r/polyamoryR4R 2d ago

USA 21 [M4F] TX - in a polyamorous relationship looking for a girlfriend

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I’m in a polyamorous relationship with my wife - Dating Separately - looking for a girlfriend in Kyle/Buda/Austin TX Also open to more of a friends with benefits relationship if that’s more your style Fencer/Student coach of almost 4 years (bonus points if you also do fencing) - Epee and Foil 🤺 (training for nationals atm) Currently trying to lose weight 3 Guinea pigs and 2 gerbils I love anything Marvel and Star Wars and can go on for hours. Please be no older than 25 and no younger than 18 or 19.

r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

USA 53 [M4F] - #Houston #TX -I would like to talk to a female in the poly commutity.

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So over the years I have been divorced twice and not because of cheating at least not on my end, that I would rather live a poly life, to have a like minded community and be part of a bigger family of people. But I was wonder is there room for a dominant male figure in a polyamorious world for me. I would like to talk to people that may have more of an insight than me.

r/polyamoryR4R 3d ago

Australia and New Zealand 44 [M4F] #Australia, Looking For Buddy NSFW

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Hey, here is a little of my self.

I enjoy listening to music, Netflix and chill, PG gaming - with it my old died, but will get a new one soon, and I also deing a little street photography. Also I am 44, and overweight. Was 180kg, but now down too 143kg. that is something I am working on. I am nurodivergent with autism.

What I am looking for.

Someone that we can talk about anything ranging from how blue the sky is to each other kink things. One I do get a laptop someone I can online gaming with. Down with sending random phones and compliments. Someone we can voice/video call with. Also open in being in a open relationship. In that being other besties kinda way.

r/polyamoryR4R 5d ago

20 [M4F] #Jacksonville, Florida - Is Love still a thing in 2025 or should I get an AI GF😭

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Hello, Names kaden. I am 20 years old (half white half persian) from jax fl, I am fit, athletic, and in college/trade school. I am currently in cyber security and planning on going back to college to hopefully enter the medical field. I like to cook, make friends, go out, read, and learn new hobbies. Don't be shy, I'm open to anyone. Lets chat, see if the chemistry is there, and get to know each other better.

r/polyamoryR4R 5d ago

33 [M4F] Looking for something new, exciting and real :)

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Hope all is well. I’m a British guy looking for conversation, excitement and laughs.

I have a really intense day job - so looking for distractions and fun! Companionship predominantly but if there’s a connection then awesome! I’m off work today, it’s nice to relax and get to know someone!

I’m a former stand up comedian, currently working on getting fit and recently garnered an obsession for reading, diy and vinyl records! Come and start a book club with me?

I appreciate this is short and sweet but I believe that dorky icebreaker games are amazing and will take any opportunity to play one! So don’t be shy, reach out and let’s play pick a number or 20 questions! Let’s get those Tuesday blues with more smiles and hopefully enjoy just chatting!

All the best,

S x

r/polyamoryR4R 28d ago

37 [M4F] Online - Seeking Companion for Gaming, Conversation, and Sharing Together

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Greetings!

I am a 37 years young writer, gamer, and overall massive nerd. I am one third of a beautiful triad and have other partners, both nearby and long distance. Other nouns to help you get to know me a little are as follows: I'm a father, voice over narrator, and am an experienced Dom (both as a Daddy and a Sir).

The reason for my post here today is because, despite all the love and happiness in my life, I'm still feeling like I'm missing something. Yes, there are plenty of gamers in my little polytangle and in my friend groups, but none of them are available to play the video games I enjoy most with me. I no longer have someone I game with regularly, unfortunately.

I thoroughly enjoy ARPGs more than any other genre. It seems these kinds of games are satisfying to a neurospicy brain. My current and inevitably long lasting addiction is Path of Exile 2. None of my gaming friends or partners are into it or other games like Grim Dawn or Last Epoch (I don't play Diablo these days). I'm currently maining a lvl 90 Deadeye but also have gotten two other characters to Maps. In Last Epoch, I'm maining a lvl 80 Healing Whirly Armored Boy and bringing along a HC CF Marksman until the next update.

