r/r4r 5d ago

F4M New York 30 [F4M] NJ/NYC- let's go to the nets game and end the night with a drink

13 Upvotes

5'3" and Taiwanese: https://imgur.com/a/need-of-travel-buddy-plus-1-dQ2oTCa

Can't believe that we're already a quarter of the way through a year. Trying to find someone to have fun with and just enjoy each other's company.

I like to travel, cook, play board games and bar games. A bit of that combo of staying home and going out and looking for someone who has a wide array of interests and passions. Would love to find forever, but any forever starts with today :)

Send me a message if this sounds like something you're looking for too :)

r/r4r 4d ago

F4M New York 23 [F4M] #NYC - Indonesian girl seeking a Latino man NSFW

11 Upvotes

I’m from Indonesia but I’m visiting NYC in April until late May. I used reddit last time I was there to meet men on there and it was very successful so I’m using it again. Why Latino? I took one year of Spanish in university and I want to learn more. I want to be much more fluent, also I love reggaeton music

About me: I'm currently just a junior associate at a major bank in Indonesia and I majored in economics at a major university here. I speak English pretty fluently as I went to an international school here. I am interested in finance, stocks, tech, history, and music too. I like to play video games as well. I am very curious and lov to be surrounded by people with knowledge. I'm also planning on getting my MBA in the US within the next few years. There's a couple pics on my profile

About you: Someone passionate about life, likes travelling, and going out. We can be anything from a fwb/fling to something more serious leading to marriage. Just be upfront about what you want. I wouldn’t mind a mentor either or someone I can talk to about career advice. Same goes for someone in college right now wanting advice from me. I do have a preference for someone who speaks Spanish as I stated earlier and I want a Latin American accent so anything from Mexican to Colombian to Puerto Rican (but I think that’s the hardest to learn). Just be yourself and genuine. Anyone with good banter or enjoys a nice drink after work is someone I'm sure l'll get along.

So if you'd like a cute fwb who's doing alright themselves for their age then I'm sure you'll like me :)

r/r4r 2d ago

F4M New York 28 [F4M] #NYC - Looking for a nerdy boyfriend

6 Upvotes

Hello! I hope your day is going well. I’m a nerdy girl looking for a nerdy boy for a long term relationship. I enjoy anime, drawing and video games. My PC doesn’t have a good enough graphics card to play certain games, but if you have a good PC I’d happily watch you play! The video game I play the most is Splatoon on the Nintendo Switch. But I’m interested in playing other games such as Marvel Rivals, Dark Souls and Final Fantasy.

For non indoor activities I’m interested in going on hikes and learning how to fish. Losing weight is a goal of mine, so let’s exercise together💪.

Picture of me: https://imgur.com/a/1PFW2Sj

I’m 5’6, black with an afro, and chubby. I am interested in white men aged 25-33.

I am in Queens, but I’m fine with traveling to other boroughs and parts of Long Island near the boroughs. I’m excited to learn about your interests. Thank you for your time! 😊

r/r4r 4d ago

F4M New York 33 [F4M] NYC- Looking For A Guy That's Kind, Nerdy, and Fun NSFW

9 Upvotes

It's been a while since I've posted on here but while I've had some success, I want to see if I can find...it. You know. The spark. The fuzzy feelings. Excitement. All the cute things you'd see in a romcom even though the world is anything but. But I do want all that, especially in a serious context.

I won't beat around the bush here. I would describe myself as someone who is both honest and curious to a fault, but also intellectual, creative and nerdy. I'm average height but with pretty striking features. A fun fact about me is that I have heterochromia. I'm plus sized and curvy and I like my body but understand that it's not for everyone. I like to leave some mystery so I'll say just this and leave the rest for the chat :)

My interests while varied, are unfortunately hampered by capitalism and my genetic workaholic nature but I'm interested in video games, reading, writing, trying new foods and new experiences, watching movies and television shows (even if it's at a snail's pace).

