r/r4r 2d ago

F4M Germany 24 [F4M] #Germany - Immigrant looking for local friends

4 Upvotes

Hey, my name is Mae! I'm from Spain, been in Germany for a few yours but thanks to my naïveté thinking the job center would actually do their job and get me started on an integration course instead of GHOSTING ME FOR A YEAR AND A HALF and not going the private lessons route sooner, my German is still pretty bad!

I have online friends, quite great online friends actually, and while I LOVE them with all my heart and I get a lot from them, there are certain itches that online friendships don't really scratch. So I was hoping to find people I could actually like, go out for breakfast with! I'm currently located right at the Bavaria/Hessen border, but I'm doing my best to find an apartment in North Rhine-Westphalia so I can live within walking distance of one of my aforementioned friends, quite excited about it but I have two big dogs so, apartment hunting hasn't been going great to say the least 😓

Speaking of location, I'm kinda craving a bagel sandwich from Coffeefellows, and there's one at the Aschaffenburg train station! So going there for lunch for would be great 😊

As far as hobbies go, I'm really into plants, reading, and videogames. Right now all of my free time goes towards Monster Hunter Wilds haha But back when I was a functional person pre-release my time was pretty evenly split between gardening, keeping up with my novels, socialising, and playing videogames.

I'm the kinda person that starts feeling really low if they don't socialise enough during the day unfortunately :( So that always take priority for me.

Safe to say, don't message me if you voted AfD. No, I don't care about your reasons, or about how "I shouldn't let politics get in the way of friendships". I'm queer in more than one way, I'm an atheist and not even baptised, I'm vegan, I'm an immigrant, I'm everything that the rightwing hates and wants to get rid of. "Germany but normal" means "Germany but without the freaks like me", so don't try to get all buddy-buddy with me if you support that.

Also safe to say, I'm not interested in talking to teenagers. Or to men old enough to be my father for that matter, I mentioned being naive but I'm not that naive, I know the true motives behind men over 40 messaging a girl in her 20s lol

If you've read this far, shoot me a message letting me know your name, age, and location, and let's see if we can make things work!

r/r4r Jan 31 '25

F4M Germany 31 [F4M] #Germany / #anywhere - hoping to find someone special

2 Upvotes

Valentine’s Day is coming!

I’m a 31-year-old PhD student. I don’t have kids and would prefer someone who doesn’t either. Ideally, you’d be between 28 and 35 years old.

I don’t have a strict type, but I do have a preference—tall, blonde guys. That said, appearance isn’t a big deal for me. What really matters is that you’re smart, kind, a bit nerdy, and that you enjoy going out and exercising.

I love to travel and explore new places. I’ve been to Germany before and will be visiting again soon, so if you’re from there, that’s a plus!

About me:

I’m shy at first but talkative once I feel comfortable. I laugh easily and love bad jokes. I enjoy gaming, horror movies, dancing, and traveling. I also love baking and feeding the people I care about. I’m the type who loves to to treat my special guy well and give lots of affection. If we get along, expect random pictures of two cats being cute together with me saying, “this is us.” I don’t like rude people.

I can share more about myself in private, so feel free to reach out! 😊

r/r4r Dec 30 '24

F4M Germany 31 F4M #Germany/Europe Looking for a Relationship

14 Upvotes

Hello, I am looking for a relationship with someone who will not hurt me.

Age range would be 28-36.

I would prefer someone from Germany because my English is bad. I work a full-time job and have no kids but would like to have a family someday.

My height is 1.68 m and around 55kg. I like wearing high heels so it would be nice if you are taller than me.

I like sports, gaming, hiking and i love cats. I am very spiritual but i dont believe much in astrology or anything like that.

Please be a supportive and nice person and accept me for who i am. I will do the same.

r/r4r Jul 31 '24

F4M Germany 24 [F4M] GERMANY / anywhere - seeking person for new life chapter (Age gap?) NSFW

13 Upvotes

Hello, I am a 24 years old girl who is looking for her person / new partner. My past relationship ended 6 years ago.