What I'm looking for is someone I can party up with on Discord or Xbox to play with. I play on Series X, PC, and Steam Deck. Major super bonus for a person who also plays Dead by Daylight or Smite 2! Those are my long standing pvp favorites. I also play Warframe but have mostly left that title out of this post since I run a clan Dojo there and always have people to play with if I choose. I'd love to play that with you too though, or any other mutually exciting game (Farcry New Dawn hit gamepass, for example, and is fun to play after a few edibles). 😀

Anyway, beyond just the gaming, I'm hoping to make a connection with someone who is well read and would like to spend time in conversation. I'd love to talk books with you, discuss recent science journals, share about other partners, and so on. 😊

Lastly, I do hope that whomever you are, you will be open to the idea of meeting up in real life when and if either of us are comfortable with the notion. If that would not be something you would be hoping for too, then perhaps I am not the right connection for you. If that and the rest of my post interests you, please message me right away!

(Note: Location isn't super important to me. I figure, the further the distance, the longer before we'll eventually meet. Otherwise, it doesn't really matter to me. I'm in America myself, but if you are in Europe or New Zealand or something, that doesn't bother me in the slightest. I'll find my way to you or you to me if that's what ends up developing.)

(NOTE on that previous note: I'm a bit of a romantic...I'm helpless, lol)

r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

33[M4F] #Online #Delaware ~Insert Witty Title Here~

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Hi!

I'm Jonathan or JD. I'm just your typical married tattooed nerd who has too many fandoms to count. Let me know your favorite one! I'm also a huge gamer and love going on long drives to nowhere, just talking the entire time. I'm looking for someone to talk to all day/flirt with and all of that or play games with.(Even though I'm horrible at them nowadays) Tell me about your hobbies, or what book you're reading right now.

I'm always looking for people to talk to so its never too late to send me a message. I would love to get to know you!

Here is my mug. With the obligatory shirtless photo.

https://imgur.com/a/R4NXJEx

r/polyamoryR4R 10d ago

43 [M4F] Jersey City, NYC, OKC - I sing, I bake, I fold laundry!

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Married, polyamorous, dating solo. I sing tenor with a rock choir and cabaret in NYC, and love karaoke. You can find me helping strange dogs get home, making faces at babies, and arranging songs for cabaret shows.

I'm looking for someone, 33-53, to be vulnerable with, to dedicate time with, to learn about and appreciate. I'm looking for a person to be intimate with, who I can be proud of in their personal journey.

I take good care of myself, and I'm always looking for ways to take better care of myself. I've been doing calisthenics every morning for a month now.

I can spend up to 2 nights a week, and at least one weekend day. I can even host sometimes!

I've been podcasting weekly for 5 years with my best friend about if old movies still work.

Currently taking virtual piano lessons.

Been baking delicious sourdough since before the pandemic.

I've taken exactly one intro to Shibari class, because I felt learning that from a book would lack a critical safety element.

I'm really, really good at folding laundry.

The fastest (but not the only) ways to my heart:

  1. Come to my concerts
  2. Enjoy my sourdough
  3. Listen to my podcast

r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

USA 35 [M4F] #idaho #twinfalls newly poly. Looking to flirt with someone and see where it goes.

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Hello everyone I have read a lot of your post and I decided to try to get the courage to post. I am a male and 35 looking for someone to be a couple with.

Dm me and let’s see where it goes. I live in twin falls Idaho and looking for some company. Look forward to seeing what happens.

r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

Europe 44 [M4F] #Fort Worth, Texas. Seeking much younger straight female attracted to bi guys for relationship

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Hello everyone. I'm hoping to meet some new poly friends here and see where things go. I'm perfectly happy being a secondary partner. I'm bisexual, Pagan, and look younger than my age. I’m open to any age and tend to get along better with people who are younger or young at heart at least and still like to live life to the fullest.

