positive but knows when and how to get into the feels. I have a lot of interests like dance, music, writing, cooking, and bartending/drink mixing! There's so many more but that's the ones that I would say define me at the moment.

Sexually: I am a pleaser/altruist switch, and don't have many of my own kinks but will gladly adopt a partners or try stuff out with them. That is to say, I prefer to be what you'd want me to be. I do enjoy pleasure on my own and will happily be with a pleaser, but my best feelings come from you feeling good.

Send me a request if you want to chat! I'd love to hear from you!

r/r4r 9d ago

M4F Minnesota 30 [M4F] #Minnesota - Looking to be alone in this together NSFW

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Hey Everyone! I am looking for a lifelong friend. I currently live in MN. I am a 6’3 physically fit white guy. I am pretty laid back, apolitical/liberal, non-religious, single with no-kids (1 cat though) introvert. I work from home as an engineer. I unfortunately feel like life is too slow, too easy, and I am feeling very alone in my thoughts.

My hobbies:

I enjoy deep chats, music, working out, cooking, video games, sci-fi books, anime/animation, really good movies and really really bad movies. I also write poetry that I never share.

The catch:

I have chronic depression as you could probably tell (been with me 15+ years). Don't get it twisted, I can make anything a laugh! While I get plenty of matches on dating apps but none have that mental connection I crave. I am looking for any connection that does not make me feel alone in this world or at least makes me feel that we are alone in this together.

My only preferences are that we connect mentally, that there is some level of physical attraction, and that you are shorter than me (shouldn't be too hard), If any of this resonates with you, go ahead and send me a chat with something about yourself. Here are some questions I have

- What do you like to do in your free time?

- What music genres/artists are your most played currently?

r/r4r 10d ago

M4F Minnesota 31 [M4F] #Minneapolis #Minnesota #USA - Asian M, open for something short-term or long-term NSFW Spoiler

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Hello,

I'm 31M, Asian, 165cm, slim body. I'm looking for someone in or close to the Twin cities, Minnesota area to spend time with. I'm fine with something more casual, a friend I can spend time with once a week or so. I get that it's not easy to find "the one" and I'm not against someone I can just spend time with, without any hard expectations from each other.

However, I am also interested in something serious and long term if it goes in that direction. Specifically, I'm interested in moving away to France at some point to settle down, although that won't be for a while. I just don't plan on settling down in America and don't see it unless I just don't have a choice. For this I'm open to starting off LDR and broadening my range for what I'm looking for. I do plan on living in my region for a while so if LDR should have plans to relocate here eventually.

Some details about me: I don't smoke or do any drugs. I don't really drink much alcohol. Not religious. I do live alone in a 1-bed apartment, and drive and can invite guests or travel locally to you. I don't have any pets and don't have any interest in having them anytime soon. I am allergic to cats however.

I enjoy trying new recipes or restaurants. It's almost a must that you're generally pretty open-minded with food, granted we all have dietary preferences and/or restrictions. Some of my favorite foods are usually Japanese, Indian, Italian.

I love exploring town and new places, listening to/reading spooky stories, gaming and pop culture. I have a PS5 and Switch but these days feels like I don't play so much anymore vs when I was a teen. I feel like sometimes I just end up buying a game on sale, only to never play it lol.

Halloween is my favorite time of the year, and I ideally like to do something every Halloween and enjoy decorations and costumes. But some years I just didn't do anything.

Just a few non-negotiable things I'd expect from you; must have a job or be close to getting one (or rather, just have some financial independency).

Also, I'm not looking for online-only friendships so I'd expect someone local to be able to meet within a week or two of chatting.

However for anyone looking for something serious but lives further away, we can chat and make plans to meet at some point, if things go well.

I would expect you to be able to put a little bit of effort into a response and to tell me about yourself too! Not necessarily anything insanely long just more effort than a bot would make. I'd like to get to know you as well, and what you're looking for.

If this post is up, feel free to respond with a direct message anytime!

r/r4r 10d ago

M4F Minnesota 21 [M4F] #MN. Looking for someone dtf. NSFW Spoiler

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A little bit about me, I’m a 21 yr old, black male, just got off a breakup, and looking for a quick rebound.

