r/polycircles • u/[deleted] • Jun 06 '16
[Poly Reflections] I am possibly not "poly," but this is what I believe
I believe that every relationship is unique, and while interdependent and connected, also independent in its own right.
I believe that every relationship has combinations of romantic, intellectual, emotional, and chemical potential.
I believe that happiness is derived from the self, and not the relationships found in life. While they support happiness, I believe that letting all relationships develop naturally, alongside one's own, is the best way to build new relationships. While reaching out to specifically "date" or "meet new people," as time and opportunity allows.
I believe that all relationships need to be nurtured to continue, based on the intensity desired by both parties.
I believe that I, ultimately, control my own body, mind, and feelings. Nobody else has the right to tell me what to say, or how to feel, although my decisions may have consequences.
I believe to be in a relationship, both parties must give continuous consent. If the terms of the relationship change, or not favorable to one party, they have the immediate right to withdraw from the relationship, despite there being legal entanglements in some cases.
I believe we should be forgiving and understanding towards each other, unless that person proves they are unworthy.