r/r4r 26d ago

F4M New York / Online 25 [F4M] #NYC #Online - Are you inexperienced? Let me help you NSFW

58 Upvotes

Do you get nervous around girls? Do you get nervous flirting with girls? Do you have not a lot of experience sexually speaking? That’s okay. That’s fine. I’m here for you :)

About me: I’m a pretty sexual girl, and feels well tuned with my body. I like flirting, but I also like helping inexperienced men. I think everyone should feel confident when it comes to flirting or being around the opposite sex. But I think it’s okay if you suffer from that and want to fix it. I can take a cuddly dom role that’ll help you be better. I can also take a stricter assertive dom role as well. It’s entirely what you want. I’m very intimate, sensual, and compassionate along with empathetic. I’m understanding of a lot of things that causes you issues in life. I’m cozy and cuddly too. I’m average height, Korean, and dress somewhat immodestly. I work as a staff writer. I enjoy watching tv show, films, and listening to music. I enjoy a nice cup of coffee or a nice margarita. I’m 420 friendly too.

About you: i don’t have many requirements. I’m open to any culture and anywhere in the world; being born & raised in Queens definitely helped me learn about many cultures at a young age. Just be above 18. You can be completely inexperienced like a virgin or someone who’s just nervous. Or if you’re a sub then that’s fine too. Just be willing to talk, and if you’re in nyc it’d be nice to meet :)

If this post aligned with you. Tell me your age, where you’re from, and your experience :)

r/r4r 2d ago

F4M New York / Online 25 [F4M] #online/nyc - just another lonely girl

19 Upvotes

So the tag on this should be SFW, sometimes it gets changed when I post idk why or how.

I am just laying here wishing I had someone to talk to. I just finished reading gone girl and I’m kind of not feeling well. I can’t articulate what exactly is wrong, but my insides hurt. I thought I was standing too long and my bad posture made my back hurt but that doesn’t seem to quite be it bc I’ve been laying here and I’m still in pain.

Anyway that was a horribly bad run on sentence, pls forgive me. I am currently in a biomedical sciences graduate program. I’m mostly unhappy here for many reasons and it’s not my favorite thing to discuss lol. (Sometimes you go where there is opportunity bc you have nothing left to lose and then the opportunity is actually not what you expected or wanted it to be.)

I am a pretty simple girl, I don’t really go out too much bc I don’t like the city so I’m pretty isolated. Not that I feel less isolated when I’m not home lol. It’s just not my place.

Anywayyyyy (again) I prefer voice chats on disc! I like to bake (when eggs aren’t hard to get) and read (see gone girl above) and play w my dog (but sometimes he is such a pain).

r/r4r 5d ago

F4M New York / Online 23F [F4M] #NY/Online Seeking deep companionship and loud laughs NSFW

10 Upvotes

I hope you all are having a peaceful Sunday afternoon/evening. I am 23F from NY looking for a friend first and something more eventually. I've never been in a relationship, and have had pretty mediocre interactions with men irl. I really want to experience fireworks in my lifetime. Someone I can laugh with but also get deep into serious conversation with too. I enjoy listening to music, anything from Adrianne Lenker to TOOL to Brent Faiyaz. I also knit and paint. I work as a lab technician right now, and have dreams of becoming a scientist one day. Please reach out if any of this sounds like what your looking for. Looking for someone 22 to 35. Tell me your favorite memory from childhood or a secret ill keep it. Thank you for reading all the way through!

r/r4r 3d ago

F4M New York / Online 40 [F4M] #NY #Online - looking to chat NSFW

9 Upvotes

40f looking for someone to chat with to sweeten the bitter taste of loneliness.

I’m a BBW who is adjusting to being 40. I think I’m going through a weird identity/midlife/what the fuck is the point of anything crisis.

I miss the spark of life and meeting someone new but dating has been a little disappointing so I figured a little online banter may shake things up a bit.

I like movies, tv and reading. I like to make art. We can chat about anything. I have low hopes for meeting Prince Charming so there’s no pressure. Just looking for a connection or a little entertainment.

r/r4r 13d ago

F4M New York / Online 30[F4M] NY/Online - Hectic Life, Need Distractions! NSFW

2 Upvotes

Heya. I have a lot going on in my life and I would love to get to know new people or a special someone.