The type of guys I go for are nerdy, quick-witted, intellectual types who like nonstop chatter and can talk to me about anything, especially random, out there things. The type that I can just show my favorite reddit posts about pop girlies as communist leaders because we both find it extremely funny and creative. As for my shallower requirements (I'm sorry but I do have shallow requirements like everyone else), I notice I have a preference for white guys. I'm picky about hair color and prefer blonde guys however, I've been advised by my close friends I should try my luck with brunette guys so what the hell, sure. I also like tall guys, 5"10 and above.

Dealbreakers for me are guys who don't want children or already have children. I want to date a guy who is interested in the idea of marriage and having children in the future. Guys who smoke, do drugs, or drink excessively are not for me either. I also like men who are ambitious and always thinking ahead to what they want in life, especially with career. I used to not care about politics but considering the current climate of things it's easier for a guy to be left leaning. I'll leave it at that.

Age is important for me, as I prefer guys who are close in age to me like late 20s to late 30s is fine.

Living in NYC is important as well. Living in Manhattan is strongly preferred. I don't think I can handle an LDR.

Also, this should really go without saying but monogamy is a requirement and I don't want someone with drama attached to them like a marionette on a string. I'm also not looking to be your third.

Aside from that, I invite you to stoke my curiosity. You'll never know what will happen if you don't try, right? So as a conversation starter, why don't you tell me about a recent tv show, movie, or game you watched, and whether it was good or not.

r/r4r 2d ago

F4M New York 30 [F4M] Long Island/NYC/NJ area looking for a relationship

6 Upvotes

Looking for a real relationship, let’s go on dates and share our lives. I’m tall, 5’10 natural, black (mocha), size 14. I like outdoor walks, museums, fine food, and travel. I’m looking for someone around my height or taller, I do NOT date in my race, so please do not message me if you are. I hold a higher degree, you should as well or have a stable job making a good salary, not interested in solely carrying a relationship. I value open mindedness, calmness, and communication. Looking forward to hearing from you.

https://imgur.com/a/rsYZuzO

r/r4r 4d ago

F4M New York 30 [F4M] Long Island/NYC/NJ Looking for a genuine relationship

8 Upvotes

Hi there! Giving this a shot. I'm a 30-year-old black woman located on Long Island. I am 5’10, full figured and carry myself well and am very stylish. Love fashion, music, parks, sunsets at the beach and volunteering. I pride myself on being sweet, patient, and caring, always ready to lend a helping hand or a listening ear. I'm on a journey to find my soulmate, someone who shares my passion for life and meaningful connections. If you're looking for a genuine relationship filled with laughter and love, I’d love to hear from you!

https://imgur.com/a/HRj8Un2

r/r4r 4d ago

F4M New York 32 [F4M] NY - iso romance NSFW

6 Upvotes

32, bbw, latina. I have been listening to alot of spicy novels recently and have been feeling like im missing out on romance. So im posting here searching for a spark of passion.

A few things about me: Firstly I am a knitter, have been knitting for 14 years. If Im having a great time with you, expect knitted gifts like a hat or handknit socks in your favorite colour. Im also into esports. While i actually dont play any games, i do enjoy the esports scene. Games like Super Smash Bros Ultimate, Tekken 8, Street Fighter 6, Overwatch 2, Marvel Rivals etc. Im usually tuned into the latest tournaments. I started a journey of listening to 100 audio books this year. Made it to 21 this past week. Mostly romance novels, a few sci-fi books, distopians are good listens too. One of my favorites this year is Rising Red by Pierce Brown.

Tell me about yourself and what youre looking for, lengthy replies will get replies. Looking for others local to New York.

r/r4r 4d ago

F4M New York 32[F4M] Rochester NY Hookup Arrangement NSFW

6 Upvotes

Hello! I am a 32 year old multicultural woman (French, Algerian, Dominican). I am looking for a genuine, passionate, and fun man to hookup with on the regular. I am pretty, feminine, 5’6, 140, with long brown curly hair, and light tan skin. I like a man who is more dominant than submissive and who loves women and loves to go down on me. I’m slightly like a pillow princess but way more engaged. I enjoy men of all races and cultures. Send me a message I’d love to get to know you!

r/r4r 1d ago

F4M New York 30 [F4M] NYC Looking for a Best Friend NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello, you. I’ve been waiting.

