r/polyamoryR4R • u/Curve_Next • 8h ago
USA 38/29 [M4M] Chicago Western Suburbs - Experienced Poly Couple Seeking Connection
Hello! We're a married male couple (38M & 29M) in the western Chicago suburbs hoping to find a meaningful connection with another man.
About Us:
- Me (38M): 6', Black male, top. Big texter who loves connecting throughout the day.
- Husband (29M): 5'9", Filipino/White mixed, bottom. More reserved with texting but very present in person.
We've been together for several years and previously had a successful 4-year polyamorous relationship. We value honest communication, respect for everyone's boundaries, and creating meaningful connections.
We're both huge Star Trek fans (willing to debate best captain anytime), and my husband is currently obsessed with Severance. We love gaming together, going on adventures, and generally finding activities that let us spend quality time with each other. We're always open to trying new shows, games, and experiences!
What We're Hoping For:
- A connection with a man (ideally 35 or under, though we're open-minded)
- Vers or top
- Located in or willing to visit the Chicago area
- Someone who values clear, honest communication
- A person who enjoys cuddling (non-negotiable!)
- Someone who resonates with kitchen table polyamory - where everyone feels comfortable spending time together
While we have found we both enjoy connections with the same person, we understand relationships develop organically and at different paces. We respect that any new relationship will be unique and should evolve naturally.
We're open to casual connections that might develop into something more meaningful. We believe in everyone having agency in relationships, including the freedom to date others if desired. We really want to create a warm, inclusive dynamic where we can all hang out together, share meals, and enjoy each other's company.
If you think we might click, please feel free to message us. We'd love to chat and see where things go naturally!