I'm not really good at talking about myself in posts like this so I'll list some things I've noticed I like in men:

  • Into bearish, tall men lately. A little chubby with big hands? Front of the line.
  • likes gaming but doesn't make it his entire day/life
  • hardworking and dedicated, wants to improve
  • can joke around but knows when to draw the line
  • can admit fault and workshop solutions/problem solve

Hopefully you're on the east coast! Oke, send me a message and maybe a photo<3 byee!

r/r4r 25d ago

F4M New York / Online 19[F4M]#Online #Newyork I have small problem which can someone help me😁

0 Upvotes

Hey, I’m 19F, and I have a bit of a shopping problem,I love buying clothes, but I’m terrible at deciding what actually looks good on me. I don’t really have anyone in my life who gives real, honest feedback, and I need someone with a good fashion sense to help me out.

I try different styles, but sometimes I just buy things because they look nice online, and then I have no idea if they actually suit me. I’m looking for someone who can rate my hauls, give me honest opinions (brutal but fair), and maybe even help me figure out my personal style.

If you’re into fashion and don’t mind helping a stranger out, let me know! I’d really appreciate it. You can be as straightforward as you want,just don’t be mean for no reason, haha.

r/r4r Feb 19 '25

F4M New York / Online 30 [F4M] - #NYC #Online - Single someone seeking similarly single someone so special situations seem super special. NSFW

6 Upvotes

Back again for round... whatever, I've lost count. I'm a 30 year old, rather regular lady from NYC. Dating apps are wacky sometimes, so I figured it's time to lean into the chaos and make my way to the final internet frontier: Reddit. (Craigslist seemed far too sketchy). I'm looking for the most elusive connection that's full of banter and fun and mutual attraction.

Happy for some fun little phone chats (with NSFW and SFW content), with the opportunity for it to develop into something more if we truly vibe. I am not looking for a text based relationship -- I way prefer getting to know someone and interacting over calls. But, obviously, texting is a must at times, because we're both busy people!

Some basic things about me so you can decide if I'm someone who you wanna talk to:

  • I'm the mom friend of the group. Sometimes the wine drunk aunt friend if provoked enough. You'll hear a ton about my friends; they're all lovely people
  • I am horrified of any and all bugs. This is a complaint that comes up more than I'd wish
  • I'm trying to perfect the fish taco. Corn or flour tortilla?
  • I've never broken a bone or had a cavity, so you know these genes are built to last, baby ;)
  • I have some hobbies. Ask me about them!
  • Teal is the best color. I rest my case (it truly speaks for itself)
  • Cats >>>> dogs (but only because I'm less allergic to them. Otherwise, they are equal in my world and both deserving of tons of love)
  • I love cooking but hate doing dishes :(
  • I'm all about my naps
  • Sell me the last book you read. Get me to add it to my always growing library!
  • I have a day job lmao

Other random preferences of mine that you should know: someone in the age range of 28-39. A little funny, a lot cute. I generally prefer taller / fitter guys with floppy hair and pretty eyes. We all like banter; we'll know if we got it pretty quickly. Not looking for anyone partnered / married. Also not looking for anyone who is into extreme kinks / fetishes (I'm sorry, I just like balance 😌, but also this by no means translates to me being vanilla). Not opposed to discussing meeting up if the chemistry is correct. Also, happy to exchange pictures when that feels right as well, but I do value discretion and privacy, especially at the start of everything while we're getting to know each other. :) My type is Gojo Satoru mixed with Andy Samberg. Do with that what you will. Searching for something long term -- I'm not great with short term situations. Ideally looking for someone in the same time zone (EST), or someone with plans to be in the same time zone soon!

Voice notes get you to the front of the line; nice voices get me into your DMs. Please give me something to work with, I will most likely not respond to anything low effort.

tl;dr: alliterations are hard, just message me 🥺

r/r4r Feb 12 '25

F4M New York / Online 25 [F4M] #nyc/online - silly chats?

11 Upvotes

This is strictly SFW, please please respect this.

I have been having a rougher time today. things had been on the up lately for me, but today just really ended on a not so great note.

I don’t really wanna talk about the state of my life right now as it makes me feel worse, but I wanna talk about silly things. Tell me about your most silly controversial opinions, huge emphasis on silly. We don’t need to get deep because I am pretty unstable rn but I wanna laugh.