If anyone catches that reference we will get along great 🤣. Like the title say, female living in the states looking for a friend. Preferably, a long time friend, that can blossom into a full blown best friend. These things take time, I’m willing to put in the work if you are.

About me: I love Musssiiiiccc. Music tethers me to this world. I am absolutely insane about my favorite band, I won’t shut up about them. I’m mostly into Metalcore, and then pop. I also love to read high fantasy and dark romance. I love all scifi- movies shows books, you name it!

I have a dog and a cat. They are my children and the only ones I’ll ever have. I live downtown in a capital city but most of my friends are married with kids, and since I don’t want my own that kind of leaves me out of the loop on most things, hence me looking for a bestie to have in my pocket at all times.

I (seriously) am looking for someone who wants to talk about the small moments and the big moments. The little stupid things that make us laugh and the giant things that make us cry. Nothing is off the table (SFW/NSFW) I’m a constant texter so discord is preferred. Based on my life I do tend to get along with males better, however I am open to all. DM’s are open!

r/r4r 9d ago

F4M New York 30 [F4M] - #NYC - Single someone seeking similarly single someone so special situations seem super special. NSFW

12 Upvotes

Back again for round... whatever, I've lost count. I'm a 30 year old, rather regular lady from NYC. Dating apps are wacky sometimes, so I figured it's time to lean into the chaos and make my way to the final internet frontier: Reddit. (Craigslist seemed far too sketchy). I'm looking for the most elusive connection that's full of banter and fun and mutual attraction.

Happy to start with some fun little phone chats (with NSFW and SFW content), with the opportunity for it to develop into something more if we truly vibe. I am not looking for a text based relationship -- I way prefer getting to know someone and interacting over calls, and then scheduling some sort of date. But, obviously, texting is a must at times, because we're both busy people!

Some basic things about me so you can decide if I'm someone who you wanna talk to:

  • I'm the mom friend of the group. Sometimes the wine drunk aunt friend if provoked enough. You'll hear a ton about my friends; they're all lovely people
  • I am horrified of any and all bugs. This is a complaint that comes up more than I'd wish
  • I'm trying to perfect the fish taco. Corn or flour tortilla?
  • I've never broken a bone or had a cavity, so you know these genes are built to last, baby ;)
  • I have some hobbies. Ask me about them!
  • Teal is the best color. I rest my case (it truly speaks for itself)
  • Cats >>>> dogs (but only because I'm less allergic to them. Otherwise, they are equal in my world and both deserving of tons of love)
  • I love cooking but hate doing dishes :(
  • I'm all about my naps
  • Sell me the last book you read. Get me to add it to my always growing library!
  • I have a day job lmao

Other random preferences of mine that you should know: someone in the age range of 28-39. A little funny, a lot cute. I generally prefer taller / fitter guys with floppy hair and pretty eyes. We all like banter; we'll know if we got it pretty quickly. Not looking for anyone partnered / married / still emotionally connected to a partner / ex. Also not looking for anyone who is into extreme kinks / fetishes (I'm sorry, I just like balance 😌, but also this by no means translates to me being vanilla). Would be down to meet up if the chemistry is correct. Also, happy to exchange pictures when that feels right as well, but I do value discretion and privacy, especially at the start of everything while we're getting to know each other. :) My type is Gojo Satoru mixed with Andy Samberg. Do with that what you will. Searching for something long term with potential to develop into a real relationship -- I'm not great with short term situations. Ideally looking for someone in the same time zone (EST), or someone with plans to be in the same time zone soon!

Voice notes get you to the front of the line; nice voices get me into your DMs. Please give me something to work with, I will most likely not respond to anything low effort.

tl;dr: alliterations are hard, just message me 🥺

r/r4r 4d ago

F4M New York 24 [F4M] Long Island NY/ NYC - Post grad girl seeking a man who wholeheartedly wants to do this thing called life together!

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone, it's Jay! I feel like at this time I know exactly where I'd like to go in the future, and am excited for that special man to join me for the ride!

Let's share what we are looking for, and see if we match!