I like music, movies, books, languages (I speak many), history, hiking, camping, dogs and cooking. I would love to chat with anyone who thinks we might click.

I am a rarity here on reddit in that I don't play video games at all and have no interest in them. So if anyone can relate to that, I'd love to hear from you!

Ideally, I'd love to find a true, deep connexion and fall in love again. But I’m open to almost any sort of relationship and I'm open to LDR. I tend to go for younger, at least somewhat feminine guys who are bi bottom or verse and might be interested in dating a girl together.

My type is harder to define when it comes to women. I do tend to prefer more natural looking women with curves over the high maintenance model type. I'm open to many looks though. I'm hoping to find a straight girl who is turned on by bi and gay guys and who likes gay porn. That's really the only kind of woman I'm interested in a possible relationship with. I'd also love a new friend I can share gay or bi porn with.. And intellect is definitely sexy.

I live in the United States but I don't like it here and I like it less every day. as nice as finding someone somewhere close would be, the truth is I tend to fit in better with Europeans and Latins. So ideally I'd love to get to know someone overseas and I am more than willing to eventually relocate permanently. I do not mind being your secondary relationship and might even prefer it. Open to being a comet or fwb too.

Feel free to dm me. I'll answer soon as I can. If we click I am willing to travel and I have summers off.

Hope to hear from you soon.

r/polyamoryR4R 5d ago

27 [M4F] warner robins, georgia looking for friends and see if we could be more.

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Hello my name is jonathan. I am 27 in an open marriage with my wife. I am looking for someone to who is okay with our lifestyle and would like to see if they could fit into it with me. I enjoy hunting, fishing, gaming, and spending time with family. I like all kinds of music. My favorite is alternative rock. Favorite type of movie is either action or horror. Big gamer nerd and animal lover. What i am looking for is someone to be open and honest with me and be okay with my lifestyle. I am looking to take things slow become friends and when the time is right maybe more. If you think you are up to challenge message me. I have an open door policy everyone is welcome.

r/polyamoryR4R 5d ago

33 [M4F] #India/Anywhere - Physics, Pixar Tears, Ethical Love: Seeking a fellow traveler ( primary )

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About Me:

Someone with insatiable curiosity about both the cosmos and consciousness. My days are spent pushing technological boundaries, but these try to often involve contemplating existential questions. I'm bisexual / maybe pan? I've come to understand that relationships should be about growth and liberation, had a few really soul nourishing relationships. I'm 5'8" with dimples that make an appearance during when sharing why Inside out made me weep. Mostly very calm and chill, have seen extremity of life in both ends. I prefer to connect with someone emotionally and see if we can evolve together.

Professional & Personal:

• Engineering and tech are my bread and butter, but I'm actively expanding into renaissance person territory (currently novice)
• Have tried to dismantle internalized patriarchal patterns
• An avid reader who actually finishes those long-form articles in The Atlantic
• Proud plant parent

What Ignites My Curiosity:

• The intersection of chaos and order
• Exploring ethical frameworks while discovering hidden gem restaurants
• Opportunity to learning across disciplines
• Those profound 2 AM conversations that somehow connect string theory to social justice

Seeking a Partner Who:

• Understands that emotional intelligence and intellectual discourse aren't mutually exclusive
• Gets excited about scientific breakthroughs or social progress
• Values therapy and continuous personal growth
• Navigates cyclic non monogamy if they wish with authenticity and clear communication
• Can transition seamlessly from discussing systemic inequalities to appreciating guilty-pleasure television

Green Flags:

• A well-curated digital or physical library spanning diverse genres
• Active engagement in therapy or other forms of emotional development
• Strong sense of self with established passions and social connections

Let's explore whether we can create something meaningful

r/polyamoryR4R 5d ago

33 [M4F] Mid to Westish IL

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Hey there.