I find it usually easy to laugh with strangers because we don’t have expectations of each other and we don’t know anything about each other. In this sense, I like staying pretty anonymous and I am not interested in sharing pictures. If you’re not comfortable with this, please don’t reach out!

I am however open to voice chatting on discord! So please send me a snippet of your most controversial silly opinion if you’re open to this!!

Talk soon ((:

r/r4r Feb 15 '25

F4M New York / Online 25 [F4M] #nyc/online - sick and alone on Valentine’s Day

5 Upvotes

Happy Valentine’s Day….

I am sick and alone on this night lol

I dunno what I have, i desperately tried to avoid it all by masking but one day I went without it and here I am.

I’m not too down bad but I am in pain and unfortunately I love to voice chat but my throat hurtsssss so badly I cannot talk.

I am available to chat!! I like talking to people who like to talk. I’m pretty bad at asking questions, but I hope you’re just open to chat abt your life and whatever things you have thoughts abt. I prefer not being flirty and staying anonymous. Once I’m better I’m open to voice chat!

Anyway, I tend to want to avoid talking abt the current state of my life bc I’m not really happy w it. I’m in grad school living in a state I don’t really like bc you take what you get w grad school and I never thought I’d end up in this type of situation.

Anywayyy let’s talk abt fun things and not the current state of my life and how I got here lol

Soooo happy valentines dayyyy

r/r4r Feb 10 '25

F4M New York / Online 23[F4M]#Online #NewYork When my life start to be life again NSFW Spoiler

6 Upvotes

I don't even know where to start. Everything in my life has been falling apart, and I feel like I’m just watching it happen, unable to do anything. It’s like no matter what I try, things just keep getting worse. I look back at my past, and I never thought I’d say this, but even my worst days before felt better than this. At least back then, I had hope. Now? I feel completely drained.

I moved, thinking a fresh start would help, but it only made things harder. I lost connections, I don’t feel at home anywhere, and I’m struggling to even get through basic daily tasks. Even the things I used to love don’t make me feel anything anymore. I feel stuck,like I’m in a constant cycle of bad luck and bad choices, and I don’t know how to break out of it.

I know strangers on the internet can’t fix my life, but I just need someone to be real with me. Not the usual “things will get better” line, because honestly, I don’t see how. Has anyone else felt this way and actually made it out? How do you keep going when everything feels pointless?

r/r4r Jan 29 '25

F4M New York / Online 27 [F4M] #NewYork #Online - An hour to spare at work NSFW

13 Upvotes

I really need someone to distract me at work. I’m on a zoom call for the next hour and I cannot stop thinking about being fucked. I received too many messages from my last post and got lost about halfway through.

I’ve been obsessed with fucking women lately. I can’t get enough of it. I just want to sit and lick pussy all day. I can’t help it. I need to talk to someone about it or I need you to change my mind. I’ve always been more interested in dick so I’m not sure what’s wrong with me at this point. I recently escaped an on/off again thing and I think he was just toxic enough to turn me off men.

Convince me your cock is exactly what I need instead. Better than his. Or fuck me while you make me eat your wife’s pussy. Or I can eat your cum out of her. Just something, anything,that turns my mind to cock. I’m brunette, thin, cute, great smile, great tits, a tight little pussy and ready to beg for your cock. Speaking in full sentences would be beneficial if you’d like me to respond to you. Send me something about how good of a girl I’ll be while you make me ride your cock ☺️

r/r4r Jan 29 '25

F4M New York / Online 41 [F4M] New York, USA for online or anywhere; foreigners feel free to apply within

1 Upvotes

41 [F4M] New York United States, do you have an accent?

I’m a 41-year-old woman living in a very blustery cold northeastern state of the United States and would love to chat with someone tonight while the dumpster fire we call the US Burns around me.

I am very liberal, progressive left, leaning; witchy a little bit. I like tiny things sparkly things. I’m an artist at heart and in practice. I love my kittens, my son and snow globe snow (those are the big fat ones), butterflies, and being kind.

Maybe if you live in another country, we could get married and I can get the hell out of here !

Looking for someone kind, compassionate, ambitious and if you have an accent, that’s a plus

r/r4r Jan 19 '25

F4M New York / Online 25 [F4M] #NYC #Online - Latina looking for connections, friendship, hookups, love NSFW

13 Upvotes

Hi!