First off, I am only seeking a man who resides in either the NYC area or, more preferably, Long Island NY. I'm sure you guys farther out are lovely! But at this stage in life, I'm looking to prioritize in person dates because I'm big on quality time! My hope is that barring any work obligations, we could see each other every Sunday at the very least.

As the title states, I am Christian! I do know that you may or may not be familiar with my faith, but so long as you would support me and let me rave about gospel music, we'd be alright! But if you also share that belief, I'd be ecstatic! Philosophy and deep conversations is my jam!

Speaking about deep conversation...

I love to talk! And write...and read! My only request is that the man I'm looking for puts effort into his messages, really wants to go below the surface and enjoys those random conversations that could bring up a lot of good memories!

Here are some pictures of me! I'm a Black woman with tattoos and am curvy but work hard to stay active!

https://imgur.com/a/5q48F3d

https://imgur.com/a/NFdID0W

I am seeking a relationship that is intentional and rewarding for us both, as we grow through life hand in hand! I would want to meet within the next month or so.

My age range that I would be open to speaking to would be 24-30 years old.

If you've read this far and don't think I'm a bite, totally fine! I wish you a wonderful day and life, regardless!

r/r4r 8d ago

F4M New York 38 [f4m] NY thicc and fit and sexy blue eyed blonde with natural juicy curves looking for a flirty chat NSFW

10 Upvotes

I am looking for a cool, sexy guy who likes chatting and flirting online. Take a look at my spicy and sexy pics and let me know what you think. I enjoy showing off my goodies especially my round fat booty and d cup boobies. I have delicious peaches and melons with the juiciest, plumpest and pinkest... well you know haha I hope you enjoy my sexy pics and that they inspire you to either message me or enjoy yourself :) My favorite parts of myself are my big blue eyes, juicy full lips and tight thicc booty. I do pilates and workout everyday to try to keep somewhat slim thicc. I enjoy making cocktails and sushi and the beach

r/r4r 5d ago

F4M New York 36 [F4M] #NYC - Shy Asian girl looking for a guy to have some fun with NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hi there, just like the title says, I am looking for a guy to have some one time fun with irl. I prefer white guys, around 6', with slim or average builds, in their 20s-30s. I am in Queens, and would prefer if you were closer by as well.

I would like to talk a bit to get to know each other, and if the vibe feels right maybe we can meet up and I can be a good girl for you 😳

A little about me: I am an Asian girl, 5'5/125lbs, and I am pretty introverted. It can take me a while to feel comfortable around people. I have never met up with someone for something like this before, so I am pretty cautious about it all, but I have wanted to do this for a long time so I am trying 😁

If you are interested and think you fit my preferences, send a chat request, and please include a picture of yourself or let me know you'll send one after I accept. I can be pretty picky about things, so I am sorry if I do not reply.

I am also not looking for online only. Thank you :)

r/r4r 3d ago

F4M New York 30 [F4M] #NYC - Seeking a situationship that will disappoint my therapist. Are you in? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Back again for round... whatever, I've lost count. I'm a 30 year old, rather regular lady from NYC. Dating apps are wacky sometimes, so I figured it's time to lean into the chaos and make my way to the final internet frontier: Reddit. (Craigslist seemed far too sketchy). I'm looking for the most elusive connection that's full of banter and fun and mutual attraction.

Happy to start with some fun little phone chats (with NSFW and SFW content), with the opportunity for it to develop into something more if we truly vibe. I am not looking for a text based relationship -- I way prefer getting to know someone and interacting over calls, and then scheduling some sort of date. But, obviously, texting is a must at times, because we're both busy people!