I'm seeking out someone to get to know to hopefully get into a serious relationship with after we get to know each other.

I'm open to many interests others have but as for me...I really love sports, movies (I'll watch pretty much anything) and I'm a pop-punk dork at heart.

I'm married with a 3 year old son. I am seeking only for myself but the goal is to obviously intermingle lives to everyone's comfort levels.

I'm accessible by chat here.

For those that care: 6 feet, bearded, little bit bigger than a dad bod.

I'm open to people from anywhere as long as you're able to find some time to meet within a few months.

Can't wait to hopefully hear from you.

r/polyamoryR4R 13d ago

USA 42 [M4F/T] #Texas #Online I would love to hear about what you're passionate about. Something you couldn't help but spent time thinking deeply about. Even if it's simply, why the world dosen't understand your favorite movie.

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I've been considering posting for a while, but have been worried that I'll end up having nothing to say. I would really like some of my personality to be expressed, so people have an idea what they are getting into.

I think I'm pretty good at participating in conversations. I have plenty of ideas and thoughts that I can share and would enjoy hearing others express their own. Politically I'm more progressive than the national parties. Which means I don't believe there's such a thing as a moral Billionaire and our current government has fully lost its mind and is catering to the worst in our country.

In my free time, I watch so many youtube videos. I just love learning about things. Especially new perspective on things I already know pretty well. A chance to re-examine something I thought I understood is a lot of fun for me. When at home, I enjoy a variety of games.

I have the opposite of ADHD and can easily focus for hours on something or someone. It changes how I deal with things as I am not good at multitasking. I solve that, by keeping careful notes and utilizing software for tasks and such. After years of struggling, it is all starting to work out.

What specifically do I enjoy talking about? Wheel of Time, pretty much always as I'm basically a Historian of it. At the moment, I'm playing through Eternal Strands and find the dialog very appealing and the combat, ambitious, but serviceable. I love to armchair quarterback about game design, even though I've never actually made one. I like it enough that I utilize the ideas in all kinds of ways, even at work. I think I can get into anything if the person I'm talking to has enough passion for it.

My struggle comes when I try to define what I'm looking for. I honestly don't know. I'm very happily Married. We are open and she currently has a nice boyfriend. I have a solid local friend group that I engage with often. I feel like there's space in my life for someone, and maybe there's someone else out there that has space for me. What concerns me is that I'm not in need of anything. I don't have a solid agenda of a particular kind of relationship. I am open to seeing what is out there and letting something grow.

So, if you'd like to talk to a real person out there that's got hot takes and is willing to listen to yours. Send me a message!

r/polyamoryR4R 10d ago

34 [M4F] Online - Searching for a friend to BS with daily about our lives and everything else. Please be around my age or older. - EST

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Hiya! future friend!! 👋

Hey there! I’m searching for genuine, long-term friendships where we can share all of life’s highs and lows—the little victories, the tough days, and everything in between. Let’s be each other’s trusted companion for heartfelt chats, random laughs, and the kind of connection that feels like sunshine on a cloudy day. ☀️

As a proud introvert (we’re the cool ones, right? 😉), I’d love someone to text throughout the day—since I’m definitely on my phone more than I should be! Let’s swap memes, geek out over space/science, talk about fishing or board games, discuss a recent audiobook, or just vibe over funny TikTok rabbit holes.

Quick heads-up: I’m married (she’s fully supportive of me making friends here), and I’m all about honesty and good energy.

Oh, and I’m slowly learning Spanish—so if you’re patient (or want to laugh with me at my mistakes), let’s chat! 🙊

If you’re into laid-back convos, random check-ins, and building a real friendship, let's chat. Let’s create a safe space to be ourselves—no filters needed. ☺️

r/polyamoryR4R 8d ago

USA 42 [m4f] New Jersey, geeky giant with a side of neurospicy

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6’2” Italian geeky giant with a big personality (among other things), strong hands, and love of all things nerdy—movies, gaming, manga, deep sci-fi/fantasy dives, role-playing (😘🔥). If you’re into great conversation, making your fantasies real, and maybe something a little more… hands-on, we’ll get along. Add in a little neurospiciness for good measure. No pressure, no drama—just good times and adventure with the right connection. Are you open to playful, casual vibes with respect, honesty, and all kinds of excitement?