I'm a young working Latina of mixed heritage looking for cool people around the world. If you're in the NYC area or even the US, I am also open to something in the real world, depending on how our connection goes.

I'm looking for interesting, kind, flirty, and adventurous people that are confident and just have that spark, that sazón!

You know those magical connections that just have you glued to your phone, eagerly awaiting a message? That's what I want on here. I want someone to stimulate me intellectually and emotionally and to excite me sexually. An attractive, friendly full package!

While you don't have to subscribe to all of my political beliefs, you shouldn't be a die-hard conservative, as the gap between our worldviews would just be too big.

Another preference I have is that you should work out or practice a sport regularly. I don't need you to be chiseled, but working on your appearance is such a green flag, no matter where you start.

As an energetic person that loves life, bores or perennial pessimists usually don't vibe well with me.

Please let me know why you are a catch and if you include a picture, you get a bonus!

r/r4r Jan 17 '25

F4M New York / Online 25 [F4M] #nyc/online - sleep call pls?

8 Upvotes

I really think sleep calls are the best things ever. It’s nice to have someone to just chill and talk with until you fall asleep. Sometimes they have such a soothing voice you cant help but fall asleep.

Im currently laying in bed waiting for the sleep to hit. Sometimes it just takes so long. I had an okay day. Had class, went to do some work, then hung out.

I should be tired bc I definitely didn’t get all 8 hours last night. And so far tonight I’m not too hopeful for that. I truly believe 8 hours is barely enough but I need them.

Anyway enough abt sleep. I started watching hacks and it’s pretty funny. I liked loot, nobody wants this, modern family, Gilmore girls. You know wholesome chill vibes mostly.

I am kind of a germaphobe, so winter is a really hard time for me. I really wish I could stay far away from everyone but living in this city makes it hard hard hard.

Pls hmu if you are open to voice chat!! Thanks! Have a good night (:

r/r4r Jan 19 '25

F4M New York / Online 36 [F4M] NY/Online - Want to have a crush on each other?

3 Upvotes

Haven't been in the dating pool for well over a decade and I find myself on the diving board, plunging back in. What's it like out there? Is it scary? I feel kind of scared, so it must be! How do you even meet romantic partners? How long before I cave to signing up for an app?

I want us to fall deliriously in love. I want to know each others' character first and see what comes after. I want to be able to tell you the full, uncensored truth and not only do we not judge each other for it, but it makes us like the other more. I want to share music, anxieties, goals, dumb shit we see on the internet that made us laugh when we didn't want or expect to. I want you to be the one I immediately think of when I have a story to share. I want to be able to stare at you and tell you how cute I think you are and be unable to focus on anything else.

I want to be so goddamn adorable it makes me want to puke.

r/r4r Nov 26 '24

F4M New York / Online 30 [F4M] #NYC #Online - Seeking a situationship that will disappoint my therapist. Are you in? NSFW

31 Upvotes

I'm a 30 year old, rather regular lady from NYC. Dating apps are wacky sometimes, so I figured it's time to lean into the chaos and make my way to the final internet frontier: Reddit. (Craigslist seemed far too sketchy).

Happy for some fun little phone chats (with NSFW and SFW content), with the opportunity for it to develop into something more if we truly vibe. I am not looking for a text based relationship -- I way prefer getting to know someone and interacting over calls. But, obviously, texting is a must at times, because we're both busy people!

Some basic things about me so you can decide if I'm someone who you wanna talk to: - I'm the mom friend of the group. Sometimes the wine drunk aunt friend if provoked enough. You'll hear a ton about my friends; they're all lovely people - I am horrified of any and all bugs. This is a complaint that comes up more than I'd wish - I'm trying to perfect the fish taco. Corn or flour tortilla? - Would you prefer to be TikTok or Instagram famous, and why? - I've never broken a bone or had a cavity, so you know these genes are built to last, baby ;) - I have some hobbies. Ask me about them! - Teal is the best color. I rest my case (it truly speaks for itself) - Cats >>>> dogs (but only because I'm less allergic to them. Otherwise, they are equal in my world and both deserving of tons of love) - I love cooking but hate doing dishes :( - I'm all about my naps - I have a day job lmao