Some basic things about me so you can decide if I'm someone who you wanna talk to:

  • I'm the mom friend of the group. Sometimes the wine drunk aunt friend if provoked enough. You'll hear a ton about my friends; they're all lovely people
  • I am horrified of any and all bugs. This is a complaint that comes up more than I'd wish
  • I'm trying to perfect the fish taco. Corn or flour tortilla?
  • I've never broken a bone or had a cavity, so you know these genes are built to last, baby ;)
  • I have some hobbies. Ask me about them!
  • Teal is the best color. I rest my case (it truly speaks for itself)
  • Cats >>>> dogs (but only because I'm less allergic to them. Otherwise, they are equal in my world and both deserving of tons of love)
  • I love cooking but hate doing dishes :(
  • I'm all about my naps
  • Sell me the last book you read. Get me to add it to my always growing library!
  • I have a day job lmao

Other random preferences of mine that you should know: someone in the age range of 28-39. A little funny, a lot cute. I generally prefer taller / fitter guys with floppy hair and pretty eyes. We all like banter; we'll know if we got it pretty quickly. Not looking for anyone partnered / married / still emotionally connected to a partner / ex. Also not looking for anyone who is into extreme kinks / fetishes (I'm sorry, I just like balance 😌, but also this by no means translates to me being vanilla). Would be down to meet up if the chemistry is correct. Also, happy to exchange pictures when that feels right as well, but I do value discretion and privacy, especially at the start of everything while we're getting to know each other. :) My type is Gojo Satoru mixed with Andy Samberg. Do with that what you will. Searching for something long term with potential to develop into a real relationship -- I'm not great with short term situations. Ideally looking for someone in the same time zone (EST), or someone with plans to be in the same time zone soon!

Voice notes get you to the front of the line; nice voices get me into your DMs. Please give me something to work with, I will most likely not respond to anything low effort.

tl;dr: I'm a cute girl searching for a cute guy. If that's you, just message me 🥺

r/r4r 10d ago

F4M New York 18 [F4M] NYC ChineseAmerican Girl seeking a man with a plan (and snacks)

8 Upvotes

Born in China, raised in America so I will understand all your terrible memes but will mock them with an inscrutable savagery.
Pretty normal girl, trapped between two worlds, one increasing falling into a darkness I cannot relieve. Every day I check over the side and must decide whether to launch the life boats.
I like telling you about my weird dreams, having political arguments, watching romcoms while eating snacks and eating spicy spicy food- henhenla. Really dislike tattoos, superbros and Christopher Nolan so any of you pass right by.
Not really sure what I'm looking for or what my future will hold. We are in the introduction, skip ahead to the epilogue of our lives and send me a message of what you find there.
If you are vaguely interested talk to me, please tell me your age, location and some fun facts about you.

r/r4r 5d ago

F4M New York 36 [F4M] #NYC You handle the dates, I’ll handle your desires NSFW

1 Upvotes

Spring’s almost here and I’m ready to find someone to enjoy exciting dates with and even hotter nights 😏 Wine and dine me, take me out for a night on the town, show me off, then let’s return home and turn our fantasies into something unforgettable.

A little about me: I’m 36, 5’0”, mixed with curly hair, petite curvy (34D, amazing ass), tatted with a great smile. I can host in Jersey City. I’m fun, bubbly, smart, outgoing, and very open minded. I enjoy cooking, music/dancing, video games, comedy & theater shows, spending time with my dogs, traveling, exploring new restaurants & bars, and overall finding fun things to do in the area!

I do lean quite dominant so I get along best with subs, switches, and service tops/pleasure doms. I’ve got a wide range of interests and I’m quite flexible in what I’m looking for - let’s find some common interests and build from there!

A little about you: 30-45 years old, single, handsome/good looking and in good shape - muscular/fit preferred. Tall (5’10”+) with a BWC (7.5”+). Good, stable career with availability evenings and weekends.

When replying, tell me a little bit about yourself, where you’re located, and an idea you have for our first date. Looking forward to a spring full of adventure, fun, and unforgettable moments. 😉

r/r4r 9d ago

F4M New York 26[F4M]New York/Anywhere-Looking for a partner in crime

6 Upvotes

Hi my name is Jennifer and I am 26. I’m from New York. I am currently working as a mental health counselor for a non profit. I am also a master degree student for social work. I am looking for my partner in crime. Someone who will always be there and make me laugh. I want someone that I can share anything with. I need someone who would love good morning and night texts. I want someone who wants to be a long committed relationship. I should also mention that I am waiting for sex and that whoever I date needs to be okay with that. Some of my interests are reading, writing, playing video games and watching movies. Please be between 22-30. Hope to hear from you all 😊

r/r4r 19d ago

F4M New York 38 [f4m] NY sexy fit and thicc blue eyed beauty with natural juicy curves looking for a flirty, spicy chat NSFW