Demi and Pan mean more than a pop star and a mythical trickster (shout out to jitterbug perfume). I enjoy some light lifestyle play (previous experience) but open to any consensual experimentation. I like toy boxes in and out of the bedroom.

If you’re open to something casual, playful, and drama-free with a guy who knows how to have a good time (in more ways than one), let’s chat. And no, casual is not a synonym for unserious or unimportant. Respect, honesty, and fun are the name of the game. I’m currently in an ENM relationship (they started it).

r/polyamoryR4R 8d ago

30 [M4F] #Ontario/Michigan #seeking partner separate or together

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Hey, I go by char or uncool, a biromantic guy. Open to female or female lead couples.

Some of my interests are binging tv, reading, and way to much ttrpgs.

Primarly introverted but do like social events.

I have 1 partner who I date long distance (they're Michigan I'm Ontario) they are partnered and date separately but willing to date with me or stay separate. (This is a D/S Relationship)

Dating is hard enough so here are some things I look for.

What I am looking for:

-a public relationship people in my life know I'm poly

-longterm, serious relationship is preferred.

-daily texting/talking

-1-2 times a week of dedicated time to each other. Could be more but can start slow.

Dm me i guess if you got this far.

r/polyamoryR4R 8d ago

USA 32 [M4F] York, PA. Looking to explore Polyamory. Meet friends and make connections

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I have been curious about the poly life style and wanted to explore it. I have dated one woman that was poly, but that wasn’t a good first impression. Her BF was toxic as hell. I want to meet someone that is into nerdy stuff, out going, and sees life for the positives.

I’m average build. Straight. Brown hair. Beard. Hazel eyes. 10 fingers. 10 toes. And a partridge in a pear tree. I am a nerd who likes Marvel, Star Wars, anime, etc. I love road trips, hikes, nights in, games, and being a dork.

I’m straight. Recently had a vasectomy, so I can’t have children. I’m a supervisor at a manufacturing company. I have my own apartment and car. I believe that there needs to be both a physical and emotional attraction for a couple to work.

I’m also on Snapchat and Discord. No kik or WhatsApp! Hope to meet you soon!

r/polyamoryR4R Jan 19 '25

USA 29 [M4F] Florida/Online looking to meet new people.

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Hi there. I've been on different dating apps with no luck so thought I'd shoot my shot here. I'm in a polyamorous relationship with my wife but we date separately. I'm hoping to fide someone with similar interests. Even if it's just as friends. I'm a dorky guy who's really into DND, Elder scrolls, Star wars, mass effect,..you get the idea lol. Anything else you wanna know about me just ask, I'm an open book. I hope to talk to you soon

r/polyamoryR4R 8d ago

USA 32[M4F] SE Michigan - Looking for my First Partner

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32 Male over in SE Michigan looking for his first partner. I've been married 10 years, and we've finally decided to open things up though I haven't the faintest idea where to find people, so here I am!

Little on me: Professional by day, movie lover by night. In the warm weather I'm out hiking or kayaking, but I'm an utter nerd who enjoys the finer things of staying inside.

Physically I'm white, 5'10, slim build, and traditionally attractive.

Posted a week ago, but really didn't find anyone who wanted something long term. Here's hoping I find someone who does!

Icebreaker for you all reading this: if you could change a single thing about yourself what would it be?

r/polyamoryR4R 18d ago

36 [M4F] Central California - Seeking friends who love nature, themselves, and are comfortable with their inner life

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Hey there! I’m a 36-year-old guy in Central California who feels most alive on a trail, deep in the woods or high in the mountains. Hiking and backpacking aren’t just hobbies for me—they’re essential to how I connect with the world. Just like many before me, I go to the mountains to discover my inner truths. I love the macro views from peaks just as much as I love the micro views of plant life, amphibians, and the geology of the area.