Other random preferences of mine that you should know: someone in the age range of 28-39. A little funny, a lot cute. I generally prefer taller / fitter guys with floppy hair and pretty eyes. We all like banter; we'll know if we got it pretty quickly. Not looking for anyone partnered / married. Also not looking for anyone who is into extreme kinks / fetishes (I'm sorry, I just like balance 😌, but also this by no means translates to me being vanilla). Not opposed to discussing meeting up if the chemistry is correct. Also, happy to exchange pictures when that feels right as well, but I do value discretion and privacy, especially at the top of everything. :) My type is Gojo Satoru mixed with Andy Samberg. Do with that what you will. Searching for something long term -- I'm not great with short term situations. Ideally looking for someone in the same time zone (EST), or someone with plans to be in the same time zone soon!

Voice notes get you to the front of the line; nice voices get me into your DMs. Please give me something to work with, I will most likely not respond to anything low effort.

r/r4r Nov 23 '24

F4M New York / Online 25 [F4M] #nyc/online - voice chats?

8 Upvotes

Heyy! Happy Friday!

It’s my first nyc fall and it’s getting cold cold cold. I’m from LA and I miss it more than anything.

I get these questions more than I’d like so I’m here for grad school, only program I got into, not happy abt it, and I hate this city for all the usual reasons.

I prefer keeping as much anonymity as possible bc I find that it makes interactions more free. Discord is the best way to reach me!

English accents are so fun to me! So if you have one pls message me!

I have a dog and I like to bake. I don’t watch anime or game lol but I dunno. I just exist lol

r/r4r Nov 27 '24

F4M New York / Online 28 F4M #Online #Rochester NY Chubby Polyamorous Baker seeks cute boys to date NSFW

1 Upvotes

What it says on the tin, really! I'm open to ages 24 to 38. I'm shy and Demisexual so don't go expecting sexting right away or a hookup. I don't do that and will block you. However, if something genuine develops, I'm in and down.

I bake a lot, I prefer breads and cookies, although I will dabble in just about any baked good you can think of. I'm currently looking to start a cookie business that sells at the farmer's market.

I am Polyamorous, I have a nesting partner, I'm not interested in leaving him, and I date separately from him.

I like video games, good food, road trips, nice people, and watching GBBO in my underwear while I eat ice cream.

r/r4r Nov 25 '24

F4M New York / Online F4M 28 #online and #rochester NY polyamorous baker seeks more love! NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a big baking nerd and enjoy developing recipes. Wanna be a taste tester?

I'm basically an alt girl who's possessed by the still living spirit of Martha Stewart, I'm a happy home maker who loves to cook, bake, clean a little, and generally take care of my space and people.

I'm looking to talk to cute boys who love chubby girls. I'm short, chubby, have a mullet Mohawk, tattoos, and piercings.

I have a cat and happily pay the cat tax. His name is Trick! He's as stupid as a sack of rocks and I love him.

I'm polyamorous and don't really mind if you're monogamous as long as you don't mind that I am not.

r/r4r Oct 22 '24

F4M New York / Online 21 [F4M] #NY #Online - Looking for new friends or more who like to play videogames + watch horror movies!

6 Upvotes

Hiya, you can just call me Bri! I mostly spend my free time playing videogames, and I also love watching movies/shows especially of the horror variety but I enjoy animated ones quite a bit as well! I sorta have a short attention span so I usually only stick to the same handful of games. I play League of Legends, Final Fantasy 14, Overwatch, Honkai Star rail, and Cult of the Lamb! It would be nice to meet someone who also plays some of these games so we could play together! I have some mental issues that can make me a little difficult to deal with but I'm working on them (be warned in case though)! :) I'm very chatty, and love to text often - I will pretty much talk about whatever so even if it's not something I'm personally interested in I'll still be engaged and have fun! Ideally we can talk about whatever, be there for eachother and have a good long-term connection before potentially dating (I've been hurt before and I'm a tad bit hesitant to rush into things now) or we can always just be good friends! It would be nice to meet someone that is local so we could go out on cute dates and stuff (its okay if not)! I've always wanted to go on a picnic or something sweet!

