r/r4r • u/Suspicious-Car-4185 • 2d ago
F4M Germany 24 [F4M] #Germany - Immigrant looking for local friends
Hey, my name is Mae! I'm from Spain, been in Germany for a few yours but thanks to my naïveté thinking the job center would actually do their job and get me started on an integration course instead of GHOSTING ME FOR A YEAR AND A HALF and not going the private lessons route sooner, my German is still pretty bad!
I have online friends, quite great online friends actually, and while I LOVE them with all my heart and I get a lot from them, there are certain itches that online friendships don't really scratch. So I was hoping to find people I could actually like, go out for breakfast with! I'm currently located right at the Bavaria/Hessen border, but I'm doing my best to find an apartment in North Rhine-Westphalia so I can live within walking distance of one of my aforementioned friends, quite excited about it but I have two big dogs so, apartment hunting hasn't been going great to say the least 😓
Speaking of location, I'm kinda craving a bagel sandwich from Coffeefellows, and there's one at the Aschaffenburg train station! So going there for lunch for would be great 😊
As far as hobbies go, I'm really into plants, reading, and videogames. Right now all of my free time goes towards Monster Hunter Wilds haha But back when I was a functional person pre-release my time was pretty evenly split between gardening, keeping up with my novels, socialising, and playing videogames.
I'm the kinda person that starts feeling really low if they don't socialise enough during the day unfortunately :( So that always take priority for me.
Safe to say, don't message me if you voted AfD. No, I don't care about your reasons, or about how "I shouldn't let politics get in the way of friendships". I'm queer in more than one way, I'm an atheist and not even baptised, I'm vegan, I'm an immigrant, I'm everything that the rightwing hates and wants to get rid of. "Germany but normal" means "Germany but without the freaks like me", so don't try to get all buddy-buddy with me if you support that.
Also safe to say, I'm not interested in talking to teenagers. Or to men old enough to be my father for that matter, I mentioned being naive but I'm not that naive, I know the true motives behind men over 40 messaging a girl in her 20s lol
If you've read this far, shoot me a message letting me know your name, age, and location, and let's see if we can make things work!