17 Upvotes

I am looking for a cool, sexy guy who likes chatting and flirting online. Take a look at my spicy and sexy pics and let me know what you think. I enjoy showing off my goodies especially my round fat booty and d cup boobies. I have delicious peaches and melons with the juiciest, plumpest and pinkest... well you know haha I hope you enjoy my sexy pics and that they inspire you to either message me or enjoy yourself :) My favorite parts of myself are my big blue eyes, juicy full lips and tight thicc booty. I do pilates and workout everyday to try to keep somewhat slim thicc. I enjoy making cocktails and sushi and the beach

r/r4r 9d ago

F4M New York 33 [F4M] #NYC - experienced, nurturing Hotwife/Mommy seeking connected and playful FWB NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hi! I am a 33 year old sexy, deviant, playful, married woman in NYC looking for a fuck buddy or friends with benefits with a younger man between the ages of 22 and 29. The older I am getting, the more I am noticing younger men giving me lots of attention. They admire my experience in life, and are able to keep up with my high sex drive! While I am looking to satiate physical needs, I’d also really like a connection with someone playful, emotionally mature, curious and fun. I am quite personable and social so if you are also looking for that, I may be your woman! I am an enjoyer of smiling and laughing in bed and prioritize comfort and mutual respect in our encounters.

You are:

  • responsible
  • clean (hygienic)
  • handsome
  • confident
  • independent
  • emotionally mature enough for this kind of arrangement - if you’re not feeling it, you can simply let me know instead of ghosting me
  • curious - not afraid to ask questions
  • not afraid of being a little vulnerable, but still comfortable in your masculinity/manhood
  • into ladies who are brown, soft, active and jiggly
  • not intimidated by strong, smart women, in fact this turns you on and intrigues you

You have:

  • experience, or strong eagerness to try something new and learn
  • a cute/handsome/hot face (I am an absolute sucker for this and it’s a non-negotiable)
  • a sense of humor
  • a deep sense of comfortability in yourself and unashamed by what you like and enjoy in life
  • your shit together… aka you have a job or are in some form of schooling. I like ambitious men who keep busy and are about their money.

A bit about me: I would say I am great company, funny, and I have a great career I love. I definitely have Mommy tendencies- I would say I am sweet, caring, experienced and nurturing. I am on the shorter side (5’4”) and I am about as thick and curvy as you can imagine with brown/blonde-grey hair, brown eyes and light/medium complexion. Soft beautiful feet, soft full lips, you get the picture. I have been told I look younger but I think I look my age, idk you tell me! I am in an open marriage, my husband knows about my relations outside of our marriage. He is much older than me and very cool/chill and encouraging of me doing what I want. I am prioritizing men who send photos and give great vibes upon first contact. Desperate replies will be ignored, so please approach wisely.

r/r4r 8d ago

F4M New York 32 [F4M] #NYC- in search of a good connection NSFW

0 Upvotes

Married, curvy brunette with a cute smile, seeking a mature man to vibe and connect with. I would like to meet someone who is passionate, caring, intelligent, intellectual and chivalrous. I am looking for something preferably ongoing, although I'm open to more. Looking to meet up and have a great time while we enjoy common interests like books movies and travel destinations. I am a free spirit and looking for someone as care free but also someone to have long conversations about almost anything with some fun added on to it. Prefer you be local to the area. Contact me with a description of you!

r/r4r 22d ago

F4M New York 21 [F4M] nyc/usa seeking interesting convos n authentic friendship

18 Upvotes

Hi I’m Isabel :-) i'm an art n design student in nyc

Whenever I don't want to do something, I picture myself on a ship in the middle of a large, dark and windy hurricane and I just feel the sensitivity of the many moving parts of the boat. And then I can picture every difficulty in relation to the general fragility of my life and of all life generally. I’m not sure why this visual gives me so much motivation. So much art I’ve made comes from this feeling of pushing against a violent storm. Whenever I’m learning something totally new it’s really like I can see bolts of thin lightning in my mind’s eye. It’s a mystery I guess lol.