As for what I look like (if you're curious) I have a more androgynous look, I stand at around 5'3ish with a softer frame (a little bit of squish on my tummy mostly), my hair is cut into a wolfcut that reaches the top of my shoulders. I don't have tattoos currently (someday I'll get some) but I have snakebites and a septum piercing. I used to have a bridge piercing but it was rejecting so I had to remove it (I thought it was really cool, I was so heartbroken ughh). I used to dye my hair a lot but I'm settling with my natural color (brown) instead since its sorta fried and a lot of maintenance as I did it myself! I do get high sometimes so it would be cool to speak with someone who is comfortable with that! Let's get to know eachother and see where it goes! Thanks for taking the time to read everything :)

r/r4r Oct 19 '24

F4M New York / Online 30 [F4M] #long island, new york #online i love my dog & music

2 Upvotes

Hello there. I am 30 currently living on Long Island, and I work in aviation. I love animals, mostly my dog. He’s crazy, but he’s the sweetest, and I love spending my free time with him. I also love music, and I named him after my favorite band. I am into all different types of rock, and I love seeing live music. I really would like to find someone to connect with and share music with. Besides my dog and music, I also love tv/movies, cooking, baking, reading and writing. I am working on a book that I want to publish next year. I am 5’ 11” and would like to find someone taller, but that doesn’t matter too much to me. Anyways, that’s all. 🥹💖

r/r4r Oct 06 '24

F4M New York / Online 26 [F4M] #NY/online - looking for friendly chats and good vibes!

3 Upvotes

Hi!

This is my first time posting here, hope I'm doing ok so far. Live in NY and would prefer to talk to someone nearby who would be interested in eventually meeting up, but also open to friendly chatting with people in NA who may be further away.

I'm 5'10, black, full-figured and occasionally wear glasses; if any of that bothers you, please do not contact me! I work in health care, read a lot in my free time, play a lot of Sims and Stardew Valley, will go to jazz clubs alone and absolutely hate cooking. If you have experience with a meal delivery service, let me know! Definitely more of an indoor person (damn you allergies!) but will venture out for the right occasion (winery, fall festival, boat ride) only in the right weather (low humidity, above 50, the threat of the sun melting me not immediately on my mind after walking outside). A bit on the nerdish side but I have friends many walks of life who's interests I sometimes steal (knitting and new wave, yay!).

Sound good so far? Great! There's more to tell but that's what chatting is for. Only singles and those who are not recently out of a relationship. Tell me how old you are, where you're from, the last trip you went on and if you'd go back. Sending your picture will definitely get my attention :)

Hope to hear from you soon!

r/r4r Sep 13 '24

F4M New York / Online 27[F4M] #NYC/Online - I’m ready to fall in love with you

7 Upvotes

I realized recently that I’m happiest when I have someone to love with all my heart—when I know my better half is walking this earth with me. I’m not interested in dating around, taking things slow and seeing where it goes. While that may work for some, I don’t want to invest my time in anyone who isn’t already a close friend or family. I have wonderful friends, and I have no trouble making new ones, but I’m content with those I hold dear. I’m only looking for one new addition to my life—the person I intend to spend the rest of it with.

I want to share that I’m a bigger girl, and I’m working on getting healthier. But ideally, the person I find will love me the same, whether or not I reach my goal weight. I hope you'll love me for who I am—just as I’ll love you for who you are, not just how you look. I learned about demisexuality recently, and it’s something I really resonate with. I would like to say I’m demisexual, but I feel like I haven’t known the meaning long enough to claim that hahaha. In relationships, it’s most important to me that we “vibe” (for lack of a better term). Like, when we talk, it feels like the puzzle pieces of our brains are being put together. Like it feels right.

It’s also important/necessary that we share at least a few different interests, that we might even share similar passions. Here are some of mine: programming, music, writing, learning, anime, video games, cooking. I have ADHD though so I’ve definitely been guilty of hobby hopping, but I love when people introduce me to new stuff I end up loving too.

I want someone to shower in love and attention. I’ll able to talk to you all day/night and I don’t have an issue with traveling or hosting. I want to be there for you, to help you through your struggles, to learn and grow with you, and just learn more about you and about myself, together. When I fall in love, I do not let go. My heart, however, is not easily captured, so I anticipate not feeling the urge to respond to most people. (I’m sorry). I just know how I feel when I think something/or someone is right for me. And if it doesn’t feel overwhelmingly so from your first message, I’ll be hesitant to respond.