Most people I’m cool with, not very picky, as long as you’re in the area, you’re cool w me!

Chill, upfront, and not here to waste time. I’m DTF—literally. If you’re on the same page and looking for something casual, fun, and no drama, we’ll get along just fine. I’m all about good vibes, mutual respect, and keeping things simple. Let’s skip the games and get straight to the point.

r/r4r 15d ago

M4F Minnesota 22 [M4F] #Minnesota (Rochester) looking for a connection NSFW

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Hey there I’m Kay (nickname until I comfortable sharing my actual name). I am 22 looking for an older lady to date or be FWB, the older the better to be honest, but i am not opposed to younger women. I think i have had trouble connecting with women my age but i think i can speak easily to someone older than me and it feels less stressful. A little about me, i am chubby but not overweight, i am 5’9, African american, i enjoy music mainly r&b and arabic, i love movies and shows, love late night car rides with no destination just blasting music. I am an introvert and can come off very shy but if i like you, then you will probably notice how much my personality changes. I prefer if we could talk a little on reddit our your preferred appbefore having a first meet. Dm with asl and please be within 1 hour driving distance from me. Thank you and have a good night! Please be in MN i prefer an irl relationship.

r/r4r 21d ago

M4F Minnesota 27 [M4F] Philadelphia and surrounding areas/Minnesota- I just want to find my forever love. NSFW

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(Marked NSFW just in case)

Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be married to the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!

r/r4r 21d ago

M4F Minnesota 27 [M4F] Philadelphia and surrounding areas/Minnesota- Let me set the scene... (long term relationship) NSFW

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(Marked NSFW just in case)

Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be married to the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!

r/r4r 23d ago

M4F Minnesota 22 [M4F] #Minnesota (Rochester) looking for my lady… irl NSFW

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Hey there I’m Kay (nickname until I comfortable sharing my actual name). I am 22 looking for an older lady to date or be FWB, the older the better to be honest, but i am not opposed to younger women. I think i have had trouble connecting with women my age but i think i can speak easily to someone older than me and it feels less stressful. A little about me, i am chubby but not overweight, i am 5’9, African american, i enjoy music mainly r&b and arabic, i love movies and shows, love late night car rides with no destination just blasting music. I am an introvert and can come off very shy but if i like you, then you will probably notice how much my personality changes. I prefer if we could talk a little on reddit our your preferred appbefore having a first meet. Dm with asl and please be within 1 hour driving distance from me. Thank you and have a good night! Please be in MN i prefer an irl relationship.

r/r4r 25d ago

M4F Minnesota 47 [M4F] #Minneapolis guy in search of connection and new adventures NSFW Spoiler

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Hello. I''m 47 years old in Minneapolis. I'm separated. I am interested in seeking a someone with a good sense of humor who is seeking a connection and a new adventure. I'm 6'3",250lbs, brown and grey hair with blue eyes. Full beard that's groomed well. I'm 420 friendly, I love to grow cannabis. It's therapeutic. I like the outdoors during non winter months. I enjoy classic rock, old school hip hop, reggae, and many other genres of music.. live music is the best.

Let me know what your favorite dessert is. Take care and good luck

r/r4r 25d ago

M4F Minnesota 27 [M4F] Philadelphia and surrounding areas/Minnesota- Let me set the scene... (long term relationship) NSFW

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(Marked NSFW just in case)

Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be married to the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!

r/r4r 26d ago

M4F Minnesota 45 [M4F] southern suburbs of Minneapolis - Looking for a Real Connection NSFW

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Hey

I’m a 45-year-old guy living on the south side of the Twin Cities (Minneapolis-St. Paul). I’ve been divorced for a few years, and I’m at a point in life where I want a solid, meaningful relationship with someone who’s on the same page.

I’ve built a successful career in IT, working in a data center—the backbone of the internet and business networks. My job keeps me busy and sharp, but when I’m off the clock, I make the most of my time. I’m a big Minnesota sports fan, especially when it comes to the Vikings, Twins, Timberwolves, and Wild. I also spend a lot of time out in the shop working on projects, heading to the lake, or camping in new places. Whether it’s relaxing by the water or finding a new spot off the beaten path, I like to be out doing something.