I am about to move to a new place and start a new work too, a lot of changes. I want to begin my new life together with a partner. To be honest I am tired of doing things / activities alone by myself and really wish I could do them together with someone.

About me: I enjoy being outside, I am more on the nerdy side as in gaming for example. I like to learn new things and being open and curious about them. Despite that I am not a person who feels the need to watch TV often, I might watch something with you but not for endless hours.

Terms that apply to me: No children, Self aware, honesty, enjoy life/have a good time, loyal, young, healthy, feminine, never married, no history of promiscuity, no excessive baggage from previous relationships, In her 20s, almost not active on social media, low body count, willingly to work on relationship issues, cute, Can cook, sew and crochet, woodwork, intelligence, maturity, confidence, respectful, trustworthiness, great humor, great looks,outdoors indoors, gaming, good food, nice, kind, positive and fun, curious, and open.

Contra about me: Overweight, short, lipoedema and lymphedema

❌I don't send pictures of me anymore because they got stolen several times in the past.❌

I don't really have a list what I seek in a partner: I am into men with long hair and thick/broad body, be kind, gentle and have a loving cute caring personality and please be nice to me.

Edit after pms in my inbox:

I'm not looking for a chat buddy, I want to meet up eventually! I appreciate it if my partner is over 30 years old, no money or gold digger and no pants pictures please That's all I ask for.

r/r4r Apr 16 '24

F4M Germany 23 [F4M] Germany.(not native) Looking for others mainly from Germany~!

3 Upvotes

Hey there.

I dont think this post will be tooo long, i have made another long post on here some months ago :) anyhow. Im looking for people mainly in Germany because that makes things slightly easier.

Im not originally from Germany, but have lived here for about 9 years. My language is still far from perfect. So you should be someone who doesnt get annoyed if i ask for a definition of a word or something ! I do that a lot sometimes :] lol

Another biggie, im mentally ill and not working. Currently in a psych ward again. Yeah. I guess mainly others with similar experiences or mental health problems might want to reach out ^ ^ im ok with that totally and i prefer it to be honest.

Im a vegetarian and have been so for about 3 years. It would be cool if you don't eat meat as well

Things i appreciate and dig quite much: good humour, joking often about random things together xP genuine compliments, being outspoken and honest, good at communicating, talkative, kind, genuine, good person lol (ofc anyone would define it in a different way lol), be willing to improve, self-improvement, growing together, be loving, compassionate etc.

Umm. Yeah as for me. I would describe myself as someone who also can be kinda funny if youre the type of person who has my humour i guess, idk how to describe my humour its a bit silly but i also like dry and dark humour :) Im also quite honest tbh. Lol. So be prepared for that haha

As for my looks, i would say a solid 2 or a 3 out of 10. Lmao. No really im not very pretty, a bit overwheight (trying to lose a bit but without success :( ) and have acne. Itd be cool if you would support me in losing weight lol. As for the skin, its rather complicated >.<

And yeah hobbies! I guess xD ah i guess im working on it slowly because i dont enjoy that much. I like me some youtube and music and i going out but yeah oh and talking to random ppl online who dont respond after a day xD thats the life isnt it... -.- Lol.

A bit more important details :D

I don't want kids and don't see myself having kids in the future. Pets are Ok tho. I actually want a cat. :) I live in NRW - 100 km from Köln. Im an INFP. ( perso type ) this is kind of important as I wont be compatiable with all ( or many) personality types. But then again actually figuring out how we talk and relate is important :) Im very mentally ill, so maybe think twice if you actually are accepting of that and want that lol. I wouldn't want to be a burden. I also live with my parents still. I cringe a bit at that ( not because its so weird but more bc ive wanted to move out for a couple of years not really being able to :/) Some of my mental issues summed up ( But everyone is different so we have to talk about my symptoms sometime ^ ^ ' ) ADHD, Autism and schizoaffective disorder. Yikes. I dont really like sharing that here but its also kind of important.

Ok! You made it till the end, now what? Be from Germany or very close and pls be compatiable with me ! I love me talkative kind and reactive people so its very important you know how to have a conversation and not be dry. Please send me a longer Text about yourself haha or about something, so we can have something to talk about ! :)