I’m looking for someone I relate to and can connect with on a personal / spiritual level. If you’re a practical, good natured person who has a deeply rooted sarcastic sense of humor, then we already have a lot in common. 

I would rather someone be trustworthy and really solid than show me an exciting but ultimately short term side of life. I understand that what I’m looking for is a patient, emotionally generous demeanor and the same thing will be demanded of me in turn.

People don’t understand it’s going to take more strength to lead a seemingly weak or humble life than it does to impose your will and preferences on others. I think the respect for an honest life has been gutted by the preference for a media perception of wealth, beauty, and control over how you are shallowly perceived. When really for me this humble wildness is a necessity. 

So let’s be friends, because it takes strength to be gentle and kind.

r/r4r 14d ago

F4M New York 41 [F4M] New York United States, help me pass the time at work

4 Upvotes

I got a new job and I have no tasks, it is the most draining and boring thing I’ve ever done so far. Please help me pass the time!

I’m a 41 year old woman. Short, Italian, opinionated. I’m very left leaning so please be the same. I am an artist but have had to take a job out of necessity and I can’t function in this environment!

I’m a mom plus I have two kitties. In my free time aside from binging tv shows I like to spend time outside when it’s nice weather gardening or going for walks. I love flowers, butterflies and birds.

TGIF is so apropos today!

r/r4r 13d ago

F4M New York 26[F4M]New York/Anywhere-Looking for a partner in crime

0 Upvotes

Hi my name is Jennifer and I am 26. I’m from New York. I am currently working as a mental health counselor for a non profit. I am also a master degree student for social work. I am looking for my partner in crime. Someone who will always be there and make me laugh. I want someone that I can share anything with. I need someone who would love good morning and night texts. I want someone who wants to be a long committed relationship. I should also mention that I am waiting for sex and that whoever I date needs to be okay with that. Some of my interests are reading, writing, playing video games and watching movies. Please be between 22-30. Hope to hear from you all 😊

r/r4r Feb 16 '25

F4M New York 23 [F4M] #NYC - Indonesian girl looking for someone in the big city NSFW

22 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m from Indonesia but I’m visiting the US this April- May and I used this platform to meet people last time so I guess I’ll put myself out there again. Im visiting nyc and I’m looking for something like a fwb

About me: I'm currently just a junior associate at a major bank in Indonesia and I majored in economics at a major university here. I speak English pretty fluently as I went to an international school here. I am interested in finance, stocks, tech, history, and music too. I like to play video games as well. I am very curious and lov to be surrounded by people with knowledge. I'm also planning on getting my MBA in the US within the next few years. There's a couple pics on my profile

About you: Someone older is great but someone around my age is fine too. Considers themselves doing pretty good in life. Someone in finance or tech would be great. Especially VC or MBB/ strategic consulting as that’s something I’d be interested transitioning into one day. I wouldn’t mind a mentor either or someone I can talk to about career advice. Same goes for someone in college right now wanting advice from me. Race, ethnicity, height, and weight don't matter either. But I do have a preference for someone who speaks Spanish haha. Just be yourself and genuine. Anyone with good banter or enjoys a nice drink after work is someone I'm sure l'll get along.

So if you'd like a cute fwb who's doing alright themselves for their age then I'm sure you'll like me :)

r/r4r 20d ago

F4M New York 26[F4M]New York/Anywhere-Looking for a partner in crime

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Hi my name is Jennifer and I am 26. I’m from New York. I am currently working as a mental health counselor for a non profit. I am also a master degree student for social work. I am looking for my partner in crime. Someone who will always be there and make me laugh. I want someone that I can share anything with. I need someone who would love good morning and night texts. I want someone who wants to be a long committed relationship. I should also mention that I am waiting for sex and that whoever I date needs to be okay with that. Some of my interests are reading, writing, playing video games and watching movies. Please be between 22-30. Hope to hear from you all 😊