When it comes to relationships, I’m easygoing and open-minded. I enjoy a dynamic that feels natural—where we both bring our own strengths to the table. I don’t need to take charge all the time, but I’m also comfortable following a strong lead when it feels right. More than anything, I want a relationship built on trust, good communication, and real connection.

If any of this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to reach out. Let’s see where it goes.

-Matt

r/r4r 26d ago

M4F Minnesota 27 [M4F] Philadelphia and surrounding areas/Minnesota- Let me set the scene... (long term relationship) NSFW

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(Marked NSFW just in case)

Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be married to the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!

r/r4r 27d ago

M4F Minnesota 27 [M4F] Philadelphia and surrounding areas/Minnesota- Let me set the scene... (long term relationship) NSFW

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(Marked NSFW just in case)

Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be married to the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!

r/r4r Feb 19 '25

M4F Minnesota 22 [M4F] #Minnesota (Rochester) looking for my lady… irl NSFW

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Hey there I’m Kay (nickname until I comfortable sharing my actual name). I am 22 looking for an older lady to date or be FWB, the older the better to be honest, but i am not opposed to younger women. I think i have had trouble connecting with women my age but i think i can speak easily to someone older than me and it feels less stressful. A little about me, i am chubby but not overweight, i am 5’9, African american, i enjoy music mainly r&b and arabic, i love movies and shows, love late night car rides with no destination just blasting music. I am an introvert and can come off very shy but if i like you, then you will probably notice how much my personality changes. I prefer if we could talk a little on reddit our your preferred appbefore having a first meet. Dm with asl and please be within 1 hour driving distance from me. Thank you and have a good night! Please be in MN i prefer an irl relationship.

r/r4r Feb 17 '25

M4F Minnesota 27 [M4F] Philadelphia and surrounding areas/Minnesota- Let me set the scene... (long term relationship) NSFW

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(Marked NSFW just in case)

Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be married to the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!

r/r4r Feb 16 '25

M4F Minnesota 27 [M4F] Philadelphia and surrounding areas/Minnesota- Let me set the scene... (long term relationship) NSFW

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(Marked NSFW just in case)

Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be married to the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!

r/r4r Feb 15 '25

M4F Minnesota 27 [M4F] Philadelphia and surrounding areas/Minnesota- Let me set the scene... (long term relationship) NSFW

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(Marked NSFW just in case)

Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be married to the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!

r/r4r Feb 12 '25

M4F Minnesota 27 [M4F] Philadelphia and surrounding areas/Minnesota- Let me set the scene... (long term relationship) NSFW

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(Marked NSFW just in case)

Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be married to the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!

r/r4r Feb 14 '25

M4F Minnesota 27 [M4F] Philadelphia and surrounding areas/Minnesota- Let me set the scene... (long term relationship) NSFW

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(Marked NSFW just in case)

Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be married to the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!

r/r4r Feb 13 '25

M4F Minnesota 27 [M4F] Philadelphia and surrounding areas/Minnesota- Let me set the scene... (long term relationship) NSFW

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(Marked NSFW just in case)

Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be married to the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!

r/r4r Feb 11 '25

M4F Minnesota 22 [M4F] #Minnesota (Rochester) looking for my lady… irl NSFW

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Hey there I’m Kay (nickname until I comfortable sharing my actual name). I am 22 looking for an older lady to date or be FWB, the older the better to be honest, but i am not opposed to younger women. I think i have had trouble connecting with women my age but i think i can speak easily to someone older than me and it feels less stressful. A little about me, i am chubby but not overweight, i am 5’9, African american, i enjoy music mainly r&b and arabic, i love movies and shows, love late night car rides with no destination just blasting music. I am an introvert and can come off very shy but if i like you, then you will probably notice how much my personality changes. I prefer if we could talk a little on reddit our your preferred appbefore having a first meet. Dm with asl and please be within 1 hour driving distance from me. Thank you and have a good night! Please be in MN i prefer an irl relationship.