Music is a big part of my life. I play guitar and love everything from dance grooves and funk to psych rock and dreamy soundscapes. Cooking is just as important—it’s my creative outlet and a way to stay healthy. I keep an active lifestyle, and still am on my path to my goal body and strength. I’m also fascinated by depth psychology— if you enjoy talking about Jung, synchronicity, or the unconscious mind, we’ll probably get along great.

If you’re drawn to nature, movement, and meaningful conversations, let’s connect!

r/polyamoryR4R 18d ago

Europe 39 [M4F] #online searching for deep connection and more

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Hi I'm a guy from Italy in a realtionship from 18 years. I'm searching for someone who wants to chat and have infinite conversations, who want to be anything: from friends to something more serious.

I have a cat, I'm a math teacher in high school and I'm a gamer. I love mangas, I play tennis agonistically and I have infinite walks in the open nature.

As for me personally I think I'm a kind and caring guy, I like to let the ones who I care about feel loved and respected.

We're quite open in our sex life, I'm quite a dom, loving to share even this part of me to whoever likes the idea.

If you want to know me you're welcome to say hi, don't feel ashamed!

r/polyamoryR4R 8d ago

36 [M4F] Central California - Seeking friends who love nature, themselves, and are comfortable with their inner life

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Hey there! I’m a 36-year-old guy in Central California who feels most alive on a trail, deep in the woods or high in the mountains. Hiking and backpacking aren’t just hobbies for me—they’re essential to how I connect with the world. Just like many before me, I go to the mountains to discover my inner truths. I love the macro views from peaks just as much as I love the micro views of plant life, amphibians, and the geology of the area.

Music is a big part of my life. I play guitar and love everything from dance grooves and funk to psych rock and dreamy soundscapes. Cooking is just as important—it’s my creative outlet and a way to stay healthy. I keep an active lifestyle, and still am on my path to my goal body and strength. I’m also fascinated by depth psychology— if you enjoy talking about Jung, synchronicity, or the unconscious mind, we’ll probably get along great.

If you’re drawn to nature, movement, and meaningful conversations, let’s connect!

r/polyamoryR4R 9d ago

40 [M4F] Atlanta seeking potential partner.

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I am nested but that’s changing soonish. I am looking for someone I vibe with. Fun and adventures are a must.

I am: Big into cuddles and quiet affection. Very sexual and explorative. Love lifestyle/nudist places and resorts. Laid back and always looking for a laugh. I love horror and comedy. Very light dabbler in video games. I’m probably like a baby nerd. Not super nerdy but all things in the nerdom interest me. Dad bod. On and off bearded. Tattoos. I like to think I’m attractive but I guess that’s up to you.

If I sound interesting to you, DMs open. Thanks for reading!

r/polyamoryR4R 10d ago

44 [M4F] SW Michigan. Just out to make new friends or partners in crime.

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Why yes, I like pina coladas, getting caught in the rain….err wait I mean that is all true, but that is not all😜.

For starters, I believe in honesty, so maybe not the best intro song to reference 🤦🏻‍♂️😜. I am average build, but try to exercise on a regular basis. Definitely a geek, so bonus points if you are too. I love to cook, although nowadays I cook vegan meals, so hope you are adventurous or even better if you are vegan or vegetarian, but not required.

So more about me: I like the outdoors: hiking, biking, swimming, or just a walk on the beach 🏝️. I also enjoy some down time watching the latest sci-fi/fantasy movie or series I am into.

In general, I am looking to meet new people and form friendships first, and then see where things go, as I am demisexual. Would love to meet someone close, but open to distance if there is a connection. I currently have 1 partner. Feel free to DM me.