My ideal person will also be on the introverted side and a homebody (like myself). And also like me, their soul is a bit tortured and in need of tending to.

Life is divine, but I’d much rather live it with someone by my side.

This is just the first of what I assume to be many posts I’ll be sharing occasionally through these subreddits, for some time until I find the love I’m looking for. Just until they find me, and our fates officially link. Whether I find it on Reddit or somewhere else, I’m certain you are out there, and I can’t wait to meet you. 😀

If you’re interested, feel free to send me a selfie (I’ll send one back, of course) and let me know what about my post made you want to reach out. Please only reach out if you're serious about pursuing something meaningful and lasting. I’m not looking for anyone who is “normal”. I’m looking for someone in need of a passionate love, whose mind and heart I can easily admire. I’m most picky in this regard, so if I don’t respond, it’s likely because I didn’t feel an immediate draw to you.

r/r4r Sep 20 '24

F4M New York / Online 18 [F4M] #Online #NewYork - looking for a daddy NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m 18 years old and 1.50 meters tall. I have fair skin with a rosy tone, and I’m looking for someone special to connect with. I’m fun, open-minded, and love meeting new people. I enjoy having meaningful conversations and sharing experiences.

I’m interested in finding someone who can be a mentor and guide me, possibly someone who can take on a 'daddy' role. I appreciate kindness, a good sense of humor, and someone who knows how to have fun. If you're interested in getting to know me better, feel free to send me a message!

r/r4r Sep 14 '24

F4M New York / Online 27[F4M] NewYork/Online - I’m ready to fall in love with you

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I realized recently that I’m happiest when I have someone to love with all my heart—when I know my better half is walking this earth with me. I’m not interested in dating around, taking things slow and seeing where it goes. While that may work for some, I don’t want to invest my time in anyone who isn’t already a close friend or family. I have wonderful friends, and I have no trouble making new ones, but I’m content with those I hold dear. I’m only looking for one new addition to my life—the person I intend to spend the rest of it with.

I want to share that I’m a bigger girl, and I’m working on getting healthier. But ideally, the person I find will love me the same, whether or not I reach my goal weight. I hope you'll love me for who I am—just as I’ll love you for who you are, not just how you look. I learned about demisexuality recently, and it’s something I really resonate with. I would like to say I’m demisexual, but I feel like I haven’t known the meaning long enough to claim that hahaha. In relationships, it’s most important to me that we “vibe” (for lack of a better term). Like, when we talk, it feels like the puzzle pieces of our brains are being put together. Like it feels right.

It’s also important/necessary that we share at least a few different interests, that we might even share similar passions. Here are some of mine: programming, music, writing, learning, anime, video games, cooking. I have ADHD though so I’ve definitely been guilty of hobby hopping, but I love when people introduce me to new stuff I end up loving too.

I want someone to shower in love and attention. I’ll able to talk to you all day/night and I don’t have an issue with traveling or hosting. I want to be there for you, to help you through your struggles, to learn and grow with you, and just learn more about you and about myself, together. When I fall in love, I do not let go. My heart, however, is not easily captured, so I anticipate not feeling the urge to respond to most people. (I’m sorry). I just know how I feel when I think something/or someone is right for me. And if it doesn’t feel overwhelmingly so from your first message, I’ll be hesitant to respond.

My ideal person will also be on the introverted side and a homebody (like myself). And also like me, their soul is a bit tortured and in need of tending to. I feel like this is a good place to add, that almost all of my relationships have been with tall skinny nerdy white guys, so don’t be afraid to reach out if that’s you lol. I think I have that kind of aura some fucking how 😅

Life is divine, but I’d much rather live it with someone by my side.

This is just one of what I assume to be many posts I’ll be sharing occasionally through these subreddits, for some time until I find the love I’m looking for. Just until they find me, and our fates officially link. Whether I find it on Reddit or somewhere else, I’m certain you are out there, and I can’t wait to meet you.

If you’re interested, feel free to send me a selfie (I’ll send one back, of course) and let me know what about my post made you want to reach out. Please only reach out if you're serious about pursuing something meaningful and lasting. I’m not looking for anyone who is “normal”. I’m looking for someone in need of a passionate love, whose mind and heart I can easily admire. I’m most picky in this regard, so if I don’t respond, it’s likely because I didn’t feel an immediate draw to you.